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sum14noahontheway - 750 days ago.
Hi ladies! I decided to venture more through this site (I'm almost 4 mo. pregnant) to seek advice from you all about my oldest (he's 3). Ok, so I've had troubles with my mother in law regarding my rules for the past 3 years. My son spends EVERY weekend there so I can work. My options are very limited, but I'm willing to work with whatever I can at this point. The worst of it is over now, which means she no longer bathes with him. This comes after several fights and arguments about how I feel about this subject. I understand some people are ok with their little ones seeing them nude, but here, I do not allow it. She knew this and continued to bath with him until he was almost 3. NOW, I'm facing another issue where I have told her repeatedly not to allow him to sleep in her bed with her. He is to sleep in his own bed like at home. He does this every night he is there and when he comes home he expects to be in our bed...which obviously is against my wishes. Like I said, I have faught with her endlessly and now that I'm expecting #2 I'm not looking forward to the stress of another confrontation. This is among many many other things she does against my wishes. If any of you are dealing with simialr issues, please message me. Or even if there is any advice floating out there....oh, and I will also mention that my husband refuses to confront her...he doesnt want to fight either...she can get nasty...BIGGEST problem is, so can I. Thanks girls! anything will help I'm sure :) Sincerely, A very frustrated Ashley.

monica9 - 751 days ago.
momoftoddler- I agree with you and hubby, IGNORE! It gets old really fast if no one is paying attention to it. You can also try redirecting as if you don't even notice it. Good luck....some stages take longer to get out of then others! Our daughter just started this and she is 20 months old. If she is upset with something, she sometimes will slowly sit down on the floor, then lay down, then place her head on the ground and just lye there looking at us without crying. We just put our hand out for her to grab and get up and she does everytime and thats the end up it. its so funny! its the most thought out, gracefull tantrum Ive ever seen!

momoftoddlerandpregnant - 751 days ago.
I know toddlers throw fits and such, but my soon-to-be-15-month-old will get down on the floor, and in a very controlled way, bang his forehead on the ground. He does this if I tell him 'no' or don't give him the thing he's asking for, etc... He does it carefully; he will walk over to a carpeted area, or to a rug before he bangs his head, or if he's on a hard floor, he just bangs his head very carefully. I don't really worry about him hurting himself becuase he is so precise about it, but when other adults see it for the first time they always react negatively. My husband and I ignore it, and we tell others to ignore it, but I just want my son to move onto another stage. I'm hoping we're just in the terrible twos a bit early.

amberlea - 753 days ago.
I dont want to give anyone pure advice, bc I agree with RobinG, if you think there may be a problem then you should contact your doctor. Now it is also important to keep in mind all children are different that is why baby books ect. will tell you not to compare your child with other children. There are many things that could effect the learning and progress of a child. Take a child with older siblings, these children tend to speak a little sooner and more advanced, bc they are around children talking and walking all day. Another important tip is to NOT talk to your children like babies, they will begin speeking as babies. My doctor always told me to talk to my son Kyler as an adult and all the time, about anything!

RobinG - 753 days ago.
I was just talking to my coordinator for Hunters therapy about moms who are concerned about their tots and who they ask for advice and we all agreed that while chats/boards etc like this online are an amazing tool to many parents (myself included) a parent who has a concern should only rely on the advice of a professional, not just other parents. I made the statement 'for peace of mind let a pro tell you they are fine' and they both said that should be a moto for all parents. So with that said you will have some here say your LO is normal and some say she is showing concerns so I say call early intervention and let them do an eval and then tell you one way or another so you know for sure what really is the case. We were hesitant in calling for my son and I guarantee that if I had posted about it many would have said he is fine and will catch up so give him time .. but I didnt, I called... he has a diagnosis and I thank my lucky stars every day for calling Early Intervention!! big hugs, I know it is scary to worry about a concern but it is always best to let someone who really knows what is normal tell you. The County can connect you with EI. they will come and listen to your concerns (its all free) they will do an evaluation and tell you what % of a delay there is IF ANY at all (there may not be a delay :) ) and what to do. You will be glad you did! big hugs, keep me posted :)

mommy12 - 753 days ago.
Hello, I was wondering if any of you have had this problem. My 20 month old ignores me. She does not respond to her name very much and will not fetch something if asked. She has also slowed in speech. She was making small sentences. Now either I cant understand her or she stopped. She babbles constantly. Please tell me she is just being normal.

kwasnicababy - 758 days ago.
My name is Amy and I would like to invite you all with little Princess' to join my group on facebook (Two-Twos) http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/group.php?gid=252122102134&ref=ts We make Tutus and Dresses for infants and toddlers

RobinG - 765 days ago.
bchbldgrl ~ I personally would call a speech therapist through early interventionand let them tell you he is fine or not :) Many ARE fine but there are some that arent as I've seen in my sons special needs playgroup and the earlier they get help the better. Having a speech delay doesnt mean there are always other concerns, it in itself can be the only concern, always best to let a pro tell you (a person who specializes in speech in addition to the Ped (not all peds are 100% right so a 2nd opinion is always best) for the best peace of mind. :) Cause if there is a delay you DEF want help for your LO :) Kids who have speech delay CAN understand you, its their ability to use words themselves so it is wrong for anyone to say that there is no delay if they can understand. Ability to use words in communication in addition to understanding and words is very important. A child can have 300 words in their vobac but if they arent able to use those words effectively in language and communication of needs and a conversation there can be a delay. Language consists of both expressive and receptive language skills. When an evaluation is done they examine both in depth.

mummy to a gorjis boy and bump! - 766 days ago.
bchbldgrl - hiya! .. i had the same problem with my son and i wouldnt worry .. they are all different and his speech will come in time! .. my son will be three in march and still isnt tottally stringing sentences together ... and some of his words still come out mumbo jumbo! ... try not to talk for him ... let him finish his sentences and wen he makes a mistake say the correct word for him and he will start to pick it all up! .. i have been worried about my son too but have been told its fine ... as long as he understands what you say then there is no problem ... i think little boys just take longer with these things .. anyway hope i helped a little! x x

bchbldgrl - 766 days ago.
My son Jackson will be 2 the end of April. My husband & I are getting a little concerned cause he hasn't really started talking yet. Just babbling, etc. When he was like 6-9 months old he did the mama, dada, etc. Now all he really says is 'da-ee' (daddy)..sometimes 'go' for dog (he got go dog go mixed up LOL)...plus we've figured out his 'goya goya goya' means more. =) He understands when we say things to him, like arms up, bath, dinner/yum yum, bottle, etc..he just doesn't really talk. My Pedi isn't too concerned yet...but are any of your little ones doing the same thing?? We read him his books, say & repeat everything...I've had The Your Baby Can Read system for over a year (gonna try starting it again...he wasn't interested when he was 8-10 months old). What else should I do? Any advice would be helpful & soooo appreciated!! THANK YOU!! xo

bchbldgrl - 766 days ago.
My son Jackson will be 2 the end of April. My husband & I are getting a little concerned cause he hasn't really started talking yet. Just babbling, etc. When he was like 6-9 months old he did the mama, dada, etc. Now all he really says is 'da-ee' (daddy)..sometimes 'go' for dog (he got go dog go mixed up LOL)...plus we've figured out his 'goya goya goya' means more. =) He understands when we say things to him, like arms up, bath, dinner/yum yum, bottle, etc..he just doesn't really talk. My Pedi isn't too concerned yet...but are any of your little ones doing the same thing?? We read him his books, say & repeat everything...I've had The Your Baby Can Read system for over a year (gonna try starting it again...he wasn't interested when he was 8-10 months old). What else should I do? Any advice would be helpful & soooo appreciated!! THANK YOU!! xo

mummy to a gorjis boy and bump! - 769 days ago.
thank u! ... yeas i agree i do think he may need a little bit of speech therapy i dont know maybe i am bein a worried mummy n it will al be fine but i am defo going to phone them tomorrow to arrange a visit - wont do any harm getting him checked for a delay of some sort! .. as i said he is a very bright little boy and can do evrything he should for his age counting and singing starting to write his name etc etc so i am not worried about that stuff just think his speech could be a little better for his age! ... and tiffj your little boy will get there with the potty josh is 3 in march and still not tottally trained ... he will use the potty but wants ti=o run around with nothing on!! lol ... i have put trousers on him and he knows he has to pull them down and sit down but always strips! .. plus he wont go near the big toilet yet ... seems like he is scared! x

RobinG - 769 days ago.
mummy to a gorjis boy and bump! ((hugs)) I would have his hearing check as well as have an evaluation done by a professional speech therapist to rule our language delay/ motorplanning or processing concern. Having a large vocabulary and being able to use words are two different things. If he struggles in communication with words he may have a delay. The therapists are amazing and SO helpful!! If you call early intervnetion now before he is 3 it will be covered, once they turn three is isnt sadly.

mummy to a gorjis boy and bump! - 770 days ago.
tiffjd - thnak you and no i have not thought of that! .. i have to see the health visitor soon about my concerns so i will mention that to her!! .. his hearing does seem ok tho he doesnt seem to habe problems with it but u never know! ... he just seems to struggle trying to talk in sentences but he does say words like pee pee in my potty or drink or mummy cuddle etc where as i thought he should be able to say more then just 2 or three word sentences! .. people have said they are all different and he will get there in the end but its frustrating for him! ... he also makes me repeat all his words over and over! x

mummy to a gorjis boy and bump! - 771 days ago.
also my son who is 3 in march is very clever knows all colours numbers etc and can even almost write his name! .. only thing that worries me is his speech i feel he should be a lot further on he can only say 2 word sentences and still a lot of the time his sentences come out mumbo jumbo! lol ... he understands everything and is very bright for his age but the speech gets him frustrated at times as we dont understand him! does anyone else have this problem? x

mummy to a gorjis boy and bump! - 771 days ago.
thank you beautiful bre! .. i have been worrying about this! .. he will be three when the baby comes.. a have told him he is gettin a new baby brother but dont know how much he actually understands! he will srtoke my tummy n give kisses but other times he will say no brother!! im hoping when baby comes he will be ok! thanks x

Beautiful Bre - 771 days ago.
mummy to a gorjis boy and bump! - i have a 2 yr old. and i had a baby almost 4 months ago. my little boy has done wonderful with the new baby. he went to dr visits with me. and was there for the ultra sounds. but he loves his little sister and tries to help so much with her. which is a blessing since they are pretty much two yrs apart. i would try to let him get involved with everything you know. might help. i heard it helped with another lady over wherei live too bring in new toys and things for the baby and tell them about it and who its for. good luck. that was my worst fear was my little boy would hate the new baby.

mummy to a gorjis boy and bump! - 771 days ago.
hi ladies! .. im new to this so bear with me! ... i have a little boy who will be 3 in march and another on the way .. im worried he mite be jelous wen the new baby comes as he is only used to it being him getting the attention! x

mandapnda025 - 845 days ago.
Hi Ladies, I am hardly on this site anymore. Life in the past 6m has gotten really hectic. I need some help and advise regarding my 20m old son. Recently my husband needed emergency back sx and is on diablilty so now we can't afford the house we are renting. We are having to move into a friends house and rent the master bedroom. This means that my son is going to have to share a room with us. He has been sleeping in his own room since he was 6 weeks old. He isnt a deep sleeper at all and he still wakes up in the middle of the night of ten because he is teething. I am having major anxiety about it. If anybody can please give me some tips and pointers that would be amazing.

Beautiful Bre - 859 days ago.
ok so here is my question- i have a 2 year old. since he was born hardly eats. even with formula he would eat and throw it up. up until this past june where he would have been 1 year and 10 months old he finally quit throwing up at leat 3 times a week. no dr can tell me why he does. but he still wont eat. even to this day. and i cant use pediasure. he throws that up to. all he will do is drink milk and juice and water. so how do you get him to actually eat. i can honestly sayi have tried EVERYTHING.

RobinG - 867 days ago.
Def nomral at times, my son never ate when he was cutting teeth, esp morals. And he too acted fine. My guess is that is hwat is happening. So it is possible he is getting some teeth. Pediasure is great to give when eating is low. I wouldnt decrease milk and force food if he isnt wanting it.

Beautiful Bre - 867 days ago.
mari- my son who just turned two did that. and they wont stave themselves. when they are hungry they will eat. but my mother in law said maybe its just them trying to be in control so when we made dinner we just put it on the table and left it and let him for to it. instead of having him sit down and in front of the food. same with the bottles/or sippys. just put them somewhere and have him go to it. and for me it worked. he eats better but he isnt a great eater. i think my son went like a week like how your explaining your son. its soo frustrating and it worries you like crazy.good luck though.

JH - 868 days ago.
jonathan's lump looks like a cyst. not an immediate issue, but will need to be taken out at some point.

RobinG - 869 days ago.
I would still give some motrin ~ just to help just in case ~ but thats just me . And personally I'd rock her ~ but again thats just me ~ I hate the CIO method and refuse to do it. I did it with my son and he choked from vomitting in distress so I vowed I'd never do it again ~ he was big enough to roll over but being in distress from fear and crying wasnt able to ~ ((hugs)) docs arent always right ~

Andreany123044 - 869 days ago.
Thanks so much everyone. I called the doctor and they think its behavioral. Shes not showing any signs of a cold, or ear infection. They told me to let her cry it out and she'll get the idea. I still feel thats harsh. :o( shes my baby..and I HATE hearing her cry for me. Well see what happens tonight. I love this site by the way. I was on it through out my whole pregnancy with her, then after she was born, I had no more time. But i think ill be on more again! Thanks!