Pregnancy After Loss

How can I enjoy this pregnancy after I suffered a loss?

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jdubb - 78 days ago.
uhhhhhhhhhhhh I just hope so much that everything is ok

jamie86 - 78 days ago.
JDUBB- I've been doing the same thing! I can't stand not knowing.

roosa - 78 days ago.
jdubb, same here..

jdubb - 78 days ago.
CRAP! I am on pins and needles!! I keep checking facebook and this site to see how Bonnie is doing and it's driving me insane! Hoping and praying we hear some good news soon!!!!!!!!!!!!!

roosa - 78 days ago.
VINESSA - thank you! I can look back and see how God has been faithful all the way - and I know He will continue to be faithful. In spite of the circumstances, and my lack of understanding as a human. That said, my logic says there is no baby due to the dates, but my heart is not convinced yet. Guess Friday will show, but either way I choose to trust God. BUTTER - I am SO sorry you are going through this. Thinking of you and praying for you. Hugs!!! KRISSIEH - so sorry for your recent loss. My heart goes out to you. Congrats on such a fast BFP. I hope all goes smoothly for you!!! CHARLOTTE, so sorry for the loss of your little girl. I know how devastating it it, and I know that desire of filling the 'hole' as fast as possible. It took me a little longer than you though and for that I am thankful now, because it got my head in the right place a little more.. Regardless, it is very hard to go through a subsequent pregnancy without stressing and being a wreck. You automatically fear the worst. Personally the way I found strength was praying for strength.. And surrounding myself with support, from people who understand (like this forum etc). I hope you have a good OB because that sure helps too. Please take care of yourself and be good to yourself. Thinking of you during this difficult time. xox

Allison Marie - 78 days ago.
BUTTER-imagine me there with you holding your hand.Prayers,hugs,and love to you. Welcome to the new ladies.I hope you all have healthy good pregnancys. CharLOTTE- It's really hard not to loose your mind.I know its hard for me too. I lost one of mine later in the pregnancy too and I know that makes for a long pregnancy :( But I think its good that yuou found us here.I think talking to other girls that know what you are going through....that helps.

butterfly-angel - 78 days ago.
Congrats and welcome to all the newbies :) I am heading off to my scan....so don't want to go...I know what the news will be...I am bleeding so much and with clots and cramping and a crazy sore back...its not good...And I have no one to go with me - so I have to get this news alone once again...I am so sad.

charlotte5511 - 79 days ago.
Hi, I am new to this site. I am so sorry for all of your losses. We lost a little girl in May. She was stillborn at 24weeks. We didn't get any answers as to why it happened. We were, and still are, completely devestated. All I could think of at the time was 'I need to have another baby'. I knew that we couldn't replace our charlotte, but I felt so lost and didn't know how I would survive the grief. I am now 18weeks 5days. This pregnancy has been long and emotionally draining. I have had quite a few meltdowns, but as we are now getting close to the 20week mark I am beside myself! My husband has been a great support through the whole thing. But it's hard when its not physically happening to him. Does anyone know how you get through this nerve-wracking time without loosing your mind?

krissieh - 79 days ago.
butterfly i am praying for you that everything turns out ok xxxx

krissieh - 79 days ago.
congrats 1stbaby H&H 9 mos to you and sticky baby dust to everyone here xxxx

1stbabymummytobe - 79 days ago.
hi all, new to this site!:) had a miscarriage in may 2011. Didnt even know I was pregnant until it happened, worst thing err. The pain was unbearable and the bleeding was the worst. Me and bf worked out I was 2 months pregnant:( after that we decided it was time to try for a baby, 6 months later I have final concieved!! Yippieee!! 5 weeks & 4 days pregnant, not had morning sickness yet!(touch wood!) sore breast's, worst back pain ever, dizziness & lightheaded:( but apart from that I'm loving it!:D just scared about miscarrying again, no smoking, drinking, eating healthly, got want a happy healthy baby, hope everyone else is ok!xx

krissieh - 79 days ago.
aaaaarrrrggggghhhhhhh i'm here now!!!!!!! got my bfp this morn!!!!!!!!!!! only lost my LO at 17 weeks just last month:( but here's to a H&H 9 mos to me xxxx

Allison Marie - 79 days ago.
BUTTER- oh friend. I hate to read your post and I hate that you are bleeding and a wreck. I didnt have any bleeding with this pregnancy but....I had no pg symptoms in the begining either.And it still worked out so far. I wil be praying for you and your LO and I hope things turn around and you come back from your apt.tomorrow feeling really good about things.Big Hugs and lots of love to you.

butterfly-angel - 79 days ago.
I am so stressed out right now...My spotting had completly stopped - but last night - I started to bleed bright red and heavy...along with these cramps - zero symptoms and just not feeling pregnant...I am a nervous wreck for tomorrow...I hate this feeling...I am just so scared for my u/s...

vinessalynn - 79 days ago.
ROOSA- Glad you found a wonderful Dr., but sorry for everything you're going through. You are such an inspiration with your positive attitude and faith. I'm praying that everything is okay, and if not that God gives you peace that passes all understanding.

Allison Marie - 79 days ago.
ROOSA-thats crazy and frusterating about all the wrong info they have given you. I hope you see something wonderful at your ultrasound.Fingers are crssed fro you. BUTTER-Cant wait to hear how your US goes :)

baby-beiler - 79 days ago.
i cant believe they gave you so much wrong infor ROOSA! i hope that you see a baby on the u/s on Thursday though... :/ hugs momma

roosa - 80 days ago.
just returned from the OB. Fantastic OB by the way!! I can't believe though how much mis-information and lack of information there has been. First of all, there is no placental abruption. It is subchorionic hemorrhage, so a bleeding from the lining, which is not abnormal.. The triage nurse told me wrong, and my OB will have a little chat with her. Secondly, at the U/S on Wednesday they apparently saw NO baby!! It is most likely a blighted ovrum.. Not that my OB thought so with surety yet, but I do, since I know my dates.. Anyway, I will have another U/S on Friday at 5 pm and an appointment with my OB afterwards and then we will get some final answers. What can I say.. I am okay, but disappointed and sad..

baby-beiler - 80 days ago.
vine- i was just thinking the same thing lol... my nipples were so sore until a week ago my bra irritiated them.. no lie lol :/

vinessalynn - 80 days ago.
ISIS- sorry about your loss. I hope everything goes smoothly this time around. OKY- congrats on the boys, and sorry about the possibility of TTTS. The good news is that there are a lot of different treatments they can do. The good news is they are watching you closely, and they are ready to intervene if they need to. Just remember it's all in God's hands. BEILER-Congrats on having a boy! Dr.'s tend to be negative...sorry you had to deal with that, but I'm sure everything will be okay. BUTTER- Thanks...it's good to see people I know. I wish this site was set up like facebook to make it easier to stay in touch. :) I would gladly give you some of my symptoms if I could!!! It's crazy...when you don't have symptoms you want them, and when you do have them you complain about them...

roosa - 80 days ago.
butter, I usually don't have any pregnancy symptoms, except from maybe feeling bloated.. so I don't even have that to go by. Yes, I see my OB today, at 11.45. I really thought I was going to miscarry last night, the bleeding was so heavy, and this morning it is very light! drives me crazy!! yes, there is a chance my OB will schedule an U/S but after all the bleeding I experienced after my last internal, I am really scared of that and don't know how I feel about it.. do you have an appointment anytime soon? been thinking lots about you. xox

butterfly-angel - 80 days ago.
VINESSA - Welcome back girl!! Wow - its been awhile! I often wondered how you were doing. Congrats on the new pregnancy and hoping you start feeling better soon. So understand the stress and the 'waiting' for something bad to happen...ROOSA - how you holding up? Do you see your ob today? Any chance at an u/s? I totally get the zero symptoms...its stressful!! I always have really sore boobs right from the start - like before getting my bfp - and this time - nothing at all - not even a bit sensitive - no m/s - pants are not tight at all - can't feel my uterus - nothing...erghhh Have my u/s on Thursday and I feel sick with fear...Thinking of you my friend. OKY - I commented on your blog....you have a whole bunch of people rooting and praying for you and those sweet boys. Miracles do happen...Glad your son is home - praying the meds help him out...BABY - congrats on the boy!! So sorry you are having to deal with this added stress with the heart arrhythmia...praying for you little boy ISI - Welcome. Will you be getting a cerclage? KENNESHA - maybe your doctor could do an u/s next week - when you will be over 6 weeks - at that point there is a good chance of seeing a beating heart. Good luck!

Allison Marie - 80 days ago.
VIN-Congrats on your pregnancy.I hope things get better and I hope this pregnancy goes smoother for you. KENN-That is a hard one cause I'm not sure about your medical care where you live.Is there anyway you can go to a different doctor for a second oppinion? When is your doctor willing to do an ultrasound? ROOSA-ugh thats crap! They should of told you.Idiots.Well...I'm glad you know now.Take it easy and let us know about your apt. OKY-boyys boys boys.he he.love it.I am so sorry though to hear about other problems.I know your hear must be so heavy right now and I'm going to pray for a miracle for you. You have my email,so send me a msg anytime you want. ISIs-Congrats and I hope you have a good healthy pregnancy. BEILER-yay for tema blue.I'm not 100% sure what I am yet.December 9th I will know for sure :) I am sorry to hear about the heart.I will pray for you and your litttle one too. btw did I mention I think doctors can be idiots.grrr

baby-beiler - 80 days ago.
by the way... I am having a BOY! I am quite excited but I am so scared... My little boys heart has a problem with his little heart. It is sending electric impluses at the wrong time. The mean high risk doctor said well you have to be careful or he will go into cardiac arrest. I did research and that only happens in 1% of the time. I thought why not say hey most of the time it resolves itself... UGH!

baby-beiler - 80 days ago.
RED- congrats on your little redheaded bundle of joy! thank God for a happy healthy baby! Allison- team blue or team pink? Roosa- hope u are doing well Vinessa- congrats and hope to see ur baby in a couple of months