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Having sex so soon
Added: 941 days ago.
Added by: MiZz.ShaRp3
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)


I just recently had my little girl 12 days ago...and my husband is going crazy he is Horney as hell and he wants to have sex but I`m afraid I`m going to tare the stitches I got!!! Is this right?? So my question is TMI um would it do anything if I did anal?? LOL sry tmi...my stiches don`t hurt anymore and I think they are healed but I don`t know if its good to have sex 12 days after having a baby and tareing!??? Please help me...would it be bad or do anything by having any kind of sex so soon????

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kristina89 - 941 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I think it would be ok .... I had stitches and I wanted to have sex so bad after the baby was born but my doctor told me no not till 6 weeks my boyfriend asks me to have anal but it hurts when you havent done it for a long time good luck though

hannahe - 941 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) ouch!!! i would tell him to suck it up...or you could suck it up...gross sorry that came out bad. but it is painful to have stitches in your vag and then it would be really painful to have them ripped out. i say oral vs. anal really

femi - 941 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) ooooh this just gave me chills all over 'cause, around 12 days, i didn't want anything near my private part! HAHAHA! i would say be very very very careful and he needs to be super gentle 'cause what would happen if you injured that tender area where you got stitches? you don't want to be sore any longer than you need to be! but yeah, i asked this question for fun when my daughter was around six weeks and i was shocked at how many women answered that they had had sex before the six week mark. so, in short, only you and your husband know what boundaries are good for y'all! Good luck and have fun! :oP

**Candace**4 - 941 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I wouldn't do it yet. Even though you had a "vaginal" birth, everything down there is out of whack for a few weeks. You are a very nice wife for offering anal...much nicer than me lol...maybe go the oral route and wait another week before ANY penetration. I have had 4 babies, and that would be my advice. Good luck.

brendalee - 941 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I did it a week after my LO was born, if it hurts, than don't do it but if you're fine then why not lol

happyforest - 941 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) i wouldnt, bc even if it is anal, there is still going to be pressure put on the stitches and tear, and also the rubbing and everything else that goes on down there lol. if they arent feeling bad now, you are lucky...dont do anything to mess them up!

princess225 - 941 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) It depends on how gentle he decides to be, u can take that chance if u want bc I waited like 3 weeks mayb a month my last pregnancy. Just b careful n keep some pain pills handy bc if it tears its gonna hurt!

luvbeingamom - 941 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I think if you are sore at all it is prob not a great idea, but generally if you had stitches it will effect anal sex as much as regular. I would check yourself out with a mirror, if it looks well healed and you are ok, then i would try, if it hurts or burns then stop. Good luck!

ilovemylittleprince - 941 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) if you had stiches down to the butthole it could still tear and its gonna be really sore just so you know lol. i had sex 3 1/2 weeks pp