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Added: 1000 days ago.
Added by: paula23
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)

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MummyYumYum - 999 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Hun I feel for what you are going through but if I were in your position hun I would not be prepared for anyone to make me feel bad about myself and put me in second place to porn pregnant or not. I would tell him to get a grip and to support you, just because you are pregnant doesnt mean that he is allowed to stop trying to stop making and effort to make you feel pretty and sexy and attractive. Its pron and its something that he can live without its not vital to his life and is not a neccessity so if it is something that hurts you and hurts your confidence it is something that he should be totally prepared to stop and to give up if he loves you and is willing to put you and your feelings first. Secondly I would remind him perhaps of how he might feel if you were to turn him down for sex and then look at other sexy men in magazines and on the internet...I dont think he would like it and even if he says it wouldnt bother him it would. In short hun if it were me I would be giving him an ulitmatum and would make him stop watching porn.

paula23 - 1000 days ago hi everyone, spoke to my bf last nite an said how low it was makin me feel that he looks at porn but doesnt want me he said its because im pregnant and its changed now cause theres a little one in there and that im the mother of his child?! doesnt really make sence to me to be honest, does it u? i told him that it i noticed it before the pregnancy and it must be me, he said its not me,and that i just have a higher sex drive than him. so were gonna have to meat half way, hes getting a porn addiction book(which he doesnt think he needs) but i do!! and im gonna except that sometimes he just doesnt want sex, and try not to take it to heart. it will be hard tho.

Kell310 - 1000 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) My DH and I used to have sex more than we do now. Before I was preggo it was like 1-2 times per week.... now I'm lucky if I get any. We have sex like once every 3 to 4 weeks and it drives me crazy! He doesn't look at porn or magazines for that matter. Sometimes I'll notice spots on his clothes from masturbating. This hurts my feelings that he'd rather masturbate than do it with me. He states that he has fears about the baby and premature birth but I haven't had any problems. It really sucks because I want it more now that I am pregnant.

Cindie - 1000 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) When my husband and I were dating we had sex several times a week. When we married it was around 1-2x every 2 weeks. now it's about 3 or 4x a week when he's not exhausted from work. But I'm pregnant and for some reason whenever I'm pregnant he gets extra horny. lol

Mandy-N-Eoins-Peanut - 1000 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) My partner doesn't have the same sex drive as I do. He could go up to two weeks without sex, whereas I want it all the time, every day. But like any relationship, you have to compromise. We have sex a few times a week and we're both happy with that. If it's not pregnancy related fears keeping your bf at arm's length, then I'd be asking him what the problem is. If he refuses to discuss it, or doesn't even admit you have a problem, then maybe it's time to wonder whether he has a porn addiction. Some men get so wrapped up in porn that us normal gals don't really stand a chance. Ask him to reduce the amount of time he spends watching porn and increase the amount of time he spends with you, on both your pleasures. If he refuses to do even that little bit, it could be time to sit back and decide if you want to live this way.

kristina89 - 1000 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I know how you feel my boyfriend does the same thing it makes me mad ... It sucks

paula23 - 1000 days ago well it was never like this when we didnt live together but we only saw eachother a few times a week, but ever sinse we have lived together i have noticed it even before i was pregnant. so i dont know maybe it is just me not sure have tried to talk bout it but he thinks its my imagination, which it is not. anyone get this or not?

LizetteCheree - 1000 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) ok i see you are 13 weeks pregnant.Has it always been like this??If not maybe he is just scared that he will harm the baby??

paula23 - 1000 days ago my bf always turns me down for sex yet always watches porn begining to think its me, i even watch it with him at times, anyone got any ideas?