Advanced age and pregnancy
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Becoming pregnant after the age of 35 puts women into a category that is a growing trend. The pregnancy rate for mothers over 35 is significantly rising. For some reason, researchers and medical professionals have chosen 35 to be the magical age for classifying a woman as "advanced maternal age".
Risks
Pregnancy at any age does not come risk free. After the age of 35, there are additional concerns that need to be kept in mind during pregnancy. Most mothers feel that the risks associated with becoming pregnant after age 35 are secondary to the benefits of starting a family of their own.
As a woman's age increases, her chances of conceiving decrease. However, once a woman has become pregnant, the risks of carrying a child with a birth defect are higher. For instance, the odds of having a child with Down Syndrome at age 20 is 1 in 10,000, about 1 in 1,000 for the 35-year old mother and approximately 1 in 100 for 40-year old mothers. Every woman is born with a certain number of eggs and as the woman gets older, so do her eggs. The mother's eggs have been exposed to more x-rays, illnesses, drugs, etc throughout the years. However, both the woman's eggs and the father's sperm can be responsible for any birth defects that the child is born with.
Down Syndrome and other birth defects can be diagnosed during pregnancy through prenatal testing. Diagnostic testing is routine in mothers over the age of 35 and should an abnormality be discovered, the parents must decide whether to proceed with the pregnancy. Doctors, genetic counselors, pediatricians, maternal-fetal specialists and other medical professionals are available to help with this tough, life-changing decision.
Older mothers also have a higher chance of developing pregnancy-related complications. Women that are 35 and over are more likely to develop high blood pressure, diabetes and cardiovascular disease. The chances of suffering a miscarriage, preterm labor or postpartum hemorrhage increase as age increases as well. Although nothing can be ruled out for anyone, regardless of age, women that are in overall good health and receive regular prenatal care are less likely to experience these conditions.
Benefits
Although there are risks associated with becoming pregnant after the age of 35, there are also benefits. Medical science has come along way and the risks associated with advanced maternal age are lower and less complicated than they once were. Technology allows for easier testing and earlier diagnosis of potential birth defects.
Older mothers have improved the odds for themselves when it comes to lowering these risks. Because of the increased risks of complications, mothers of advanced age are usually more likely to eat healthy, exercise throughout pregnancy and receive early, quality prenatal care. When a pregnant mother makes an effort to minimize or eliminate the odds of conceiving a child with birth defects, she can take years off of her pregnancy profile. Due to this, an older woman can have just as good of a chance of delivering a healthy baby as a younger mother.
More than half of older mothers have college degrees and are career-oriented. Generally, women of advanced maternal age have met their educational and career goals, making them financially secure. Older mothers have usually been settled in their lives, relationship and have a certain stability that younger mothers may not have had the chance to accomplish. It has been theorized that the mothers of advanced age make great parents because of their stability and maturity. Because older mothers have had time to themselves, they are less likely to feel bogged down with the daily demands of raising a child. Studies have shown that mothers with advanced age were more likely to demonstrate patience and other qualities that were beneficial to the development of a young child.
Complications and Concerns
There are risks and concerns associated with advanced maternal age. Of course, not all expectant women will experience complications during their pregnancy. Prenatal tests and screenings can diagnose complications early so that you and your caregiver can make informed choices early in the pregnancy. Although all pregnant women are capable of developing complications during pregnancy, the following list shows the possible complications that mothers over the age of 35 are more likely to face.
- Down Syndrome
- Decreased fetility
- Twins or multiples
- High blood pressure
- Gestational diabetes
- Arthritis
- Preterm labor
- Miscarriage
- Placental abruption
- Placenta previa
- Low-birthweight baby
- Higher caesarean rate
- Higher chance of maternal death
- Stillbirth
- Ectopic pregnancy
- Birth defects
Advanced Paternal Age
Alongside with advanced maternal age, there are slight risks associated when the father of the conceived child is older. In the past, it was believed that the father of a baby was limited to fertilization. However, recent studies have shown that father's of advanced age are more likely to have abnormalities in their sperm that produce a child with birth defects, like Down Syndrome. Once a man is of advanced age, his sperm have had greater exposure to environmental hazards and may contain altered or damaged genes. Men also work in occupations that expose them to higher environmental hazards and stress levels. In recent studies, 25% of Down syndrome cases can be traced to the father.
Women who are over the age of 35 are considered to be of advanced maternal age. However, it seems that men are labeled advanced paternal age when they reach 40. At this time there is no universally accepted age to determine advanced paternal age, but 40 is the age that genetic counselors base their information on. Because older men are generally married to older women, it is often hard to determine which parent is responsible for contributing an altered gene or chromosome. A woman that conceives a child with a man of advanced age, has a slightly higher chance of experiencing a miscarriage.
The question of whether or not birth defects can be linked to advanced paternal age remains mainly unanswered. Researchers do think there is a connection, but the connection is slight. Genetic counselors and obstetricans can offer advice and further testing if there is any concern regarding complications due to advanced paternal age.
Comments: Advanced age and pregnancy
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15 days ago.
I love that this site seems to be a little more active. I enjoy talking to other moms my age who mostly thought they were through having babies... lol, ha ha on us... dawnp -
15 days ago.
wow that was strange reading your last post..got there..told me things werent positioned right, had me drink 5 cups of water but still wasnt happy..so were going back in 3 weeks for an amnio but with the results that only take 48 hours...he said my placenta looks healthy but just doesnt wanna be touched right now. so we'll see. SJC -
16 days ago.
dawnp - good luck with your CVS, at least you know what to expect now. I was surprised how much it hurt, but that was because they were going to reschedule because things were just not in the right position and then all of a sudden the Consultant said, sorry I am going to have to move quick whilst I have the chance and literally jabbed me with a local and went straight in! But like I said - all was good in the end. I did take it easy for a whole 4 days tho. I am glad I am not the only one with the 'out of breath' thing. I sometimes find myself getting breathless when I am talking too much! What is that all about! and my boyfriend is always saying 'why are you so out of breath?' what fun - only 13 weeks to go for me - or thereabouts... dawnp -
16 days ago.
sjc, i have been out of breath since month 2..i thought i was just imagining it until my husband looked at me weird one nite and said 'are you alright?..you sound like you were just in a marathon' haaaaa..and i still have sooo long to go (ill b 12 weeks sunday) I go for my CVS today, so scared. I had one with my 2 year old, an amnio with my one year old so i dont know why im afraid. I think its the whole turning 40 thing this year and in my mind thats why im scared, even tho my doctor says she has sooooo many patients 40+ having babies..just need to get thru this test so i can enjoy this last pregnancy.. SJC -
16 days ago.
HI there. I am 41 and pregnant with my first child. I am in week 27. I have been lucky with some things and not so lucky with others.I never had morning sickness. However, now I am so breathless all of the time, suffer bad lower back pain most of the time. I haveto have extra scans at 28 weeks, 34 weeks and 38/40, which slightly concerns me cos all my screens were ok and CVS was clear. michelle007 -
16 days ago.
Okay, I'm back to complain some more about being 41 and preggo. I'm now alomost 32 weeks and I can barely move. My back hurts all the time, nothing helps, I have terrible heartburn and I can't sleep and Waa, Waa!!!! I feel like such a big sissy, it's alot harder for me this time around! Is anyone having a rough time? I am glad the baby is doing GREAT!!!! lovingwhatis -
21 days ago.
It is so wonderful to talk to women who understand! I am just getting over the lovely flu myself it is no fun when you are pregnant and can't take anything for congestion issues! Sore throat ohhhhh myyyyyy! I have had to take a week off of work which has not been fun! I love my job I work in a jumior high school as an assistant helping special needs kids:) HOw about you ladies are you working out of the home and if you are staying home what kinds of things do you do to keep yourself and your children occupied? He he when do you think you will go on Maternity leave a week before the day of your due date I am thinking I will go a week befoer my due date this is my plan of course!hehe mommykaren -
21 days ago.
Hey mommies. I just found this forum. I have been on the weekly forum only until now. I 'm glad I found you ladies. I'm 39 and at the end of my 7th week of my first ever pregancy. Yea! I've been lucky to not have too much nausea, but this week, it crept in there and lucky me, I just vomited for the first time. I'm lucky I made it this far without m/s. dreambaby16 -
23 days ago.
Well, I'm posting this and still in such shock. I just turned 44 earlier this month. I have a 24 yr, 17 yr and 17 month old. We worked hard to conceive the youngest and figured at this point, there would be no others. I wasn't feeling well after work on Friday, took a pregnancy test, very light line, I thought it was one of those evaporation lines...anyway, about 5 tests later including a digital one, I am pregnant. We were not trying nor preventing...I have dear, dear friends desperate to get pregnant who can't. I've dreamed of another baby, haven't wanted a girl my whole life...and am in shock. I know how early it is lots, lots can happen and I feel mentally prepared, especially because we have Luke, but I want to be excited too. I know people will be shocked, especially with my age, they were for the first one. anyway, just praying for the positive and just recovering from the flu at the same time. Fun! shiningmoon -
23 days ago.
lovingwhatis... I've got a 14 year old and didn't think I could get pregnant and here I am 16 weeks! Crazy to be starting over after all these years. Your not alone! We are really excited too! carab -
23 days ago.
I too thought I was done (have 2 kids now: 5yrs and 14 months). I found out 2 weeks ago that I am very pregnant. 18 weeks today. YIKES! DIdn't think Id have another... just before my 40th birthday! lovingwhatis -
23 days ago.
I was searching for this forum! Hurray I found it! I am 38 years old and seriously thought I was done having children my eldest is 19 and just had a child herself my youngest now I guess will be my middle child hehe is 18 and in grade 12. My due date is March 14 I am now 5 months and know I am having a boy! We will name him Elijah I am so very excited about my child and look forward to connecting with other women closer to my age! danielle*-o-* -
36 days ago.
hello ladies, i am 37 years old and recently remarried. DH and I started TTC this year.. I havent had a baby since 1997. This past year i have m/c in Feb (5wks), July (7wks), and ectopic pregnancy with surgical removal of my right tube in Oct (6wks). I have gotten pregnant every time i've tried. Now nervous cause my fertility chances are shot. Anyone know of any happy endings???
Please message me your post because there arent very many replies on here... thanks titangoddess -
38 days ago.
Hi Kylie~ Well to answer some of your questions you have to look inside to find those. The others I may be able to answer but these answers are my own opinion keep this in mind. How you would handle a child with a disability? That is totally up to you but there are so many tests these days to avoid this if it was an option. I believe in testing to some extent and I think that I would do more harm to a child to bring it into this world for selfious reasons if they did infact have a serious lifechanging problem. Many people choose to do just that. I am not one of those people. For the birth part, with your history you should be a factor in arranging a c-secion before your due date to avoid any further problems as before. Talk with your ob about this as a plan if you are going to try to see what they would be able to offer you. Pre-eclamsia is a big factor but not unmanageable. You can talk about ways to prepare your body for this with your doctor. Is it the clock ticking or hormones? Well, maybe it is both or maybe it is neither. If you want another child then you should have one or at least try. This is something you should plan with your partner. It takes two to get in this and its takes a village to raise it. You pretty much answered your own questions on whether you can or can not do it. If you feel you can do it, then do it and roll your dice as many others have done before. How you are going to feel about it is the only answer you need. For you the only question is Do you want another child in your life and do you feel that you could raise it with the best of your abilities? Answer that and you have your answer. Goodluck whatever you do. Welcome to confusion... LOL.. it's not that bad. You'll be fine. kylieandcorismommy -
38 days ago.
I found this website tonight after doing some research about trying to get pregnant over the age of 35 yrs old. We have two DD's but both pregnancies were not trouble free. Eight weeks of bedrest and pre-eclampsia with my first pregnancy 7 yrs ago and diagnosed with pre-e again at delivery with our second three yrs ago. Second daughters birth was VERY difficult as she became stuck in the birth canal and had to be pushed out as someone pumped my stomach by standing on my delivery bed. My husband says now that he thought I was going to stroke out and is concerned about my health were we to try to get pregnant again. We have not begun 'trying' yet but are doing some research and are really searching our hearts to see if this is something that is that we long for or am I just faced with the ticking of the clock as I approach my 37th birthday. Anyone who has anything to offer about their experience having a child closer to or over 40 would be appreciated. Some of my very real concerns....would I have a healthy pregnancy, how would I handle bedrest with a working husband and two small kids should that happen, how would be handle a child with special needs should that arise and how would it affect our family, marriage, children, etc., and finally am I NUTS for thinking about starting all over again or just hormonal??? 3rdbabyat38 -
39 days ago.
Hi ladies, I am new to the site and wanted to see how some other moms are feeling... I will be 39 when this baby is born. There will be a 10 year age difference between my 2nd child and this baby and my firstborn will officially be a teenager '13' a month after baby #3. This pregnancy was quite a surprise for us, we thought we were through having babies lol, what a blessing to be given this gift. Hope everyone is well. ragtopgirl -
41 days ago.
I am 14 weeks preggo today! ....42 and have a 20 month old. Boy am I tired! dawnp -
42 days ago.
hi Lanak..congrats on your pregnancy.. im 40 years old,prego w/my 4th..hope we have fun on this wild adventure.. go to my 1st dr appt on Friday, cant wait! alomah -
43 days ago.
Hi Lanak, I'm 44 and expecting my 10th baby. lourds -
48 days ago.
lanak, that is so good news, congratulations! May you have a healthy, happy pregnancy and baby... lanak -
48 days ago.
Hi, my name is Lana and I am 43 and pregnant for the first time and very very surprised......I am 7 weeks along and waiting for my first doctors appt. Looking for other older women who are here also.
titangoddess -
51 days ago.
Brita4now~ Everything I have read and the information I recieved from my high risk OB says that trisomy is 1/3000 to 1/4000 depending on the trisomy that is affected. Your results are super good. It does say above that for downs a 20 yr old has a 1/10000 chance. Hope this helps. They have a forum on here or you can go to the March of Dimes for more detailed information. That is a great site for new mommies whether it is the first or the 10th. Congrats! Brita4now -
51 days ago.
Hi: before any testing my odds of birthing an afflicted baby were 'high' @ 1:376 based on my old age of 35. After having the NT -- measure of 1.9 @ 13 weeks 6 days and the quad screen blood my results were 1:4386. The odds have improved greatly for which I am glad but do those odds include trisomy 13, 18 and 21? If so, I thought my odds for trisomy 13/18 were 1:10,000 prior to testing, please correct if I'm wrong! mrsroest -
52 days ago.
SJC- I have had scans at all those dates also. I am at 35 weeks and everything is progressing just fine. I think they just give you more scans over 40. I'm 43. lourds -
53 days ago.
SCJ, it does not mean anything (wrong, I guess), it is good you will be monitored closely by your partner-consultant, unlike mine, I saw my bub at 6th week and then at 31st week when I was about to give birth due to preeclampsia, the purpose was to see if he is tolerating the environment down there, AND we did not know that i was already having a slight polyhydramnios...