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Do I sound crazy?
Added: 936 days ago.
Added by: mama-sl0p
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)


I had my son last October. I LOVE him to death. I just found out I am pregnant with number 2. Is it possible to love the new baby as much as I love my Son? I KNOW this sounds super CRAZY and I feel bad thinking about it. But, I can`t imagine loving two people this much!

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mama-sl0p - 934 days ago Thank you everyone! I feel better. Now I realize that I am not the only crazy one haha jk :)

♥ ħhlЄy ▫ ßєär ®♥ - 935 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I was the same way! I felt guilty like I was replacing him and I thought there was no way my second would be as loved as my first. HA -- I learned very quickly that you don't divide the love between your kids..you MULTIPLY it :)))))

LoveChild - 935 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) My blog is called "A Mothers Heart"....check it out....it's perfect for you :)

LoveChild - 935 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) DEFINITLY! It's not a crazy question, it's a normal question b/c I did the same thing! My 1st is going on 7 years and I know her so well and I couldn't imagine loving someone/anyone more than her. I just had my 2nd child about 4 months ago and it a very short time for me to fall in love with her!!! It's unexplainable.....I have a blog about this if you are interested and it's really good! :) You'll be soooooooooooooo fine Mama! I promise you! :) A mother's heart is so amazing, no matter how many children we have.....they're ours! :)

sheenat3 - 935 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) no you dont. my first is nine and i am pregnant now and being pregnant has amplified my love for the first one and i know it will be as strong for the new one

JuliMomOf4 - 935 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Not crazy at all. I thought the same when I got pregnant with my second. I'm now pregnant with my 5th and I have no idea where on earth all this love comes from!!!! I love all of them equally and couldn't imagine not having them. They are the light of my life.

xbabybeanx - 935 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) No you don't sound crazy at all i thought the same thing when i was pregnant with my second daughter i think its quite natural. I don't think you can imagine loving anybody else like you love you current child but you'll see when your new baby is born you will love them just the same. My oldest is now 6 and she was 5 and a hlaf when I had My baby last october so we'd spent a long time on our own. Now i can't imagine just having her and i love them both dearly. xx

tylersmommy54 - 936 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) you don't sound crazy at all hun,i have been wondering the same cause i know i wanna try for #2 in a few years but that same question has been on my mind and i thought i was the only one wondering

mommy-ofa-boy - 936 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) i just heard this i thought was so cute... when you have another child you dont divide the love you multiply it and love them for the individuals they are

babyx2 - 936 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I felt the same when I learned I was pregnant again when my first born was only 4 months old! Now I am 5 months pregnant and know that I will never love one more than the other, although my love and experiences I have with my son will always be "the 1st times". Congratulations and enjoy!

christinesc - 936 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I think a lot of people feel this way. I know I have at times. I think it's perfectly normal. Good luck!