Breastfeeding
Baby and breast are the perfect feeding team!
For the best nutrition, breastmilk is the best food to feed a baby. It is made specifically to meet the nutritional needs of babies. Human breastmilk changes as the baby grows to offer the best nutrients for the baby. It has over 1000 components - many of these have not been duplicated in infant formula.
Over the past 25 years, research has continued to show that breastmilk is better than infant formula. In fact, more studies are released each year showing that there are health risks to the baby and the mother when they do not breastfeed.
Infant formula should be seen as a `safety net` for babies who cannot breastfeed and not as an equal replacement.
Many common illnesses, such as colds, flu, skin infections or diarrhea, cannot be passed through breast milk. In fact, if a mother has an illness, her breast milk will contain antibodies to it that will help protect her baby from those same illnesses.
Baby and Breast- A Perfect Feeding TeamKnowing what to expect and how to deal with setbacks in breastfeeding can help ease the adjustment that you and your newborn will go through as you take on breastfeeding. Nursing comes naturally but it does take a while for the mom and baby to get in sync with one another.
How to breastfeed:
Get into a comfortable position. Whatever position is comfortable for you and for the baby is a good position to use.
Position your baby facing your nipple.
Support your breast with your free hand. Keep your fingers off your areola, which the baby needs to grasp.
Gently tickle the baby's lips with your nipple until the mouth is opened wide. Then, move your breast closer.
Don't stuff the nipple into an unwilling mouth. Let the baby take the initiative.
Make sure the baby latches on to the nipple and areola. Sucking on just the nipple will not compress the milk glands. It will also cause soreness and cracking.
If your breast is blocking your baby's nose, lightly depress the breast with your finger. Be careful not to loosen your baby's grasp of the areola.
If the baby has a strong steady rhythmic motion that is visible in the cheek, then most likely the baby is attached and sucking well.
When finished or repositioning the breast, don't yank your breast out of the baby's mouth. This will cause injury to the nipple.
Don't be tempted to skip or skimp on feedings because of pain. The less the baby eats, the worse the pain will be.
Brochure downloads:Ten Steps to Support Parents` Choice to Breastfeed Their Baby (pdf)
101 reasons to Breastfeed Your Child (pdf)
Breastfeeding Basics
* Start as soon as possible after birth
* Be patient and calm
* Don't try to feed a screaming baby
* Ask for help when you need it
Breastfeeding is a learned skill that becomes easier over time. You are more likely to succeed with long-term breastfeeding by having a plan, becoming familiar with basic techniques, learning how to handle minor physical problems and getting help quickly when you need it.
How the Baby is Preparing for BreastfeedingBefore they are born, babies begin learning important skills that will help them breastfeed. Teaching mothers about these skills can increase their confidence in the baby`s ability to nurse at birth.
- By the time a mother is 11 weeks (almost 3 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to swallow. Babies swallow amniotic fluid in the uterus.
- By the time a mother is 24 weeks (6 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to suck. Babies spend a lot of time with their hands close to their mouth before birth. Babies are often seen sucking on their thumb, fingers or hands during an ultrasound exam.
- By the time a mother is 32 weeks (8 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to root for the breast. The baby will turn its head if touched on the cheek and open its mouth if the bottom lip is tickled. By this time the baby can also suck and swallow in a coordinated way.
- By the time a mother is 37 weeks (9 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to coordinate sucking, swallowing and breathing so it can do all three when breastfeeding after birth. Babies practice shallow breathing before birth using amniotic fluid.
Breastfeeding Tips
- Breastfeed your baby on demand rather than setting a strict schedule, especially in the first few months.
- Taking care of yourself will also help you to establish your milk supply. Eat right and get rest when you are able.
- Avoid bottle-feeding your baby breast milk until breastfeeding and milk supply are well-established, which is usually about 4 to 6 weeks. This helps build your milk supply. Not using bottles also helps prevent your baby from developing nipple confusion, which is a preference for an artificial nipple over the breast.
- Look for signs that your baby is getting enough milk, such as eagerness to eat and feeding sessions that last at least 15 to 25 minutes. By 6 days of age, your baby should need about 6 to 8 diaper changes, settle well after feeding and usually awaken on his or her own to feed every 1 to 3 hours. Talk to your doctor if you have any concerns.
- Help clear blocked milk ducts by using warm compresses and massaging your breasts before and during feedings. Also, breastfeed more frequently and in different positions. Offer your baby the affected breast first at each feeding.
- You can help relieve the pain from sore or cracked nipples with drops of expressed breast milk or lanolin creams.
The color of your breastmilkThe first milk is called `colostrum.' Colostrum is a clear, yellowish fluid. It is rich in protein, nutrients and antibodies, which protect the baby from infection. By starting to nurse the baby right after birth, the baby will benefit from the colostrum and the `mature milk` will come in sooner. Colostrum changes to `mature milk` sometime in the first 1 to 7 days.
`Mature` breastmilk may look blue in color. The milk that comes out first during a feeding (foremilk) is thinner and watery. The milk toward the end of a feeding (hindmilk) looks thicker. It is richer and higher in fat. If a woman pumps her milk, the fat (or `cream`) will separate easily and rise to the top.
Comments: Breastfeeding
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13 days ago.
Anyone else having a problem with their milk supply being low at night? In the mornings and throughout the day mine is fine, then at night when he feeds right before bed it is soo low. It's so low that he gets mad b/c it's not enough. They even feel really small at night like they aren't producing much. He is almost 7 months old and I REALLY want to keep breastfeeding until he is a year at least, but with my milk being so low at night I dont know what to do. My mom suggested giving him formula at bedtime, but he has NEVER had any and I really don't want to start that. I will if I have to...but not by choice. Any suggestions? Chazoos -
13 days ago.
Just a quick question, how long should you breastfeed your baby for? Is there any sort of cut off time to be moving off the breast? expecting-2b-patient -
13 days ago.
GRACE: That's really too bad your little one doesn't want the boob anymore =( That's what I'm afraid of! I'm going to talk to my pediatrician on Tuesday. I want to give the bottle every now and then, but I don't want to get up at night and heat bottles... so I'd like to breastfeed during the nights. I have special bottles from Medela that are supposed to be like 'mom's nipple'-- larger, wider, and slow flow. But then I feel like I might be doing double the 'work' by pumping and then feeding. ((SIGH)) Oh, the choices of Motherhood, I guess you never know what to do- do you?? My Mom says I over think everything, LOL! grace27 -
13 days ago.
Expecting2bpatient, my little Sofie is 11 days old, and I was only able to successfully breastfeed her for like a week. After that, I started pumping and giving her breast milk from the bottle. She is doing very well, and unfortunately wont have anything to do with breastfeeding anymore! (I hear its because milk is easier to get from than the breast, so she is now spoiled!) I havent talked to my pediatrician, but seeing as how the bottle is the only way to give her nourishment, I don't see why you couldn't introduce a bottle to your little one. Let us know how it goes! myboogy80 -
13 days ago.
my lil girl is 5 days old and i pump out my milk and feed it to her she is very tiny and cant latch on well she only takes 2 oz. every 2-3 hours and im pumping 7-10 oz. every 3 hours i cant believe i have so much milk already lol but atleast i know she has plenty of it.... 1Byfaith -
13 days ago.
PGfirstimer- Just because lo is nursing from both breasts, to me, does not sound like a decrease in supply. You are SUPPOSED to offer both breasts at every feeding. Now, I can understand if you had only been feeding from one side but it could be that your supply is just leveling out for what your baby needs. As long as your lo is satisfied I would not worry about it. I feed my lo from both breasts now and he is fine and my supply is fine (he is 3 months) I pump when I work partime and I am still pumping 12-14 oz everytime. So try not to stress about it. Your body could be adjusting. littleprince -
14 days ago.
Question: LO had ben pooping yellow poop but last night he pooped green poop. I looked it up and it said he probably wasn't getting enough hind milk. I had changed to feeding on demand but then he was snacking for a shorter period of time. So then yesterday I tried to make him wait at least an hour and half. So that he would feed for longer on one side. Now his poop is turning yellow again. How long are you all feeding per sitting? Last night he was doing 20 min on 1 side and none on the other. campimama -
14 days ago.
PG- Are you on bc pills? Have you been drinking wine or hard alcohol? Did you cut back calories? Increased exercise or stress? Have you started cycling (period) again or having a phantom period? These are all possible factors if you haven't thought of them already. Also, your lo could just be going through a growth spurt. Hang in there. I suggest drinking a beer and give your body a quick boost and see how it goes. PGFirstTimer -
14 days ago.
I'm trying not to stress. For the first time i'm having to offer my DD both breasts almost every feeding. I've cut out peppermint tea from my diet (1 or 2 cups a day) as of today and i'm hoping that's what's causing what I think is a decreased supply. I'm also letting her eat on demand as I've been doing all along, figuring she'll build my supply back up (I hope!). Does anybody think it might be something besides supply? Any thoughts on this would be appreciated! Wish us luck, thanks! EllasMommy23 -
14 days ago.
I BF in public for the first time yesterday! We went to Ruby Tuesday and i had my cover and i was able to do it in the booth. It was wonderful to be able to be out and actually feeding her. It was great because usually i have to feed her before or after in the car and if I'm with people they just have to sit there for 40 minutes and i feel bad. expecting-2b-patient -
14 days ago.
LADIES YOU ARE ALL LOVELY! You have made me feel better- even just the 'pep talk' has made me be able to sigh and exhale! Even just hearing I'm going through it too or it will get better makes me feel better! *THANKS* phatbaby57 -
14 days ago.
If my lo fell asleep at the breast I wouldn't wake him. If he stayed awake I would offer the other breast. Just do both breast as equal amounts as you can. Also it won't hurt baby to wait a couple of seconds while you fill up a glass of water and get something to eat while you are nursing him. Remember that bottle fed babies have to wait for the bottle to heat up. You have to take care of yourself too in order to create proper milk supply. If there is anyone else around to help and you need something ask for it. They're there to help you with baby and to help you. littleprince -
14 days ago.
expecting to be patient, your comment made me feel better because I feel the same way. I am an active person and it is hard to just sit all day and breastfeed. LO wants to breast feed every hour and it takes an hour to feed because my doctor says to feed on each side for 20 minutes. Then I change the diaper in between feedings to wake him up. That adds up to an hour. You should see my bf log. It says I have fed him at 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12noon, 1, 2,3, etc. You get the idea. I am hungry and thirsty right now and am trying to find the time to fix me something to eat. Then at night I am soooo exhausted. Does anyone have any suggestions. He is gaining wt and pooping and peeing regularly. phatbaby57 -
15 days ago.
expecting-like the other ladies said it gets better. I think it's so overwhelming because everything is new and you know what i think it is the same even if you had a bottle to give your lo. my dh would take my lo in the beginning to let me get extra 'rest' and i would just lay there wanting to sleep but wanting to be with my baby too. so i would toss and turn for about 30 minutes and go join them more exhausted than ever. i t all gets better with time. if after 6 weeks you still have these feelings though it's important to talk to your health care provider about it. it could be postpartum depression, but give it six weeks. 1Byfaith -
15 days ago.
beccaboo- Make sure that the baby has a good latch. Be sure that both lip are 'pooched' or 'fanned' out not tucked in. With a good latch the pain should go away in a couple of weeks. Once the nips toughen up you will be able to bf'd without a problem and you won't even be able to feel it. You will enjoy all chances to feed your little one. Just keep it up and don't give up!!!! 1Byfaith -
15 days ago.
expecting2b- Yes bf'ing is overwhelming in the beginning. I think that it is normal that you feel this way. I went thru that myself. It will pass. It is rough because for the first 6 weeks you have to bf only cause you need to build and establish a milk supply. But it is true, even if you give expressed milk in a bottle, you still need to be pumping so that your supply will not dwindle so in a sense, you are not 'getting a break'. But the good news is that bf'ing does become less stressful as time goes on. It becomes more enjoyable because the learning stage has passed and you and lo are more confident and comfortable. Although family will be able to give a bottle from time to time, you will still be the MAIN one doing the feeding. Hang in there, it gets better :o) hchina -
15 days ago.
becaboo1117- hanh in there...i was in exactly the same spot as you about 3 weeks ago. My bubs is now almost 5 months. Long story but in the beginning i didnt BF him because the pain was too unbearable and i fed him formula and partly expressed. anyhoo i decided i would give it another go when bubs was 4 months and this site helped heaps encouraging me that the pain would get better....and you kno w what it did!! you must try to get a good latch- i mean that bottom lip of his must be down!!! second your boobs will tuffen up trust me....i went from unbearable pain to now being able to actually enjoy BFing. try to hang in there.... campimama -
15 days ago.
It's very normal to feel overwhelmed...especially in the beginning. Their tummy's are so small and they are growing so quickly that it seems like it's never ending. It will get better, I PROMISE! As to the bottle (?) that is a personal thing. Remember though that you should pump even if someone is giving a bottle, to maintain your supply (that means you're really not getting a break). Just something to think about. Hang in there. You are doing great! expecting-2b-patient -
15 days ago.
Does anyone else feel overwhelmed from breastfeeding? I feel like I can't get help from anyone because everytime my little one is fussy he's hungry and I'm the only one that can feed him. He's such a piglet and wants to feed all the time. I'm not ready to give up yet- but when is the soonest I can introduce a bottle. Not formula, but breast milk in a bottle... I feel like it will give me such a brake from him and my stress level might go down. I barely have time to shower and he's ready to feed! phatbaby57 -
15 days ago.
a good lactation consultant and lanolin. bfing shouldn't hurt. beccaboo1117 -
15 days ago.
anyone have any advice on breast feeding without pain? This is my 4th baby (he's 4 days old) but I haven't been able to really breastfeed any of my older kids because the pain was just more than i could take....I really would like to succeed this time...any suggestions that have worked for any of you? campimama -
15 days ago.
When I started food at about 5.5 months I gave my son a sippy cup to play with at meal time. I did the same with my daughter. They get the hang of it eventually. I have never been a fan of anything besides milk in a bottle...unless they're sick and dehyrated or something of course and need the fluids. Don't rush it.
phatbaby57 -
15 days ago.
miami-personally if you are going to do anything i would give him little tastes of solids here or there instead of any liquid. That's just me though. MiamiMom2b -
16 days ago.
My LO is 3months & 1 week and is EBF. I am so anxious to offer him something besides breastmilk. I can't wait to see him eating & enjoying food! (i guess cuz I am a foodie & loveee food lol) Anyways, I know the food obviously must wait but when do you ladies think it would be okay for him to taste a little sip of juice (or water?) I am not talking a bottle full, just like half an ounce. Suzm -
16 days ago.
1 by faith -- I did weight watchers... and they give you point totals for everyone else,and point totals for nursing women. I think I was able to eat almost 500 calories more than I could when not nursing.