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Added: 827 days ago.
Added by: vamama
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)


I haven`t seen this girl I use to hang out with in four or 5 years her and her mom stop by and I slipped up and said I get a ssi check do u think I should have told her this information and also I told her I get tanf I don`t know if she would spread it around being I haven`t talked to her I regret saying it I don`t want nobody thinking im just sitting at home getting a check.

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nutnut - 827 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) whats done is done, whats said is said. who cares if she talks? you do what you need to do to take care of your family, dont worry about what other people think. my grandmother used to say "if ppl dont like what they lookin at they dont have to look". same thing here, if ppl dont like something about you, they dont have to talk to you, be around you, let alone be friends with you. its their loss. i think maybe you should look into going to college or some sort of trade school. the president increased the amount of money mom's get if they go back to school. child care costs may even be covered as well. if you do something like this, you will feel alot better about yourself and where youre at in your life. it will also give you means to accomplish more for your family too. all those things that other people have, dont worry about. just worry about how youre going to get where you want to be. good luck to you!

vamama - 827 days ago Thanks im a 20 year old I just don't feel like im doing nothing with my life. The people I went to school with are bragging about how they got a job and a car I don't have that but im working on it I just thought it was the wrong thing to discuss with that person .

3rd - 827 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) women are ENTITLED to stay at home and look after their children - if you need state help to do so, then you need it. As simple as that. What mother, in their right mind, would WANT to pay someone else an extortionate amount of money to look after their child and zap their paycheck anyway? It's not worth it. Screw what anyone else thinks. If you know you were a hard worker before your children and will be again once they are a little older, then sod them. If you've paid INTO the system for long enough, then you're entitled to get a little bit back out of it when you need it.