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teen pregnancy
Added: 980 days ago.
Added by: tEENMOMMy2b
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Any advice on teen pregnancy? I`m 15 and been together with the father over a year.

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dorolyn - 976 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Girl keep ur head up and disreguard these negative comments! Who is any to say that you wont be with ur boyfriend 5 yrs from now?? I HATE people who just wont keep their mouths shut instead of giving their rude comments! I feel if you dont have anything noce to say then dont say anything nice at all!!

tEENMOMMY2b - 978 days ago Hey ladies thanks 4the advice..you guys helped alott..we are keeping the baby, the hard part is my mom..I have told her and she keeps pressuring me to think about getting an abortion, although she says she will support me no matter what I feel she is making things rily hard for mee..I had a doctors appointment yesterday and I'm kinda worried Cuz we cudn hear the heart beat.. But thank you girls for the advice:)

brendalee - 978 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Kottonkurlz maybe she was on birth control. My SIL got pregnant while taking the pill religiously. Two of my friends got pregnant while on the NuvaRing, one of them twice while on it. My sister got pregnant while on the pill, however miscarried around 12 weeks. You shouldn't be so harsh on someone when you don't know their situation, especially when that person is probably scared out of their mind and has no idea what to do.

talitha - 978 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) kottonkurlz....for me I didn't know in my home we did not talk about sex or periods or boys when I started dating this guy I thought I could run to teh bathroom and pee it all out...he was 4 yrs older than me and basicly convinced me that sex was cool and that he loved me. I was stupid and gulible but after I had my son I did get on BC...I didn't know about planed parenthood and how easy it is to get free BC that may be hard to believe but it's true.

kottonkurlz - 978 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Please don't throw stones at me. For you young ladies out there why didn't you use birth control? Surely you knew that sex cold lead to a baby?

talitha - 978 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I was 15 when I got preg. with my first I turned 16 a mon. before I had him...I married the daddy and then divorced 6 months later he left for the Navy best thing that ever happened to my son. I worked full time and finished my education we had our own place and I bought a car. It wasn't hard the government offers a lot of help. I went to nursing school and remaried at 19 to a great guy who loved my son dearly...we later divorced but he remains a father to my son. I watched my son graduate this year it was wonderful...he is a blessing I am now 34 if I think about my life I wouldn't change a thing my son and i are very close Faith and Prayer are what has brought us through my son is a youth pastor every one said that we would never make it that he would end up on drugs and I would end up preg. again before 19 but God had other plans and all I new was that I wanted this baby and would be the best mom I could be. Feel free to write me any time...my life is an open book!

elizzyc59 - 979 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) i am 14 n im going to have my baby boy in sept, 2 months b4 i turn 15. so im in da same situation as u.....my babys daddy is 21 thou n we live together so its diff....but i can tell u to keep ur baby b/c ur baby is a gift from God...finish ur education for the sake of urself n ur baby!! dnt let anyone pull u down/ make u feel bad about what u did.....wats done is done.....now just try to make better desions!!! live for the future...its goin to be harder to acheive what you want but its not impossible, n it is possible that you n ur babys daddy will stay together for ever.....(ive seen it happen) all thou it is very rare... i wish you da best of luck!!!

nicnmicsmom - 979 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) gosh..that sounded harsh. Sorry...

nicnmicsmom - 979 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) You should prepare yourself to be a single mother. You should prepare yourself to have to take care of this child for the next 18 years. You should prepare to get a full time job or hope you have family help to watch your child while you continue with your education. I don't mean to sound harsh but a child is not a toy. A child will TAKE more love than it will ever give. And you may be close the child's father now...but I can almost guarantee he won't be around in 5 years. What were you thinking? You're a child yourself. Is using birth control that difficult? I don't understand why you would take that chance....I really don't. I wish you much luck because you're going to need it. Being a mother is difficult .... Not the answer I'm sure you were looking for. But it IS the truth.

cherryzz - 979 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Well Im 19 and pregnant with my second. But im married and own a house. So I cant exactly say I know what your going through. Being pregnant was hard last time I hated it. But I did fine. But remember boys that age dont always stick around. A LOT of girls I know got pregnant that young, and NONE of them are still with the babies father. I know a girl who is 15 and pregnant, and single right now who is due next month. I used to look after that girl. And I have a friend who is 19 and pregnant and not with the dad. It doesnt matter how old you are. Being a mom is hard. There is no right time to get pregnant. Although at 15 you shouldnt be. You need family support. I almost died having my daughter, and I wouldnt have done it without my mom, and wonderful husband.

juels101 - 979 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Think as much as you can of the posatives. There is nothing you can do but prepare and be posative. I know it'll be hard for a very young couple but I've heard of counceling helping a LOT in these situations, to work anything out that's there and to make sure your on the same page. Make sure you have lot's of support outside of your boyfriend.

happyforest - 979 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) hello, when i was in high school my best friend got pregnant. it was hard for her of course, but YOU CAN DO IT!! she decided to keep the baby, there was no other option for her she said. stay in school and dont let anyone else get you down. you are going to have to grow up a lot faster than your schoolmates, and they dont understand. you will realize who your real friends are... have you signed up for WIC and medicaid? she got all of her formula and medical bills paid for. im glad the father is still with you, but dont rely on him for EVERYTHING bc sometimes men dont stick around after they realize all the responsibilities they will have, especially so young. find some people who really support you guys, like your family or his family, and your best friends. don't be afraid to ask for help. there are so many people out there who can and will help. check for resources in your community, such as a crisis pregnancy center or something. they will give free counseling and supplies most of the time. and also after the baby is born you can get on free or reduced birth control! good luck, i have confindence you can be GREAT mother. lots of people are quick to judge bc of age, but age doesnt matter as long as you are a good mother :)

teenmom2♥Braelyn nd Sophia♥ - 979 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Hey hun. I'm currently 17. I just had my 2nd baby a lil over A week ago. My first daughter will b 1 next month. I was 15 when I got preg and 16 when I had her. Unfortunantely both of my daughters have a different dad but life goes on. Things r gonna change alot. And u need as much support as u can get. Feel free to chat with me if u have any questions. Stay beautiful _xO

teenmom2♥Braelyn nd Sophia♥ - 979 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Hey hun. I'm currently 17. I just had my 2nd baby a lil over A week ago. My first daughter will b 1 next month. I was 15 when I got preg and 16 when I had her. Unfortunantely both of my daughters have a different dad but life goes on. Things r gonna change alot. And u need as much support as u can get. Feel free to chat with me if u have any questions. Stay beautiful _xO

sheenat3 - 979 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) well i was 15 when i got pregnant and 16 when i had my daughter. without the support/help from my parents i wouldnt have the degree that i have today. things are going to really change but in a good way if you are positive about it. one thing is true i couldnt see my life without my baby.

klo0426 - 980 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) The only thing I can say is expect things to change completely around you. As PrinncessR said, look up Kaylynn on this site(she's on my page also). She is doing wonderful and is your age....I'd try to chat with her.

♥PrincessR♥ - 980 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Hey hun. Im friends with a girl called Kaylynn (you can find her on my page) who is the same age as you and due in September. Would be good for you to chat to someone else whos in your position, and your age and see how shes got on. Hope it all goes well for you. xx