Breastfeeding
Baby and breast are the perfect feeding team!
For the best nutrition, breastmilk is the best food to feed a baby. It is made specifically to meet the nutritional needs of babies. Human breastmilk changes as the baby grows to offer the best nutrients for the baby. It has over 1000 components - many of these have not been duplicated in infant formula.
Over the past 25 years, research has continued to show that breastmilk is better than infant formula. In fact, more studies are released each year showing that there are health risks to the baby and the mother when they do not breastfeed.
Infant formula should be seen as a `safety net` for babies who cannot breastfeed and not as an equal replacement.
Many common illnesses, such as colds, flu, skin infections or diarrhea, cannot be passed through breast milk. In fact, if a mother has an illness, her breast milk will contain antibodies to it that will help protect her baby from those same illnesses.
Baby and Breast- A Perfect Feeding TeamKnowing what to expect and how to deal with setbacks in breastfeeding can help ease the adjustment that you and your newborn will go through as you take on breastfeeding. Nursing comes naturally but it does take a while for the mom and baby to get in sync with one another.
How to breastfeed:
Get into a comfortable position. Whatever position is comfortable for you and for the baby is a good position to use.
Position your baby facing your nipple.
Support your breast with your free hand. Keep your fingers off your areola, which the baby needs to grasp.
Gently tickle the baby's lips with your nipple until the mouth is opened wide. Then, move your breast closer.
Don't stuff the nipple into an unwilling mouth. Let the baby take the initiative.
Make sure the baby latches on to the nipple and areola. Sucking on just the nipple will not compress the milk glands. It will also cause soreness and cracking.
If your breast is blocking your baby's nose, lightly depress the breast with your finger. Be careful not to loosen your baby's grasp of the areola.
If the baby has a strong steady rhythmic motion that is visible in the cheek, then most likely the baby is attached and sucking well.
When finished or repositioning the breast, don't yank your breast out of the baby's mouth. This will cause injury to the nipple.
Don't be tempted to skip or skimp on feedings because of pain. The less the baby eats, the worse the pain will be.
Brochure downloads:Ten Steps to Support Parents` Choice to Breastfeed Their Baby (pdf)
101 reasons to Breastfeed Your Child (pdf)
Breastfeeding Basics
* Start as soon as possible after birth
* Be patient and calm
* Don't try to feed a screaming baby
* Ask for help when you need it
Breastfeeding is a learned skill that becomes easier over time. You are more likely to succeed with long-term breastfeeding by having a plan, becoming familiar with basic techniques, learning how to handle minor physical problems and getting help quickly when you need it.
How the Baby is Preparing for BreastfeedingBefore they are born, babies begin learning important skills that will help them breastfeed. Teaching mothers about these skills can increase their confidence in the baby`s ability to nurse at birth.
- By the time a mother is 11 weeks (almost 3 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to swallow. Babies swallow amniotic fluid in the uterus.
- By the time a mother is 24 weeks (6 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to suck. Babies spend a lot of time with their hands close to their mouth before birth. Babies are often seen sucking on their thumb, fingers or hands during an ultrasound exam.
- By the time a mother is 32 weeks (8 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to root for the breast. The baby will turn its head if touched on the cheek and open its mouth if the bottom lip is tickled. By this time the baby can also suck and swallow in a coordinated way.
- By the time a mother is 37 weeks (9 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to coordinate sucking, swallowing and breathing so it can do all three when breastfeeding after birth. Babies practice shallow breathing before birth using amniotic fluid.
Breastfeeding Tips
- Breastfeed your baby on demand rather than setting a strict schedule, especially in the first few months.
- Taking care of yourself will also help you to establish your milk supply. Eat right and get rest when you are able.
- Avoid bottle-feeding your baby breast milk until breastfeeding and milk supply are well-established, which is usually about 4 to 6 weeks. This helps build your milk supply. Not using bottles also helps prevent your baby from developing nipple confusion, which is a preference for an artificial nipple over the breast.
- Look for signs that your baby is getting enough milk, such as eagerness to eat and feeding sessions that last at least 15 to 25 minutes. By 6 days of age, your baby should need about 6 to 8 diaper changes, settle well after feeding and usually awaken on his or her own to feed every 1 to 3 hours. Talk to your doctor if you have any concerns.
- Help clear blocked milk ducts by using warm compresses and massaging your breasts before and during feedings. Also, breastfeed more frequently and in different positions. Offer your baby the affected breast first at each feeding.
- You can help relieve the pain from sore or cracked nipples with drops of expressed breast milk or lanolin creams.
The color of your breastmilkThe first milk is called `colostrum.' Colostrum is a clear, yellowish fluid. It is rich in protein, nutrients and antibodies, which protect the baby from infection. By starting to nurse the baby right after birth, the baby will benefit from the colostrum and the `mature milk` will come in sooner. Colostrum changes to `mature milk` sometime in the first 1 to 7 days.
`Mature` breastmilk may look blue in color. The milk that comes out first during a feeding (foremilk) is thinner and watery. The milk toward the end of a feeding (hindmilk) looks thicker. It is richer and higher in fat. If a woman pumps her milk, the fat (or `cream`) will separate easily and rise to the top.
Comments: Breastfeeding
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3 days ago.
miamimom2b-thx i was hoping i would get that answer campimama -
3 days ago.
Dulciana- Have you tried getting her a baby to 'feed' at the same time? Pretending she is just like mommy could help her. Also, you could try reading to her while you feed. Turning a favorite cartoon on worked for me too from time to time. Rewards for acting like a big girl and helping mommy by being quiet.....just a few thoughts. Good luck! DulcianasMom -
3 days ago.
I have an issue and its related to breastfeeding but more along the lines of older siblings. Here's the deal....I have breastfeed my LO since birth, she is 8months old now. I have a 4yr old daughter as well. Before the baby was born I was candid and truthful with my oldest about how mommy would feed the baby. Naturally, in the beginning there was a lot of curiosity. Now, fast forward to the present and at times we STILL deal with some jealously issues (my oldest would never do anything harmful to the baby, she just grapples at me for ANY and ALL attention i will give her). And this is where the problem lies...whenever i sit down to breastfeed the baby she always has to clamor around me, be loud, bouncing around, trying to touch the baby...etc. Its getting very hard to breastfeed the baby cause she is at that age where she is EASILY distracted so she sees her big sister flitin around and she comes off the breast and laughs and its hard to get her to stay on to get a good feeding. NOW, herein lies another issue...i cannot go into another room for some quiet privacy due to the fact that my husband works 1pm-11pm so for the majority of the day, its just me and the girls. I really cannot trust my 4yr old to be alone in the other room, she is just too mischevious. Are there any of you ladies with this sort of issue?? I just feel bad cause it seems like i'm always shouting and scolding my oldest to, 'be quiet!' and 'sit still' and so on...any suggestions? miamimom2b -
3 days ago.
hchina - the seedy texture is definitley normal for a BF baby!
Ladies today I saw for the FIRST time another mom BF'ing her baby in public. It felt so good to finally see someone besides myself BFing. I gave her a big smile. lol. On another note, today I was at Nordstroms shopping & I visited the womans lounge, it is such a nice place to BF. It is a quiet & private place to BF & they have a nice changing table - anyways just thought I'd share my great BF'ing stories of the day :) hchina -
3 days ago.
Hi ladies i have a couple of qs i hope you can help me with. Since ive started bf afain bubs poo has been yellow which i have been told is a good sign, but its also seedy in texture. could anyone tell me is this normal?
another q i have, not related to bf but its about bubs sleeping pattern. lately i have noticed he has not been wanting to nap throughout the day. how many hours should a 5 mth old have a day. what kind of routine should we be in now.? he is sleep well at night though... lorelaismom -
5 days ago.
I wanted to thank all of you ladies who helped with my latching issues. I used a combination of ideas and Scarlett is a much better nurser now. So thank you!!!! :) felicia marie -
5 days ago.
Hello Ladies ! So my luck has finally come to an end. I got my 1st AF exactly a year after I had my baby. It's her 1st birthday today!! And my 24th birthday! Anywho, I have a question regarding my Birth Control. Before i had my baby, I would take 3 weeks of pills, then the 4th week would be when I get my AF. Because I am BF, I take the Mini-Pill. I take all 4 weeks. Will my body know when my next AF is due? Should I start taking a stronger BC?? I don't want to get pregnant any time soon. miamimom2b -
5 days ago.
emma - they sell the strips at babysrus! I have them! they are pretty neat! emmalouliz -
5 days ago.
where can I get these test strips? The husband is so uptight :) ThatOne -
6 days ago.
emmalouliz- they actually have test strips that will tell you if your blood alcohol level is over .02%(the level that can be harmful to baby). Maybe if you get some and test he will be ok. ThatOne -
6 days ago.
emmalouliz- they actually have test strips that will tell you if your blood alcohol level is over .02%(the level that can be harmful to baby). Maybe if you get some and test he will be ok. miamimom2b -
6 days ago.
emmalouliz - I LOVE my glass of wine or beer once my LO is asleep for the night! I do have milk pumped anyways in the fridge in case he happens to wake up (he hasn't yet!) You are right that milk leaves your body as it does in your blood so there is no problem having a drink once LO is down for the night. Tell your hubby you have done your research! Cheers :) gladek -
6 days ago.
ammalouliz-Some people belive no alcohol, some people even encourage moms whose supply is a bit low to have one drink now and again. My son is one year this week, and I've have several nights that I've had one beer after he went to bed.
Your milk is just fine in the morning. Maybe talking to a local lactation consultant would ease his mind? emmalouliz -
6 days ago.
Hey everyone its been a little while since I've needed any advice but I could sure use some now. Since Kileys arrival I've been avoiding the subject of alcohol because I pretty much just assumed it would be off limits while nursing (no brainer). So it was just recently that I figured out that after she is down for the night I could have a glass of wine if I liked. Kiley sleeps through the night so I figure that means its safe to nurse her in the morning. I know I have the option of pumping ahead of time and offering that if she does happen to need a feeding during the night. I've done alot of research both internet and books so I could have as much information as possible. The research I've done through La Leche League and Kellysmom says that alcohol leaves the breastmilk at the same rate that your blood alcohol level drops. Alcohol is not stored in the breastmilk any longer than in your blood. So pumping and dumping is not neccesarry and really is just a comfort measure for the mom. After 1 glass of wine I'd like to think that by the morning my blood alcohol level is normal right! The problem is that my husband just doesn't think that with all my research that what I've found out is reliable. Because its on the internet he thinks it can't be trusted or something (which I get but I'm pretty sure I'm using good sites). He wanted me to call the pediatrician and get her answer. Well I did that but she can't give me an answer because it would be totally unethical to do a study on it and if she told me it was safe and for some reason it wasn't she'd be held accountable. So OF COURSE she couldn't give me an answer on if it was safe. Does anyone have an accredited resource with accurate information on safe amounts of alcohol while NOT nursing, but nursing the following morning? I wouldn't ever nurse and drink at the same time thats just a horrible thing to do. I would never put my babys health in jeopardy but I would like to be able to enjoy a glass of wine every now and then. Please advise :) miamimom2b -
6 days ago.
1byfaith - I don't think its my period because I have already gotten it & it is not due for 2 weeks. However my supply IS back to normal. My LO is not into comfort nursing, he LOVES his pacifer & nurses ONLY to drink his milk. He is a QUICK nurser. I think since he doesn't hang out on the boob & stimulate it that might effect my supply but right now we have more than enough! Anyways, happy bf'ing ladies :) 1Byfaith -
7 days ago.
Miamimom2b- I just wanted to add that I went through the exact senerio a few weeks back. I never had a problem with supply and then all of a sudden the 'angry nursing' started. I posted on this thread and it was sugguested that maybe I had a phantom period. Well I think that may be what happened. I did drink a beer to give me a boost and my supply came right back. I never had to give formula. Thank God. I try to eat a bowl of fermented oats every morning to keep my supply up but whenever I think I have a dip I drink a beer and it is right back to normal. I have also added malt to my recovery drink after I workout and that also gets my supply back right. Good luck!! josephsmom -
7 days ago.
Yes the first thing I did (now he is a pro) is tickle his bottom lip to open really wide and put as much in as possible. mountainmama -
7 days ago.
lorelaismom, when your baby is latching on try and have your baby latch: bottom of your nipple with the bottom of your baby's mouth first and then to the top of your nipple and top of your baby's mouth. kinda rolling it in? does that make sense? i read that in some book & it really helped my baby get a better latch and reduced the pain. good luck!!! esyogurl -
7 days ago.
lorelaismom - I wish I could draw you a picture, its so much easier to explain. My nipples are HUGE so I have a similar problem. 1st - make sure the baby is opening his/her mouth WIDE before letting her/him latch. 2- you can try to grab your skin on either side of your nipple on the areola and stretch it gently side to side, making your nipple more narrow and then offer it, latch, then let go. It was a trick a lactation consultant taught me so that baby has more breast in the baby's mouth lorelaismom -
7 days ago.
I'm having some difficulty nursing my 10 day old. She will only take the first part of my nipple in her mouth and not the areola. It's quite painful at first, but it does tend to lessen as she nurses (or maybe I just get used to it). She is getting enough milk, so I know she's suppressing the milk glands enough and I'm not concerned about it from a nutritional stand point. But from a comfort stand point, it is killing me. Does anyone have any suggestions? I didn't have this problem with my first who was an excellent nurser from the beginning so I'm not sure what to do. Thanks!! luvbeingamom -
7 days ago.
expecting - I always would put itin hot water to warm it up. expecting-2b-patient -
7 days ago.
Just wondering- I'm not giving my 3 week old bottles yet. But when I do, how do you heat up the breastmilk, and how warm should it be??? lilli1317 -
9 days ago.
phatbaby - Until my son turned 6 months, the solids were always in addition to the milk not as a substitute. He would always get regulary scheduled breast milk feedings after which I would sit him in his highchair knowing he wasnt all that hungry. He looooved the concept of solids! Cereal I gave him regularly mornings and nights because I put so much breastmilk in it that I considered it a bonus. When I introduced the new fruits/veggies I just gave it to him as much as he wanted at his own pace (he was never hungry for it). When he got used to one I incorporated it into one of his 'meals' getting him used to breakfast/lunch/dinner times. The goal of introducing one food at a time is to be aware of any allergies they may have. Once introduced with no reaction there is no harm in offering more than one regularly. If you still want your baby primarily on milk, just make sure you give milk before solids. You will see in time they will prefer the solids more and after 6 months its completely natural for them to cut out milk feedings for solids since they are actually getting more required nutrients from the solids. phatbaby57 -
9 days ago.
Since we are on the solid's topic...I've started my lo about two weeks ago. He is 5 months today. Anyhow, I've since introduced pears and bananas. Next I plan to introduce sweet potatoes. My question is I know I don't want to give him too much solids and reduce his milk intake. How do I juggle all the new solids that I'm introducing with cereal? As of right now I prepare a TBLS of rice cereal with BM and a TBLS of what ever I have newly introduced. He might eat a quarter of that before he gets bored with it. Anyhow, as he gets more interested in eating but before he turns 6 month am I suppose to just do one food with cereal at a time or will it hurt to do two with cereal or leave out the cereal. I just really don't know. Anyhow help would be great if this posting isn't as confusing as I am confused. nikkiandfred -
9 days ago.
Thank you to everyone who responded. I really appreciate it. :)