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I need to talk to someone
Added: 900 days ago.
Added by: roftenrasta93
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)

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rickettsrules - 900 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Maybe you can write her a letter, and tell her that you're sorry about how you acted, and that you acted that way to cover up the fact that you actually admire her courage. Tell her the truth; you think she's a brave woman, and that you yourself still have so much growing up to do. Tell her in the letter that you understand that she may never want to see you again after the way you acted, however you had to let her know it was nothing she did or said. Nutnut is right, you might have to appologise so she knows you think of her and regret what you did, but she might not want you around her after what you've done. We all make mistakes in life; those of us who are smart learn from them.

nutnut - 900 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) child birth isnt whats painful. whats painfull is the stuggle the rest of her life will be. the only thing you can do is apologize and move on, and learn from your mistakes. dont apologize so you feel better, apologize for her, then leave her alone. If she wants you as her friend, she will let you know. If not, well then I guess you learned the hard way. Not to sound mean or anything, but I wouldnt want you any where near me or my child. I would forgive you if you apologized, but you would need to go on with your life and stay away from me. good luck.

roftenrasta93 - 900 days ago Ok. I am new to the site so apologies if I can't work it right. The story is this. I am a 16 year old girl and I am not pregnant. I know nothing of the agonies of childbirth. But I have been cruel to a teenage mother; not on purpous, but I hate knowing that I have been callous and unsupportive to someone who has been through pain that I can't even imagine. I was basically, I suppose, just hormonal and desperate to impress her. I threw a bottle at her car, showed off a lot, smoked a joint, and completely avoided any mention of her baby. I was completely self-centered. The thing is, the baby happens to have a similar name to me so..well I didn't even mention her, but I behaved like a pig. I see now what I should have done was talk to her about the baby and support her for being such a good mother. Now there's nothing I can do; she certainly doesn't want my apology and I don't know when I'll get another chance to make it better for her and be friends. I know I've upset her; I heard her say she can't stand me, and quite rightly. And I see it in people's eyes that they know what I've done, and I know that I've been stupid. But I'm not going to contact her; the best thing to do now is completely leave her alone. The thing is, every day I wish I could be with her, make it all better for her and be supportive and loving. But I can't and it's annoying. I am angry when I can't even be nice to someone so brave as to have a baby at the age of 16. And the disgusting thing is that I really don't know nothing about it; I still get carried away and see deep romance in the concept of periods! So please tell me what should I do. Coz I feel so pissed off over how I treated her and I can't put it right. My attitude was totally disgusting. And you know what, I wish I knew exactly how painful childbirth is. Then maybe I would get some cop-on and quit being so stupid. :(

jastinel - 900 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) ok what is the situation let me know

larryslady - 900 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) What's wrong boo!!!