Breastfeeding
Baby and breast are the perfect feeding team!
For the best nutrition, breastmilk is the best food to feed a baby. It is made specifically to meet the nutritional needs of babies. Human breastmilk changes as the baby grows to offer the best nutrients for the baby. It has over 1000 components - many of these have not been duplicated in infant formula.
Over the past 25 years, research has continued to show that breastmilk is better than infant formula. In fact, more studies are released each year showing that there are health risks to the baby and the mother when they do not breastfeed.
Infant formula should be seen as a `safety net` for babies who cannot breastfeed and not as an equal replacement.
Many common illnesses, such as colds, flu, skin infections or diarrhea, cannot be passed through breast milk. In fact, if a mother has an illness, her breast milk will contain antibodies to it that will help protect her baby from those same illnesses.
Baby and Breast- A Perfect Feeding TeamKnowing what to expect and how to deal with setbacks in breastfeeding can help ease the adjustment that you and your newborn will go through as you take on breastfeeding. Nursing comes naturally but it does take a while for the mom and baby to get in sync with one another.
How to breastfeed:
Get into a comfortable position. Whatever position is comfortable for you and for the baby is a good position to use.
Position your baby facing your nipple.
Support your breast with your free hand. Keep your fingers off your areola, which the baby needs to grasp.
Gently tickle the baby's lips with your nipple until the mouth is opened wide. Then, move your breast closer.
Don't stuff the nipple into an unwilling mouth. Let the baby take the initiative.
Make sure the baby latches on to the nipple and areola. Sucking on just the nipple will not compress the milk glands. It will also cause soreness and cracking.
If your breast is blocking your baby's nose, lightly depress the breast with your finger. Be careful not to loosen your baby's grasp of the areola.
If the baby has a strong steady rhythmic motion that is visible in the cheek, then most likely the baby is attached and sucking well.
When finished or repositioning the breast, don't yank your breast out of the baby's mouth. This will cause injury to the nipple.
Don't be tempted to skip or skimp on feedings because of pain. The less the baby eats, the worse the pain will be.
Brochure downloads:Ten Steps to Support Parents` Choice to Breastfeed Their Baby (pdf)
101 reasons to Breastfeed Your Child (pdf)
Breastfeeding Basics
* Start as soon as possible after birth
* Be patient and calm
* Don't try to feed a screaming baby
* Ask for help when you need it
Breastfeeding is a learned skill that becomes easier over time. You are more likely to succeed with long-term breastfeeding by having a plan, becoming familiar with basic techniques, learning how to handle minor physical problems and getting help quickly when you need it.
How the Baby is Preparing for BreastfeedingBefore they are born, babies begin learning important skills that will help them breastfeed. Teaching mothers about these skills can increase their confidence in the baby`s ability to nurse at birth.
- By the time a mother is 11 weeks (almost 3 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to swallow. Babies swallow amniotic fluid in the uterus.
- By the time a mother is 24 weeks (6 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to suck. Babies spend a lot of time with their hands close to their mouth before birth. Babies are often seen sucking on their thumb, fingers or hands during an ultrasound exam.
- By the time a mother is 32 weeks (8 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to root for the breast. The baby will turn its head if touched on the cheek and open its mouth if the bottom lip is tickled. By this time the baby can also suck and swallow in a coordinated way.
- By the time a mother is 37 weeks (9 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to coordinate sucking, swallowing and breathing so it can do all three when breastfeeding after birth. Babies practice shallow breathing before birth using amniotic fluid.
Breastfeeding Tips
- Breastfeed your baby on demand rather than setting a strict schedule, especially in the first few months.
- Taking care of yourself will also help you to establish your milk supply. Eat right and get rest when you are able.
- Avoid bottle-feeding your baby breast milk until breastfeeding and milk supply are well-established, which is usually about 4 to 6 weeks. This helps build your milk supply. Not using bottles also helps prevent your baby from developing nipple confusion, which is a preference for an artificial nipple over the breast.
- Look for signs that your baby is getting enough milk, such as eagerness to eat and feeding sessions that last at least 15 to 25 minutes. By 6 days of age, your baby should need about 6 to 8 diaper changes, settle well after feeding and usually awaken on his or her own to feed every 1 to 3 hours. Talk to your doctor if you have any concerns.
- Help clear blocked milk ducts by using warm compresses and massaging your breasts before and during feedings. Also, breastfeed more frequently and in different positions. Offer your baby the affected breast first at each feeding.
- You can help relieve the pain from sore or cracked nipples with drops of expressed breast milk or lanolin creams.
The color of your breastmilkThe first milk is called `colostrum.' Colostrum is a clear, yellowish fluid. It is rich in protein, nutrients and antibodies, which protect the baby from infection. By starting to nurse the baby right after birth, the baby will benefit from the colostrum and the `mature milk` will come in sooner. Colostrum changes to `mature milk` sometime in the first 1 to 7 days.
`Mature` breastmilk may look blue in color. The milk that comes out first during a feeding (foremilk) is thinner and watery. The milk toward the end of a feeding (hindmilk) looks thicker. It is richer and higher in fat. If a woman pumps her milk, the fat (or `cream`) will separate easily and rise to the top.
Comments: Breastfeeding
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1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 Nextcampimama -
44 min. ago.
alh06- Go for it! If baby is only nursing on one side- pump away! That way you can get a freezer stock going. Everybody has a different system, and if that works for you, great!!
horseygal- We have two cats, after the way my daughter chased them around and pulled on them, they pretty much leave my son alone. We kept her door closed during the day and they didn't wander into her room much. If we did catch them in the crib we squirted them with water and they learned fast. Both baby and animals have to learn to live with each other. The other suggestion of locking them away at night is a viable solution as well... momof3krzyboys -
1 hours ago.
My Griffin is now 10 weeks old and loves to suck his hands from time to time when he is alert, anyone else's baby turn into a thumb sucker after displaying this behavior? momof3krzyboys -
1 hours ago.
Horseygal, when my oldest was born we had a spare room that we kept the litterbox and food dishes in and we 'captured' our kitties every night and closed them in there. They never seemed to mind. Now that we have a house though we have 2 dogs and our golden manages to keep the cats away from my room:) He's about 1 and a half and the cats are not fans of being chased LOL! alh06 -
1 hours ago.
quick question -- does anyone know if you can feed the baby and pump on the other side at the same time? I've read baby should eat from both sides, but some don't, so i wasn't sure if I could pump from the side he isn't eating from so that i keep up w/ production and multi-task at the same time :)
horseygal -
8 hours ago.
Ash-
Mix away. You can safely store breastmilk in the fridge for up to seven days. Sadie falls asleep in her own bed, and then when she wakes to nurse spends the rest of the night in bed with me. When she sleeps consistently through the night we will put her in her own room. Question though, I have two cats. Right now I shut my bedroom door so it's not an issue when we're sleeping, but I didn't want to have to close her door to her room. What are you all doing about the kitties? I'm afraid they'll try to sleep on her or something, they try to jump in her crib all the time!! mickyg0606 -
13 hours ago.
I use the Alfalfa to increase the fat in my milk and I noticed a huge difference after I started using it. When my milk separates, the top layer is so thick it looks like butter. Plus my son is 10 months old and weighs 26.5 lbs so I am assuming the alfalfa has something to do with it. I highly recommended it if your little one needs to put on a little weight. Plus there are tons of good vitamins in alfalfa which is an extra benefit. I buy mine at Walmart for super cheap. I think it is $3 for 100 tablets. campimama -
15 hours ago.
momtoallboys- I just did some research really quick and they do not advise you take alfalfa while pregnant as it can cause the uterus to contract and induce early labor. I did not have a problem with the fat content of my milk, so I never used the alfalfa. When I wrote my blogs, I tried to include any suggestions that women had made on the forum. That was one that someone had tried and recommended. Also, the fermented oats is just old fashioned oatmeal and water (equal amounts) soaked on the counter for at least 8 hours...then just pop it in the microwave for a couple minutes and voila. I had some MAJOR supply issues for a few months and the oatmeal and malt got me through it. Just ask if you have any other (?)...There are no stupid questions!! mom.to.all.boys -
16 hours ago.
campimama...do you know if the alfalfa is alright to take a few weeks before birth I would love to see how it works did you try this? The fermented oats is that just plain oatmeal soaked in water over night and then you cook it and eat? Sorry to sound stupid but this sounds great...i have always done the barley for supply but still have never been able to pump and if I could have fatty milk and be able to pump it would really be great. ash070658 -
16 hours ago.
question! ive been pumpin all day and only getting like 2oz so ihave about 2.5oz from like 2days ago then another 2oz from today and i just pumped 2more that i am going to put n the fridge. late tonight i plan on mixing all 3 and making a bottle is this ok or not? the bm from 2days ago should i do that seperate? mountainmama -
17 hours ago.
i've co-slept with my baby off and on throughout the year. i ideally want her in her criib all night (which she's been doing for the last month or so) but there were many nights when she wanted to nurse every 1-2 hours (or more) & i needed to sleep (work full time). pull off the heavy covers, put the mattess on the floor and send my poor hubby to the other room (he snores anyway) and we were good to go. i was scared about having her sleeping in my bed--everyone seems to say that once they're in your bed it's really really hard to get them out. but it hasn't been the case for us. right now she's only waking up once, maybe twice a night to nurse, which is big accomplishment for her. horseygal -
17 hours ago.
last.one-Thats about as much milk as I ever get. Try having a 'boob only' zone, like your bed or something. Or try laying down in bed with him when you nurse, that's Sadies favorite, falling asleep with a nipple hanging out of her mouth:) otirahc -
17 hours ago.
Kelly-roo: Thanks for your input..but what am saying the lump is under my armpit....i think what youre saying if i have a lump is in the nipple or boobs..but the big lumps are under my armpit...so should i just massage it? thanks again kelly-roo -
17 hours ago.
yay last! ....tonight mine was begging to nurse and I pop her on a boobie. She nursed less then 30 seconds, sat up and burped and went to sleep. Guess breastfeeding is connected to everything. lol last.one.for.me -
20 hours ago.
woohoo - further sucess, I managed to pull off 3-5ozs at each and every feed (2hourly) all of today, I have still made all of Zach's feeds with a ratio of 3ozsBM:2ozsF, but I have managed to save 5ozs, so thats now safely stored in the freezer.. I'm hoping if I continue to pump 2 hourly again for the next few days and pump 10 minutes extra after the steady flow has stopped, I'll increase it a little further.. We bought some oats at the store today and also some malted milk drink and some non alcoholic beers.. hopefully I can increase my supply with frequent pumping and those things and not need to take herbal supplements which I am slightly wary of doing anyway... I'm hoping to see a pretty decent weight gain with Zach a week today - he's been having 5ozs x 5 times a day now for 6 days already, and this I know for sure because it's been expressed.. I tried to put him to my breats tonight, for a 'mummy snack' but although he really seemed like he wanted to, he wasnt having any of it.. that said, he acts like he wants to latch on while he's bottle feeding.. I'm sad he's not nursing directly from me, but glad he's still getting my milk... I even tried to latch him on this morning when he first woke, and it was the first morning he wasnt happy and I had to get up and make a bottle for him - sad times... Can I retrain him tot ake the breast once my supply increases? I guess I Could just withold bottles until he's so hungry he takes it, but that seems a bit cruel to me lol any ideas? I LOVE nursing my little man to sleep in bed and having him pop on and relieve my hard swollen boobs in the morning too, it's comforting to me as well as to him.. horseygal -
1 days ago.
Last.One-My friends preemie was super slow to gain. She ended up nursing and giving her supplements with breastmilk bottles. It worked-so i think you figured out the solution. Oh yeah, her doc said not to expect weight gain every week, but every month. My 15lber hasn't gained anything in like 3 weeks, she's leveling out. If it is low fat, then the extra bottle should make up fot it anyway. campimama -
1 days ago.
Kayvee- Breastfeeding does burn 500+ extra calories per day, so in theory it can help you lose weight. You do have to make sure you are eating enough though for your body to make the milk, so finding a balance can be hard. It took me about 8 months to get it right :P However, most women I think choose to bf because of the major benefits to baby...the extra cal burn for momma is a perk. campimama -
1 days ago.
Thanks for the plug juno =) Last one- I know that you can take alfalfa supplements to help increase your fat content in your milk. You should be able to find it at any health food store. Also, I know you weren't wanting to take anything right now to boost supply, but you might consider eating fermented oats at breakfast (equal amts of old fashioned oatmeal/ water, soaked overnight) so you aren't having to sup with formula...just a thought =) Good luck! juno -
1 days ago.
lastone, look up campimama, she has a blog about increasing milk supply and there's something on there for increasing hindmilk (the fatty part). Just because when you pump you don't get much 'cream' doesn't mean your baby hasn't been getting it when you bf, babies are much better at emptying the breast than pumping. kelly-roo -
1 days ago.
;) Last-one. you can look up diets online to increase the fat in your breastmilk. I doubt the fat content is an issue. If baby is pooping and peeing and gaining(regardless how fast) he is fine. babies gain at different speeds. my Katie was 5.14 at birth , then 12 lbs(piggie) at 2 month, at three months 15 and she's now almost 9 months and 17 lbs. Hasn't gained much in the last few months. last.one.for.me -
1 days ago.
LOL I know the milk separates, my query is that there isn't much 'cream' on the top.. My littleone was born at 8.5lbs, then weighed 9.14lbs at 6 weeks, then only 10.2lbs six weeks later at 12weeks.. I'm wondeting whether the lack of 'fat' on the top could be why he has a rubbish weight gain.. If i had my way i'd nurse directly from the breast til he was 2 years old, but i started expessing with a hospital grade pump to take control and keep an eye on what he was getting as 6ozs weight gain in 6 weeks is worrying, as was my health visitor concerned.. coupled with low supply, i also think its not enough nourishment now, judging by lack of fat, so i have to make up the 3ozs i can pump with 2 ozs of formula until i get a full feed, until my supply increases. My query was with so little fat in my milk, can i afford to feed him solely on breast milk? it might do more harm than good kelly-roo -
1 days ago.
last one ...milk i separating because its in bottle! Shake it up. Breastmilk is always a better choice then formula ....its not man made ;) last.one.for.me -
1 days ago.
Morning ladies - ok.. question.. I've had my hospital grade pump for 2 days now and I've been pumping both sides for 15 minutes every 2 hours... I've only JUST noticed an increase in the amount I get which is about 3ozs from both breasts combined.. I've stopped nursing my son completely as he started to get lazy and preferred the instant flow of the bottle (:[.. However, I;ve also noticed than when my milk settles and separates, there is hardly ANY 'cream' on the top.. could this perhaps be the reason for the extreme poor weightgain? And what can I do to get it back up? I CONSTANTLY stuff my face, I never deny myself and my diet is EXTREMELY good and well balanced.. I eat plenty of fruits, veg, meat, carbs, snack on seeds, nuts, dry fruits, celery, drink plenty of water - and of course eat my fair share of chocolate, sweets cakes and biscuits.. I can't do more than that can I? So far he's 12 weeks old and I;ve been giving him my 3ozs per feed topped up with 2ozs of formula.. Hopefully if I keep on with regular pumping my supply will increase and I can feed SOLELY breaskmilk via a bottle - but then again, if there's not very much fat/calorific content, it may do more harm than good! Help! Kayvee -
1 days ago.
hey ladies, is it true that breast feeding helps you lose the baby weight after the birth?? kelly-roo -
2 days ago.
otirahc,
I've had a ton in the almost 9 months I've breastfed
NURSE NURSE NURSE! AND WATER WATER WATER and S!LEEP
* ....electric pumps are good at pulling the lumps sometimes. Baby is the best at pulling the out.
*make sure your nipple ducts are clogged(will look like a white dot on your nipple). Hot water sometimes breaks it but I've had to have a few broken w/ a needle(sideways ..not into it)
*to push the lump out you can use hot water, massages, shower water running over it, push on it(don't pull) and then once it moves push on that spot.
*I've laid baby on the floor and nursed over her to let gravity and baby work together(it worked awesome once).
*I've heard of people asking there hubs to suck the lump out and I've heard it works.
*expect it to hurt like hell as it works it way out. but once its out you feel so relieved. hope that helps.
Bri -
2 days ago.
Amber, that's awesome! My son didn't latch on until he was over two months old either. He just had a weak suck. He's now 20months and still breastfeeding. I definately feel self weaning if best for them and the WHO recommends 2years. But, once the child is a year you don't need to worry about pumping and breastfeeding for all nutrients.