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please any advise would help
Added: 947 days ago.
Added by: jastinel
Section: General.
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hi,i have been dealing with a serious issue since april 2009,i really need advise so i hoping you guys can help,my dad was admitted to the hospial in april for brain caner melanoma had sugery did radiation,thn found out he had signs of cancer on his spleen ,lung then he came home was do better now went back in a week ago,found out the caner spread to lymph nodes and inopropal in is liver,they have hospice commming when they send him home and his cancer is aggressive,what do i do,i want to cry and be upset but i dont want to loose my baby ,i dont want to be selfish and have no hear and not show feelings what do i do ,my dad is dying,and i am pregnant and know if you get upset things can happen please anyone help me

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babyno3fg - 947 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) im going to say the same as everyone else love i cant see getting upset about something like this could hurt your baby but if your really that worried about it i would go to your mf and ask her for advice because beleive me your grief will come out sooner or later hope my advice has helped you xx

juels101 - 947 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Grief will most certainly not hurt your baby. Emotions won't have a negative effect on your growing baby, it's just a myth!!! A serious depression or something like that could, but normal emotions don't, like grief. I wouldnt hold things in!!! It will be more healthy for the both of you if you let your feelings out. So sorry for what's going on! You and your family are in my prayers!!! <3

RobinG - 947 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I have faced two sisters with aggressive cancer during pregnancy and a mom dying while pregnant too so I def know what you are facing ((((big hugs)))) Allow yourself to grieve, holding it in will be worse on you and more stressful. You need to tell your dad all that you ever wanted. It is very very hard but in doing this it is easier. (hard to explain and understand) I lost my sister to aggressive cancer in April and the time leading up to holding her hand telling her I loved her and telling her to tell mom I said hello and asking her to send me a butterfly to let me know she is heaven was SO painful and stressful but once I did those things I was more able to cope and grief and face each moment and bond wiht her through the final days. ((((big hugs))) Your baby will do ok, just talk to your doc. My mom and stepdad both were dying when I had my first and it was so hard on me but my baby did fine and is healthy. My MIL's bro died suddenly while she was pregnant from a tragic accident and her baby did fine too (()) hugs ~ I am so sorry ~ :(

Its-Chelle - 947 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) im so sorry to hear about your dad..my prayers go out to you. i know its hard to keep in emotions, its not good to keep them bottled up either..if you need to cry then do so. it is a way of letting off steam and releasing stress. i dont know what else to say,just hang in there..god bless