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Advanced age and pregnancy

Advanced age and pregnancy



It's never too late to start your family!

Becoming pregnant after the age of 35 puts women into a category that is a growing trend. The pregnancy rate for mothers over 35 is significantly rising. For some reason, researchers and medical professionals have chosen 35 to be the magical age for classifying a woman as "advanced maternal age".

Risks

Pregnancy at any age does not come risk free. After the age of 35, there are additional concerns that need to be kept in mind during pregnancy. Most mothers feel that the risks associated with becoming pregnant after age 35 are secondary to the benefits of starting a family of their own.

As a woman's age increases, her chances of conceiving decrease. However, once a woman has become pregnant, the risks of carrying a child with a birth defect are higher. For instance, the odds of having a child with Down Syndrome at age 20 is 1 in 10,000, about 1 in 1,000 for the 35-year old mother and approximately 1 in 100 for 40-year old mothers. Every woman is born with a certain number of eggs and as the woman gets older, so do her eggs. The mother's eggs have been exposed to more x-rays, illnesses, drugs, etc throughout the years. However, both the woman's eggs and the father's sperm can be responsible for any birth defects that the child is born with.

Down Syndrome and other birth defects can be diagnosed during pregnancy through prenatal testing. Diagnostic testing is routine in mothers over the age of 35 and should an abnormality be discovered, the parents must decide whether to proceed with the pregnancy. Doctors, genetic counselors, pediatricians, maternal-fetal specialists and other medical professionals are available to help with this tough, life-changing decision.

Older mothers also have a higher chance of developing pregnancy-related complications. Women that are 35 and over are more likely to develop high blood pressure, diabetes and cardiovascular disease. The chances of suffering a miscarriage, preterm labor or postpartum hemorrhage increase as age increases as well. Although nothing can be ruled out for anyone, regardless of age, women that are in overall good health and receive regular prenatal care are less likely to experience these conditions.

Benefits

Although there are risks associated with becoming pregnant after the age of 35, there are also benefits. Medical science has come along way and the risks associated with advanced maternal age are lower and less complicated than they once were. Technology allows for easier testing and earlier diagnosis of potential birth defects.

Older mothers have improved the odds for themselves when it comes to lowering these risks. Because of the increased risks of complications, mothers of advanced age are usually more likely to eat healthy, exercise throughout pregnancy and receive early, quality prenatal care. When a pregnant mother makes an effort to minimize or eliminate the odds of conceiving a child with birth defects, she can take years off of her pregnancy profile. Due to this, an older woman can have just as good of a chance of delivering a healthy baby as a younger mother.

More than half of older mothers have college degrees and are career-oriented. Generally, women of advanced maternal age have met their educational and career goals, making them financially secure. Older mothers have usually been settled in their lives, relationship and have a certain stability that younger mothers may not have had the chance to accomplish. It has been theorized that the mothers of advanced age make great parents because of their stability and maturity. Because older mothers have had time to themselves, they are less likely to feel bogged down with the daily demands of raising a child. Studies have shown that mothers with advanced age were more likely to demonstrate patience and other qualities that were beneficial to the development of a young child.

Complications and Concerns

There are risks and concerns associated with advanced maternal age. Of course, not all expectant women will experience complications during their pregnancy. Prenatal tests and screenings can diagnose complications early so that you and your caregiver can make informed choices early in the pregnancy. Although all pregnant women are capable of developing complications during pregnancy, the following list shows the possible complications that mothers over the age of 35 are more likely to face.

  • Down Syndrome
  • Decreased fetility
  • Twins or multiples
  • High blood pressure
  • Gestational diabetes
  • Arthritis
  • Preterm labor
  • Miscarriage
  • Placental abruption
  • Placenta previa
  • Low-birthweight baby
  • Higher caesarean rate
  • Higher chance of maternal death
  • Stillbirth
  • Ectopic pregnancy
  • Birth defects

Advanced Paternal Age

Alongside with advanced maternal age, there are slight risks associated when the father of the conceived child is older. In the past, it was believed that the father of a baby was limited to fertilization. However, recent studies have shown that father's of advanced age are more likely to have abnormalities in their sperm that produce a child with birth defects, like Down Syndrome. Once a man is of advanced age, his sperm have had greater exposure to environmental hazards and may contain altered or damaged genes. Men also work in occupations that expose them to higher environmental hazards and stress levels. In recent studies, 25% of Down syndrome cases can be traced to the father.

Women who are over the age of 35 are considered to be of advanced maternal age. However, it seems that men are labeled advanced paternal age when they reach 40. At this time there is no universally accepted age to determine advanced paternal age, but 40 is the age that genetic counselors base their information on. Because older men are generally married to older women, it is often hard to determine which parent is responsible for contributing an altered gene or chromosome. A woman that conceives a child with a man of advanced age, has a slightly higher chance of experiencing a miscarriage.

The question of whether or not birth defects can be linked to advanced paternal age remains mainly unanswered. Researchers do think there is a connection, but the connection is slight. Genetic counselors and obstetricans can offer advice and further testing if there is any concern regarding complications due to advanced paternal age.





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7thbaby - 4 days ago.
It's been awhile since I have gotten on here. We had a flooded basement that has been requiring a lot of work. We were in a hotel for my oldest daughter to be able to bathe for prom. Anyway, we are still cleaning up the aftermath and fighting the insurance company. I did have a doctor appointment to follow up how I was doing after the D&C. She said there is not a problem to breastfeed while ttc or even throughout the pregnancy. I am wondering whether I should consider buying an ovulation prediction kit or not. Do any of you feel that they are more helpful than just following your urges? I most always have done the latter. As for my daughter's dental, she does have decay and I am going to have her teeth restored. I am not surprised because the two kids prior to her had problems as well. I was hoping to stop nursing her at a year, but she is finally starting to slow down somewhat.

mom2fourgr8kids - 5 days ago.
Alohamom, I sent you a link. I took 25mg of micronized dhea 3 times a day. Right now, I'm doing well to remember it 2 times a day. I stop it at about 7dpo, until AF, or a bfn around 12 dpo, then start up again. Although the recommendation is to take it until you get a bfp. There's no time in your cycle that you have to start taking the dhea, but it takes a few weeks to help. I'm also taking 180-200mg Soy Isoflavones cd 2-6. It did get me a bfp last cycle, but that ended in an early m/c. This cycle is a bfn though. :(

alohamom3 - 5 days ago.
Mom2four yes I read a whole bunch about it. I want looking up on the Internet and came across some research on it. What they don't say is when to start taking it and how such. How did you find out and then start. My so happy your sons tooth is fine.

mom2fourgr8kids - 6 days ago.
Hope everyone is doing well. Any exciting news? It's sooooo quiet in here. Alohamom, are you looking into trying DHEA? Relieved that my baby boy's teeth are all fine. They are stained from the iron/fluoride drops that he got for a very short period of time.

mom2fourgr8kids - 9 days ago.
7thbaby, my 18 month old has a dentist appt tomorrow. He has dark spots on his teeth, and I'm freaking out! My daughter nursed almost exactly as long as him (nearly 18 months), and never had a problem. They were both heavy night time nursers. My 18 month old usually drinks water from his sippy cup. I hope your daughter's dental problems aren't too bad. :(

mom2fourgr8kids - 9 days ago.
Aloha, I took DHEA for two and half months before getting pregnant with my now 18 month old. I am taking it now. Has someone recommended you take it?

alohamom3 - 10 days ago.
Hey ladies have anyone of you been put on DHEA and got pregnant?

eightisenough - 13 days ago.
I took Nature's Sunshine Thyroid Support. I also think I was possibly having some progesterone issues so I used a wild yam progesterone cream right after ovulation until the first day of my period. I conceived the first month after I stopped nursing because if a horrible mastitis infection in January when my son turned 19 months. I wasn't necessarily ready to wean, but he did well after three nights.

7thbaby - 13 days ago.
I see no readiness from my 18 month old for weaning. She needs to have some dental work now because of nighttime nursing habits. The dentist seemed shocked that she is still being nursed. I nursed my son into the first half of pregnancy with her, so I never knew it could cause trouble with pregnancy. However, after having a m/c a little while ago, it makes me wonder...

mom2fourgr8kids - 20 days ago.
Misty, you are struggling with the same thing I was. My little guy would not take a bottle, and I just couldn't bear to refuse him. He literally used me as a pacifier for 16 months. I struggled with the idea of forcibly weaning my baby for the 'chance' to have another. I wish there was some way we could stop that dang clock from ticking! (((hugs))) I know how you feel.

Mistyvt - 20 days ago.
I am highly frustrated! I do not believe I came anywhere near close to ovulation this cycle. I had a few hours of bleeding and now 'nothing' and this may be what is referred to as break through bleeding, cause it was around CD#20. I know I am writing personal info....but I am really trying to figure this all out! Have continued to 'try' to reduce the nursing and my little guy has continued to rebel against my efforts.

azsmika - 24 days ago.
you amazing advanced age mommas--it's always great to hear from you all..we are dealing with so many similar issues...i also started to reconsider the TTC thing..

Mistyvt - 24 days ago.
Just catching up and reading such an array of announcements, some good and some bad. I am sorry for the letdowns fellow posters have had, including some early losses. This journey is not always easy. Here I sit on CD 19 (or so) without any sign of O. I think this cycle is another bust. Still nursing my almost 10 month old. He still isn't taking to this weaning idea and I have no will power when he is melting down emotionally and nuzzling me. I just may not be able to pull this TTC thing off. I am still in turmoil about it, but the odds issue does concern me. I did have a pregnancy that was not normally developing and was forced to make a decision that I am not proud of. So, the subject is very real. It is a very complicated subject for me. I then went on to have my very healthy little boy. I desire for him to have a sibling close in age to grow up with, but the concern of chromosomal problem is there.

mom2fourgr8kids - 25 days ago.
7thbaby- Thank you. I'm not sure what to tell you about ttc again. Although having healthy babies at our age is totally doable, we do have more risks, and each of us has to decide what we're able to handle. I know for myself and my husband it's worth the risk.

7thbaby - 28 days ago.
Mom2four: sorry for your loss. Mamajess: that is great news on the boy.

7thbaby - 28 days ago.
I am reading your posts while nursing my 17 mth old. I had never been told or read that nursing can cause trouble getting a pregnancy off the ground. I am still so afraid to ttc at my age (44 until December). I am worried about the 1 in 30 odds of having a baby with Downs or other chromosomal issue. I also worry about the increased risk of m/c. I am still on the fence, but today I am leaning against ttc. Although I'd love and care for a child regardless of health, I am not so sure I want to 'subject' myself and my family to something that is avoidable. I was just looking at pics of Sarah Palin with her youngest and wondering what that must be like. It is so difficult to imagine. A person never knows what is in store for him.

mom2fourgr8kids - 28 days ago.
mamajess- That's friggin hilarious!! Your u/s tech sounds like a hoot! Glad your heart wasn't set on having a girl. If that had happened when I was preggo with my little girl, I would've had a melt down. See, I have 5 brothers and no sisters. Then I had 2 sons, had a tubaligation, then had it reversed before my girl. :)

mom2fourgr8kids - 28 days ago.
Thanks for your kind words aszmika. I started bleeding Tue, but it hasn't been as horrible as I expected it to be. Have you tried Soy Isoflavones? For me they work very much like clomid without so much of the nasty side effects. I also get ewcm with SI, but not with clomid. If you haven't heard of it try googling ttc with soy isoflavones. You'll get tons of info.

azsmika - 28 days ago.
mama2fourg8kids-sorry momma to hear your news. I've been in this limbo before one time. It was a blighted ovum case but what i understand is that this happens to almost everyone these days. Stay strong and wish you the best.

azsmika - 28 days ago.
eightisenough-what pills were you taking (i mean herbs) for your thyroid before you got prego? I had recently 3 thryoid tests and one of them was not looking so good. however, my doctor said since the other 2 turned out ok, it couldve been a lab error...hmm...just wonder

azsmika - 28 days ago.
mama2fourg8kids-thank you for letting me know..hmm..weird..my doc said Clomid is an anti-estrogen drug so it should not make me nauseated. well, we can i guess try again. In the meantime, i started changing my diet and taking spirulina to reduce my body's acidity. it worked so far. I even had ovulation due to the 1 clomid pill..haha...

Dec Baby - 29 days ago.
I often pop in and follow along...I've just had my baby girl 2 weeks ago:) I'm really hoping I'll be able to have one more baby in 18 months time...but for now, i'm enjoying every minute with my precious little one! Wishing you girls all the best with ttc...hoping I'll see some more bfp's soon:) x

Dec Baby - 29 days ago.
mamajess68...congratulations on getting a boy!! Wow what a surprise you must have had at your u/s:)) So lovely to see how happy you are!

mamajess68 - 29 days ago.
Holy crap!!!! The Chinese Gender Chart WAS right!!! We went to the ultrasound place at 15 1/2 weeks and she said definitely a girl - the Dr. said today at my 20 week u/s that if this is a girl, she has a penis... IT'S A BOY!!!! I knew it all along. I was saying a week after they told us it was a girl that I thought they were wrong. Now I'll have 2 older girls and 2 younger boys. Perfect!!!!

mom2fourgr8kids - 33 days ago.
azsmika, some women get violently ill from clomid. It happened to a lady that used to come in here. It just makes me more moody than usual.


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