Breastfeeding
Baby and breast are the perfect feeding team!
For the best nutrition, breastmilk is the best food to feed a baby. It is made specifically to meet the nutritional needs of babies. Human breastmilk changes as the baby grows to offer the best nutrients for the baby. It has over 1000 components - many of these have not been duplicated in infant formula.
Over the past 25 years, research has continued to show that breastmilk is better than infant formula. In fact, more studies are released each year showing that there are health risks to the baby and the mother when they do not breastfeed.
Infant formula should be seen as a `safety net` for babies who cannot breastfeed and not as an equal replacement.
Many common illnesses, such as colds, flu, skin infections or diarrhea, cannot be passed through breast milk. In fact, if a mother has an illness, her breast milk will contain antibodies to it that will help protect her baby from those same illnesses.
Baby and Breast- A Perfect Feeding TeamKnowing what to expect and how to deal with setbacks in breastfeeding can help ease the adjustment that you and your newborn will go through as you take on breastfeeding. Nursing comes naturally but it does take a while for the mom and baby to get in sync with one another.
How to breastfeed:
Get into a comfortable position. Whatever position is comfortable for you and for the baby is a good position to use.
Position your baby facing your nipple.
Support your breast with your free hand. Keep your fingers off your areola, which the baby needs to grasp.
Gently tickle the baby's lips with your nipple until the mouth is opened wide. Then, move your breast closer.
Don't stuff the nipple into an unwilling mouth. Let the baby take the initiative.
Make sure the baby latches on to the nipple and areola. Sucking on just the nipple will not compress the milk glands. It will also cause soreness and cracking.
If your breast is blocking your baby's nose, lightly depress the breast with your finger. Be careful not to loosen your baby's grasp of the areola.
If the baby has a strong steady rhythmic motion that is visible in the cheek, then most likely the baby is attached and sucking well.
When finished or repositioning the breast, don't yank your breast out of the baby's mouth. This will cause injury to the nipple.
Don't be tempted to skip or skimp on feedings because of pain. The less the baby eats, the worse the pain will be.
Brochure downloads:Ten Steps to Support Parents` Choice to Breastfeed Their Baby (pdf)
101 reasons to Breastfeed Your Child (pdf)
Breastfeeding Basics
* Start as soon as possible after birth
* Be patient and calm
* Don't try to feed a screaming baby
* Ask for help when you need it
Breastfeeding is a learned skill that becomes easier over time. You are more likely to succeed with long-term breastfeeding by having a plan, becoming familiar with basic techniques, learning how to handle minor physical problems and getting help quickly when you need it.
How the Baby is Preparing for BreastfeedingBefore they are born, babies begin learning important skills that will help them breastfeed. Teaching mothers about these skills can increase their confidence in the baby`s ability to nurse at birth.
- By the time a mother is 11 weeks (almost 3 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to swallow. Babies swallow amniotic fluid in the uterus.
- By the time a mother is 24 weeks (6 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to suck. Babies spend a lot of time with their hands close to their mouth before birth. Babies are often seen sucking on their thumb, fingers or hands during an ultrasound exam.
- By the time a mother is 32 weeks (8 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to root for the breast. The baby will turn its head if touched on the cheek and open its mouth if the bottom lip is tickled. By this time the baby can also suck and swallow in a coordinated way.
- By the time a mother is 37 weeks (9 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to coordinate sucking, swallowing and breathing so it can do all three when breastfeeding after birth. Babies practice shallow breathing before birth using amniotic fluid.
Breastfeeding Tips
- Breastfeed your baby on demand rather than setting a strict schedule, especially in the first few months.
- Taking care of yourself will also help you to establish your milk supply. Eat right and get rest when you are able.
- Avoid bottle-feeding your baby breast milk until breastfeeding and milk supply are well-established, which is usually about 4 to 6 weeks. This helps build your milk supply. Not using bottles also helps prevent your baby from developing nipple confusion, which is a preference for an artificial nipple over the breast.
- Look for signs that your baby is getting enough milk, such as eagerness to eat and feeding sessions that last at least 15 to 25 minutes. By 6 days of age, your baby should need about 6 to 8 diaper changes, settle well after feeding and usually awaken on his or her own to feed every 1 to 3 hours. Talk to your doctor if you have any concerns.
- Help clear blocked milk ducts by using warm compresses and massaging your breasts before and during feedings. Also, breastfeed more frequently and in different positions. Offer your baby the affected breast first at each feeding.
- You can help relieve the pain from sore or cracked nipples with drops of expressed breast milk or lanolin creams.
The color of your breastmilkThe first milk is called `colostrum.' Colostrum is a clear, yellowish fluid. It is rich in protein, nutrients and antibodies, which protect the baby from infection. By starting to nurse the baby right after birth, the baby will benefit from the colostrum and the `mature milk` will come in sooner. Colostrum changes to `mature milk` sometime in the first 1 to 7 days.
`Mature` breastmilk may look blue in color. The milk that comes out first during a feeding (foremilk) is thinner and watery. The milk toward the end of a feeding (hindmilk) looks thicker. It is richer and higher in fat. If a woman pumps her milk, the fat (or `cream`) will separate easily and rise to the top.
Comments: Breastfeeding
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1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 Nextlorelaismom -
1 hours ago.
momof3 - have you tried to use your finger as a pacifier? This worked for us for both of our girls. It's pretty similar to a nipple (at least a lot more than a pacifier) and then you're not being sucked to death. lol momof3krzyboys -
2 hours ago.
MiamiMom he hates the nuk, absoluyly refuses to take one, and I tried about 6 different types, he just doesn't like them. One thing I forgot to mention is he co-sleeps which is how the comfort nursing got started. I am not willing to put him in a crib or playpen, I love our sleeping arrangement, I just hate how often he wakes me. I am way too tired and lazy to get up during the night to rock, have tried singing and patting his butt, etc. Most of the time at bedtime he is still awake after he nurses then I rock or bounce him to sleep and it works fine. But this happened with my older sons also and I just suffered through until we stopped nursing at 18 months. Griffin turned 7 months today, I just don't want to keep doing this part, it makes me so crabby and tired all the time. I had the no-cry sleep solution and maybe I should get it again. I don't know, very frustrating, I don't know what it is that I do that makes my kids do this. deeyore486 -
5 hours ago.
2babys-under2, the first six weeks are the hardest!!! Medela does have nipple shells that you wear between feedings that keep the shirt and bra off the nipples and lets the air get to them. Helps them heal a little bit faster. :) blessedx4 -
8 hours ago.
2babies-under2-I went throught the exact same thing. I am still nursing, Ohh I was so close to giving up!!! It hurt so bad, I had tears in my eyes, and my toes curled up. My baby is 4 weeks old, and his latch is not very good. I get him on good, but then he pauses and pulls up his bottom lip. I tried and tried, but he keeps doing it, he is gaining great so he is still getting plenty even with this latch. Anyway, I think before I hit the end of the 2nd week, the pain was almost gone. Hang in there it will all of a sudden be much better, I thing you have to develop some calluses first.LOL emmalouliz -
10 hours ago.
2babyunder2 we know what your going through. For me the first month was so hard I actually would hold my breath while nursing it hurt so bad. Then of course I'd remember to breathe :). There isn't much else to do besides the things you've tried. Just try to stick it out for the baby! mountainmama -
10 hours ago.
phatbaby---my baby is finally sleeping long stretches (she's almost 17 months and is still waking up once a night last night: bed at 7:30pm up at 5am, nurse then back until 7am) i also used a bunch of tips from the no cry sleep solution.....just keep doing the bedtime routine--stick with it. that's the only thing i did right from the beginning and i usually never have trouble getting my little one down.....we did try screwing around with her bedtime and then we figured out that if we put her down any later than 8pm, she had a hell of time falling asleep or would wake up more often. it's been a long long long process for us to get her to sleep without crying it out--so good luck!! :)
2babys---keep at it!! my nipples were killing me too and i was told that my baby's latch was great also from a lactation consultant. sounds weird, but one day they just stopped hurting. keep with the lansinoh, air dry your nipples, tylenol if you need to, and don't wash your nipples with any soap. i had a bit of cracking and a little blister as well. :) 2babys-under2 -
12 hours ago.
I've been nursing my daughter for over a week now. My nipples are still cracked and bleeding. It hurts like hell everytime she latches on. I dread each feeding. I've used nipple shells, lansinoh, and gel pads. I'm so close to just giving up. When does it get better?? The left side is so bad that I've been having to pump and only feed her on that side 2-3 times a day. I've seen a LC and she said her latch is good, she's just a 'barracuda' nurser and her suckle is VERY strong. I'm dying here! Anyone been through this and came out still nursing? phatbaby57 -
14 hours ago.
I bought the 'No-Cry Sleep Solution' book and it seems to be helping some. We are two weeks in and he is definitely going for longer stretches. Now my problem is he recognizes the sleep routine and seems to get worked up earlier. also if anyone can explain this and knows how to help. once i get him down for the night for the first time he sleeps like ten minutes and then wakes up and is up for an hour to and hour and a half. then he does great the rest of the night. not sure why or what to do about it. hchina -
16 hours ago.
phatbaby 57- thx, i read the same thing about 2-3 naps a day then 10 at night. my bubs seems to be getting a lot less, although when he is fed i think he is feeding and sleeping at the same time...he even dreams while feeding...ha ha MiamiMom2b -
24 hours ago.
expecting2bepatient - I have pretty big boobs too & I really can't get comfortable feeding my LO laying down, my boobs block his nose too so I have to keep my finger there & laying down makes me fall asleep. Then I have to kinda pick him up to burp him so... it kinda defeats the purpose...and you have to shove pillows everywhere, anyways i kinda figured out it is just not for me. EllasMommy23 -
24 hours ago.
momof3- do you sing to him? try to sing or rock him back to sleep instead of nursing MiamiMom2b -
1 days ago.
momof3 - Does your LO use a real pacifier? My son uses a paci & it keeps him asleep. It helps so much - he never uses me as a paci. momof3krzyboys -
1 days ago.
Does anyone have any tips on how to stop comfort nursing during the night? This kid thinks I'm a pacifier and I can't take waking up every hour or two anymore!!! lourds -
1 days ago.
expecting, when you nurse lying you need several pillows, your head should be high enough so you could see and check your baby every now and then, have another one (or two) pillow for your back- lean on it and another one or two for your legs(put them in between). Your lo's upper back and head rests on your arm(near the breast), you need another pillow for your arm near the baby. Adjust the pillows for comfort. GB! felicia marie -
1 days ago.
ThatOne - I tried to make my own pumping bra some time ago.. It didn't work though. It didn't keep the airhorn things tight enough on my boobs and it would fall. I tried to tighten the straps to the max but was unsuccessful. :( ThatOne -
1 days ago.
Ladies, how do you know when to stop pumping as much? My milk has decreased significantly as I am 14 weeks prego. (LO is 9 1/2 months. ) I have dropped a pumping session while at work since I'm not getting much, but don't know if that is contributing to the problem... ThatOne -
1 days ago.
Expecting- I made my own pumping bra :) Buy a cheap one of the clearance rack with no padding (I bought a few sizes up so that it would fit over my clothes at work). Then cut a small openingin the middle. I have a Medela so I take the funnel part and place it through the opening, and then connect to the other little thing that goes in the bottle. Strap it on and you are hands free! felicia marie -
1 days ago.
Gladek - Congrats!! My LO just turned one on the 16th and I got my AF back for the first time on the 16th!! Ughh it sucks.. I totally forgot how it feels to have an AF. Poor SO is getting frustrated cuz he can't get none. Lol. Now i'm terrified that I COULD get prego now. I'm not ready for another one right now. I'm on the mini-pill but i think i'm going to switch to a stronger BC... lilli1317 -
1 days ago.
expecting - Dual pumping takes practice and skill! I always did the one arm across both pumps to turn on and off. You'll get the hang of it. I learned way too late into the process that they actually make pumping bras so you can slide the pieces right into the bra and keep them in place. I never tried them though so I dont know how well they work. As for lying down, it never really worked for either of us, but I heard using pillows helped. Put however many pillows you need under the hip you are lying on to give yourself a boost and a better angle to aim. expecting-2b-patient -
1 days ago.
Few Questions: I have an electric duel pump- how do I pump both breast at the sametime and turn the pump on and off?? Aslo, I've been wanting to feed my baby laying down so we both can rest. How do I do this without blocking his nose? My boobs are so big I always have to take a finger and push my breast in so he can breath. But while laying down it's more difficult and I get sleepy and forget. Also are there any tricks to get good latch laying down? I find it's always painful. While I feed sitting up I have to sqeeze my boob flat and guide it into my LO's mouth, then I sill have to hold it into place. All this is difficult while laying... THANKS! phatbaby57 -
2 days ago.
armywife-best advice try it and see. if baby latches and drinks then i'd say it's not too late. just keep an eye one wet and poop diapers so you know lo is getting enough.
hchina- according to 'The No-Cry Sleep Solutions' book that I'm reading lo should be taking 2 or 3 naps a day and sleeping about 4 or 5 hours altogether through those naps then at night sleeping 10 or 11 hours. 5 hours is considered 'sleeping through the night' armywife923 -
2 days ago.
Hi I have a question about breastfeeding and I dont know if its true. I was breastfeeding in the beginning and I ended up stopping at 3 weeks. I feel so bad about it and its been around 6 weeks since I have stopped but I really want to start again. Someone told me that its not too late is this true? I really want to start again but I dont know if I can or what to do if I still can. Please help! gladek -
2 days ago.
My son is one tomorrow, and we are still going strong! I am so glad I made it to this milestone, and will let him lead the way as to when he is ready to stop. I STILL haven't got my cycle back yet, though, even though I go all day at work without pumping now. I would love to try for little brother or sister for Raynor. DulcianasMom -
2 days ago.
Thanks for all the tips ladies :) I will definatley give them a go! lilli1317 -
3 days ago.
dulcianasmom - Why dont you try to give her something very 'important' to do while you are breastfeeding. Something she can look forward to each time and that she can really be involved in like a specific activity. Since she knows you have to be still and tied down when you are breastfeeding maybe encourage her to help you with something... like hide some things and ask her if she can find all the crayons for you or put all the dirty clothes in a laundry basket or something like that. Maybe just prepare a task ahead of time so she feels important and independent. She may begin to look forward to doing that special thing to help you out. You could tie the 'chores' into her baby too. Find all the doll clothes or prepare the doll lunch.