Breastfeeding
Baby and breast are the perfect feeding team!
For the best nutrition, breastmilk is the best food to feed a baby. It is made specifically to meet the nutritional needs of babies. Human breastmilk changes as the baby grows to offer the best nutrients for the baby. It has over 1000 components - many of these have not been duplicated in infant formula.
Over the past 25 years, research has continued to show that breastmilk is better than infant formula. In fact, more studies are released each year showing that there are health risks to the baby and the mother when they do not breastfeed.
Infant formula should be seen as a `safety net` for babies who cannot breastfeed and not as an equal replacement.
Many common illnesses, such as colds, flu, skin infections or diarrhea, cannot be passed through breast milk. In fact, if a mother has an illness, her breast milk will contain antibodies to it that will help protect her baby from those same illnesses.
Baby and Breast- A Perfect Feeding TeamKnowing what to expect and how to deal with setbacks in breastfeeding can help ease the adjustment that you and your newborn will go through as you take on breastfeeding. Nursing comes naturally but it does take a while for the mom and baby to get in sync with one another.
How to breastfeed:
Get into a comfortable position. Whatever position is comfortable for you and for the baby is a good position to use.
Position your baby facing your nipple.
Support your breast with your free hand. Keep your fingers off your areola, which the baby needs to grasp.
Gently tickle the baby's lips with your nipple until the mouth is opened wide. Then, move your breast closer.
Don't stuff the nipple into an unwilling mouth. Let the baby take the initiative.
Make sure the baby latches on to the nipple and areola. Sucking on just the nipple will not compress the milk glands. It will also cause soreness and cracking.
If your breast is blocking your baby's nose, lightly depress the breast with your finger. Be careful not to loosen your baby's grasp of the areola.
If the baby has a strong steady rhythmic motion that is visible in the cheek, then most likely the baby is attached and sucking well.
When finished or repositioning the breast, don't yank your breast out of the baby's mouth. This will cause injury to the nipple.
Don't be tempted to skip or skimp on feedings because of pain. The less the baby eats, the worse the pain will be.
Brochure downloads:Ten Steps to Support Parents` Choice to Breastfeed Their Baby (pdf)
101 reasons to Breastfeed Your Child (pdf)
Breastfeeding Basics
* Start as soon as possible after birth
* Be patient and calm
* Don't try to feed a screaming baby
* Ask for help when you need it
Breastfeeding is a learned skill that becomes easier over time. You are more likely to succeed with long-term breastfeeding by having a plan, becoming familiar with basic techniques, learning how to handle minor physical problems and getting help quickly when you need it.
How the Baby is Preparing for BreastfeedingBefore they are born, babies begin learning important skills that will help them breastfeed. Teaching mothers about these skills can increase their confidence in the baby`s ability to nurse at birth.
- By the time a mother is 11 weeks (almost 3 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to swallow. Babies swallow amniotic fluid in the uterus.
- By the time a mother is 24 weeks (6 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to suck. Babies spend a lot of time with their hands close to their mouth before birth. Babies are often seen sucking on their thumb, fingers or hands during an ultrasound exam.
- By the time a mother is 32 weeks (8 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to root for the breast. The baby will turn its head if touched on the cheek and open its mouth if the bottom lip is tickled. By this time the baby can also suck and swallow in a coordinated way.
- By the time a mother is 37 weeks (9 months) pregnant, her baby has learned to coordinate sucking, swallowing and breathing so it can do all three when breastfeeding after birth. Babies practice shallow breathing before birth using amniotic fluid.
Breastfeeding Tips
- Breastfeed your baby on demand rather than setting a strict schedule, especially in the first few months.
- Taking care of yourself will also help you to establish your milk supply. Eat right and get rest when you are able.
- Avoid bottle-feeding your baby breast milk until breastfeeding and milk supply are well-established, which is usually about 4 to 6 weeks. This helps build your milk supply. Not using bottles also helps prevent your baby from developing nipple confusion, which is a preference for an artificial nipple over the breast.
- Look for signs that your baby is getting enough milk, such as eagerness to eat and feeding sessions that last at least 15 to 25 minutes. By 6 days of age, your baby should need about 6 to 8 diaper changes, settle well after feeding and usually awaken on his or her own to feed every 1 to 3 hours. Talk to your doctor if you have any concerns.
- Help clear blocked milk ducts by using warm compresses and massaging your breasts before and during feedings. Also, breastfeed more frequently and in different positions. Offer your baby the affected breast first at each feeding.
- You can help relieve the pain from sore or cracked nipples with drops of expressed breast milk or lanolin creams.
The color of your breastmilkThe first milk is called `colostrum.' Colostrum is a clear, yellowish fluid. It is rich in protein, nutrients and antibodies, which protect the baby from infection. By starting to nurse the baby right after birth, the baby will benefit from the colostrum and the `mature milk` will come in sooner. Colostrum changes to `mature milk` sometime in the first 1 to 7 days.
`Mature` breastmilk may look blue in color. The milk that comes out first during a feeding (foremilk) is thinner and watery. The milk toward the end of a feeding (hindmilk) looks thicker. It is richer and higher in fat. If a woman pumps her milk, the fat (or `cream`) will separate easily and rise to the top.
Comments: Breastfeeding
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1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 Nextfelicia marie -
3 hours ago.
ThatOne - I tried to make my own pumping bra some time ago.. It didn't work though. It didn't keep the airhorn things tight enough on my boobs and it would fall. I tried to tighten the straps to the max but was unsuccessful. :( ThatOne -
4 hours ago.
Ladies, how do you know when to stop pumping as much? My milk has decreased significantly as I am 14 weeks prego. (LO is 9 1/2 months. ) I have dropped a pumping session while at work since I'm not getting much, but don't know if that is contributing to the problem... ThatOne -
4 hours ago.
Expecting- I made my own pumping bra :) Buy a cheap one of the clearance rack with no padding (I bought a few sizes up so that it would fit over my clothes at work). Then cut a small openingin the middle. I have a Medela so I take the funnel part and place it through the opening, and then connect to the other little thing that goes in the bottle. Strap it on and you are hands free! felicia marie -
5 hours ago.
Gladek - Congrats!! My LO just turned one on the 16th and I got my AF back for the first time on the 16th!! Ughh it sucks.. I totally forgot how it feels to have an AF. Poor SO is getting frustrated cuz he can't get none. Lol. Now i'm terrified that I COULD get prego now. I'm not ready for another one right now. I'm on the mini-pill but i think i'm going to switch to a stronger BC... lilli1317 -
6 hours ago.
expecting - Dual pumping takes practice and skill! I always did the one arm across both pumps to turn on and off. You'll get the hang of it. I learned way too late into the process that they actually make pumping bras so you can slide the pieces right into the bra and keep them in place. I never tried them though so I dont know how well they work. As for lying down, it never really worked for either of us, but I heard using pillows helped. Put however many pillows you need under the hip you are lying on to give yourself a boost and a better angle to aim. expecting-2b-patient -
6 hours ago.
Few Questions: I have an electric duel pump- how do I pump both breast at the sametime and turn the pump on and off?? Aslo, I've been wanting to feed my baby laying down so we both can rest. How do I do this without blocking his nose? My boobs are so big I always have to take a finger and push my breast in so he can breath. But while laying down it's more difficult and I get sleepy and forget. Also are there any tricks to get good latch laying down? I find it's always painful. While I feed sitting up I have to sqeeze my boob flat and guide it into my LO's mouth, then I sill have to hold it into place. All this is difficult while laying... THANKS! phatbaby57 -
19 hours ago.
armywife-best advice try it and see. if baby latches and drinks then i'd say it's not too late. just keep an eye one wet and poop diapers so you know lo is getting enough.
hchina- according to 'The No-Cry Sleep Solutions' book that I'm reading lo should be taking 2 or 3 naps a day and sleeping about 4 or 5 hours altogether through those naps then at night sleeping 10 or 11 hours. 5 hours is considered 'sleeping through the night' armywife923 -
20 hours ago.
Hi I have a question about breastfeeding and I dont know if its true. I was breastfeeding in the beginning and I ended up stopping at 3 weeks. I feel so bad about it and its been around 6 weeks since I have stopped but I really want to start again. Someone told me that its not too late is this true? I really want to start again but I dont know if I can or what to do if I still can. Please help! gladek -
20 hours ago.
My son is one tomorrow, and we are still going strong! I am so glad I made it to this milestone, and will let him lead the way as to when he is ready to stop. I STILL haven't got my cycle back yet, though, even though I go all day at work without pumping now. I would love to try for little brother or sister for Raynor. DulcianasMom -
1 days ago.
Thanks for all the tips ladies :) I will definatley give them a go! lilli1317 -
1 days ago.
dulcianasmom - Why dont you try to give her something very 'important' to do while you are breastfeeding. Something she can look forward to each time and that she can really be involved in like a specific activity. Since she knows you have to be still and tied down when you are breastfeeding maybe encourage her to help you with something... like hide some things and ask her if she can find all the crayons for you or put all the dirty clothes in a laundry basket or something like that. Maybe just prepare a task ahead of time so she feels important and independent. She may begin to look forward to doing that special thing to help you out. You could tie the 'chores' into her baby too. Find all the doll clothes or prepare the doll lunch. hchina -
2 days ago.
miamimom2b-thx i was hoping i would get that answer campimama -
2 days ago.
Dulciana- Have you tried getting her a baby to 'feed' at the same time? Pretending she is just like mommy could help her. Also, you could try reading to her while you feed. Turning a favorite cartoon on worked for me too from time to time. Rewards for acting like a big girl and helping mommy by being quiet.....just a few thoughts. Good luck! DulcianasMom -
2 days ago.
I have an issue and its related to breastfeeding but more along the lines of older siblings. Here's the deal....I have breastfeed my LO since birth, she is 8months old now. I have a 4yr old daughter as well. Before the baby was born I was candid and truthful with my oldest about how mommy would feed the baby. Naturally, in the beginning there was a lot of curiosity. Now, fast forward to the present and at times we STILL deal with some jealously issues (my oldest would never do anything harmful to the baby, she just grapples at me for ANY and ALL attention i will give her). And this is where the problem lies...whenever i sit down to breastfeed the baby she always has to clamor around me, be loud, bouncing around, trying to touch the baby...etc. Its getting very hard to breastfeed the baby cause she is at that age where she is EASILY distracted so she sees her big sister flitin around and she comes off the breast and laughs and its hard to get her to stay on to get a good feeding. NOW, herein lies another issue...i cannot go into another room for some quiet privacy due to the fact that my husband works 1pm-11pm so for the majority of the day, its just me and the girls. I really cannot trust my 4yr old to be alone in the other room, she is just too mischevious. Are there any of you ladies with this sort of issue?? I just feel bad cause it seems like i'm always shouting and scolding my oldest to, 'be quiet!' and 'sit still' and so on...any suggestions? miamimom2b -
2 days ago.
hchina - the seedy texture is definitley normal for a BF baby!
Ladies today I saw for the FIRST time another mom BF'ing her baby in public. It felt so good to finally see someone besides myself BFing. I gave her a big smile. lol. On another note, today I was at Nordstroms shopping & I visited the womans lounge, it is such a nice place to BF. It is a quiet & private place to BF & they have a nice changing table - anyways just thought I'd share my great BF'ing stories of the day :) hchina -
2 days ago.
Hi ladies i have a couple of qs i hope you can help me with. Since ive started bf afain bubs poo has been yellow which i have been told is a good sign, but its also seedy in texture. could anyone tell me is this normal?
another q i have, not related to bf but its about bubs sleeping pattern. lately i have noticed he has not been wanting to nap throughout the day. how many hours should a 5 mth old have a day. what kind of routine should we be in now.? he is sleep well at night though... lorelaismom -
4 days ago.
I wanted to thank all of you ladies who helped with my latching issues. I used a combination of ideas and Scarlett is a much better nurser now. So thank you!!!! :) felicia marie -
4 days ago.
Hello Ladies ! So my luck has finally come to an end. I got my 1st AF exactly a year after I had my baby. It's her 1st birthday today!! And my 24th birthday! Anywho, I have a question regarding my Birth Control. Before i had my baby, I would take 3 weeks of pills, then the 4th week would be when I get my AF. Because I am BF, I take the Mini-Pill. I take all 4 weeks. Will my body know when my next AF is due? Should I start taking a stronger BC?? I don't want to get pregnant any time soon. miamimom2b -
4 days ago.
emma - they sell the strips at babysrus! I have them! they are pretty neat! emmalouliz -
4 days ago.
where can I get these test strips? The husband is so uptight :) ThatOne -
4 days ago.
emmalouliz- they actually have test strips that will tell you if your blood alcohol level is over .02%(the level that can be harmful to baby). Maybe if you get some and test he will be ok. ThatOne -
4 days ago.
emmalouliz- they actually have test strips that will tell you if your blood alcohol level is over .02%(the level that can be harmful to baby). Maybe if you get some and test he will be ok. miamimom2b -
4 days ago.
emmalouliz - I LOVE my glass of wine or beer once my LO is asleep for the night! I do have milk pumped anyways in the fridge in case he happens to wake up (he hasn't yet!) You are right that milk leaves your body as it does in your blood so there is no problem having a drink once LO is down for the night. Tell your hubby you have done your research! Cheers :) gladek -
4 days ago.
ammalouliz-Some people belive no alcohol, some people even encourage moms whose supply is a bit low to have one drink now and again. My son is one year this week, and I've have several nights that I've had one beer after he went to bed.
Your milk is just fine in the morning. Maybe talking to a local lactation consultant would ease his mind? emmalouliz -
5 days ago.
Hey everyone its been a little while since I've needed any advice but I could sure use some now. Since Kileys arrival I've been avoiding the subject of alcohol because I pretty much just assumed it would be off limits while nursing (no brainer). So it was just recently that I figured out that after she is down for the night I could have a glass of wine if I liked. Kiley sleeps through the night so I figure that means its safe to nurse her in the morning. I know I have the option of pumping ahead of time and offering that if she does happen to need a feeding during the night. I've done alot of research both internet and books so I could have as much information as possible. The research I've done through La Leche League and Kellysmom says that alcohol leaves the breastmilk at the same rate that your blood alcohol level drops. Alcohol is not stored in the breastmilk any longer than in your blood. So pumping and dumping is not neccesarry and really is just a comfort measure for the mom. After 1 glass of wine I'd like to think that by the morning my blood alcohol level is normal right! The problem is that my husband just doesn't think that with all my research that what I've found out is reliable. Because its on the internet he thinks it can't be trusted or something (which I get but I'm pretty sure I'm using good sites). He wanted me to call the pediatrician and get her answer. Well I did that but she can't give me an answer because it would be totally unethical to do a study on it and if she told me it was safe and for some reason it wasn't she'd be held accountable. So OF COURSE she couldn't give me an answer on if it was safe. Does anyone have an accredited resource with accurate information on safe amounts of alcohol while NOT nursing, but nursing the following morning? I wouldn't ever nurse and drink at the same time thats just a horrible thing to do. I would never put my babys health in jeopardy but I would like to be able to enjoy a glass of wine every now and then. Please advise :)