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sex after baby Added: 976 days ago. Added by: nevertooyoung19 Section: General. Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)
Durring delivery i had a very small (no stitches needed) tear. but it want a perineal tear, instead it was my clitoris that tore in half. ouch. anyway my question is, if this has happened to you (or something close to this) how was sex when you got back to it. i am so afraid that it will be painfull since it is so tender still (2 weeks). i mean it sometimes hurt when i am standing, ike i have a bunch of pressure on it. so anyway i really enjoy sex and i hope it wont be ruined now, so let me know what you know PLEASE!!!
LoveChild
- 975 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes)
It's best to wait awhile after having a baby period b/c it's going to hurt. Trust me. After my 1st, I waited 3 months! We tried like 2 times and it was a NO GO! I had to stop it....this time, I waited 2 1/2 months just b/c I was so nervous, but things were a lot easier this time. :) Be patient and if you're not ready then don't do it. Good luck and CONGRATS! I didn't realize you had your baby! :)
nutnut
- 975 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes)
i have a peri tear. they stitched me, but the stitches didnt work, so i still have the small tear. i always wondered if this would affect carrying another child but was afraid to ask anyone about it. i wish i could help but i didnt tear that high up. i guess i will find the nerve to ask my dr. about it tomorrow. something else to add to my list of quetions lol. i would just be super careful if i were you and make sure you heal fully. dont be afraid to go back to the dr if you notice stitches not holding. or if youre in pain. tell the dr. i was too afraid to and here i am still concerned about it.
mathew102508
- 975 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes)
i tore 5 times. 3 of which was up by the clitoris. I was in so much pain for the full 6weeks. I couldnt even pee without crying for the first 2 weeks. But once i had sex at 7 weeks, There was no discomft at all. Just make sure you heal fully.
novinsmommy09
- 976 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes)
i didnt have that happen i had to be cut and had like 10 stitches, i waited like 3 1/2 weeks until i had sex, it was definately uncomfortable and still is for the first couple mins and its been 7 weeks now