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What would you do??
Added: 133 days ago.
Added by: vickiessecret
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)


Ok, so my friend think`s she may be pregnant. She`s suposed to be my best friend, when I was pregnant with my first she never came around, missed my baby shower and bought me 2 onsies, and that was it, after she said she had all this stuff..I didn`t see any of it. Then she did come in for her 1st birthday and bought her 1 outfit. She wanted to be godmother too. I didn`t ask her to be godmother. So if she is pregnant, if you were me, would you go to her shower or just blow if off like she did and only buy her what she bought my daughter. I`m not gonna go crazy on her when she didn`t do anything for me. What would you do? Thanks :)

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jennymomof3 - 132 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) 2 wrongs don't make a right is what I say. I think you should be the bigger person and do unto others as you would what them to do unto you no matter if you feel mad about the situation.

amber-lamber - 132 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I have a "best friend" who's exactly the same, I'm 27 weeks now and I probably haven't even seen her in over a month (and she lives 5 min away). She's got a boyfriend now who is more important apparently. But to answer your question, if she were to get pregnant I don't think I'd go too out of my way for her...I know it seems rude maybe, but I'm also trying to put some distance between us, because why have a best friend who is so unreliable? And she also wants to be godmother to my baby-absolutely not gonna happen.

Its-Chelle - 133 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) i would have the same mentality, why go out of my way if a friend didnt do the same for me. but thats not who i am. i treat people the way i wish to be treated..you just have to base a decision on that. if you did the same as her is it going to make you feel better after? otherwise if thats not the kind of person you are then buy up some stuff, dont go crazy but in the end you ought to feel good about it. besides its for her baby not her right? good luck..

amandita - 133 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) i wouldnt bother... iv gotten to the stage in my life were im sick of my friends that i do everything for n they do nothing in return i know it sounds selfish but i have my own family to worry bout n if they have no time for me or engery to put thought into things then from now on im the same... i find since iv changed my ways and not given these people the time of day and treat them the same... im so much happier ! and now iv cleaned out my friends lol i know who are really there for me and who are just dead weight. and life is less stressed. and i have some beautiful people in my life now.

juels101 - 133 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Well I wouldnt go all out money wise, but I would do as I would if she DID do all she said she was going to do. Kill her with kindness, no doubt she KNOWS she shorted you and will feel bad when you act as the friend you thought she was. Not that a best friend needs to spend more money or get you more things, but I don't understand lying about it! Small sentimental things can mean just as much, or more.

MTNWOMAN - 133 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I don't know, if I was you, I would probably still show up, not necessarily spend a lot of money, but go and still support my friend. Then again I have people tell me that I let people walk all over me too easily. I just would rather know that I am happy with the effort I put out, regardless of what the other person did.

Mommy2Chloe - 133 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I had a friend like that too. I was there for her when she had her 1st baby but she was never there for me at all. Didn't come to my shower or even to see me in the hospital or even after I got home. So, she's pregnant again and I haven't even made any effort whatsoever. With my "friend" it a whole lot more than her just not showing up to stuff for me. So, if I were you, I'd just make the same effort as she did with you. I plan to do the same with my "friend"...

Sarah - Hopeful for 2010 baby - 133 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I would just do for her what she did for your daughter. If she couldn't be bothered to make an effort for you why should you make an effort for her.