Pregnancy After Loss

How can I enjoy this pregnancy after I suffered a loss?

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krissieh - 74 days ago.
charlotte:::: great that you had a good scan, please god there will be plenty more like it :) okynot:::: well i alreaday had an appt for the 14th od this month for a follow up on the m/c, thsi appt included a scan. so my doc said she would ask them to double up this appt and and make it a booking appt for this preg as well but she thought that they prob wont do that and that they will prob send me a separate appt either a week before which is this week or maybe the week after. she said she thought that they are likelt to get me in soon as i seem to be around 7 weeks preg and the mc was almost 8 weeks ago. funny one of the girls over on IAP pregnancy on Facebook said she got hcg results back the other day as well and hers were like 50,000 or so and that she is 10 weeks? it's looking increasingly like it might be a multiple preg for me??? so nervous!! i cannot wait for that appt already!

charlotte5511 - 75 days ago.
Hi again. Went for my 19week scan today. So far all good. Very on edge though, as we didn't get much further than this with our charlotte. Had a tiny bit of spotting on the weekend - totally freaked out! Anyway, trying to take one day at a time, and everything is all good today. OKYNOT - try not to worry too much. I am still not feeling movement every day either and I am a week and a half or so ahead of you. I know how nerve-wracking it would be though. Especially with two. Krissiah & Sarahbeth - - hope all goes well this time round for you both.

okynot - 75 days ago.
krisseah- thanks, I am sorry about your son and I understand your fears. I am excited to hear how things go at your appointment. When is it? sarah- Oh I hope so,for you and me both! Because of what we have gone through I don't think any one of us will escape the fear and worry entirely. One day at a time, just one day at a time. Allison- I think I realized that feeling regular movement won't necessarily ease the worry because they DO have to sleep! I also worry about too much movement all of a sudden. UGH! I can't win.

krissieh - 75 days ago.
allison thank you so much and sticky baby dust to you :) xxx sara beth i can totoally associate with those fears. after my 1st mc i fell preg right after and was a mess every time i went to the toilet. even though i was very sick all the way up until she was born i was so fearful. i am the same already, every pain or twinge i am praying to god that i don't lose this LO. Cant wait for my dating scan!!

Allison Marie - 75 days ago.
KRISS-yay thats great news! Congrats and I hope you have a healthy good pregnancy. ROOSA- I am so sorry to hear your news.I was. But you have such strong faith and courage....it's inspiring. I hope you get pg again very soon and I'm glad you found a great doc for when you do.Hugs. OKY-yes, I am 18 weeks now and still not feeling it ALL the time.Just the last couple of days Im starting to feel it more..mostly after I eat and still not on the outside.:(

roosa - 76 days ago.
Thanks everyone for the love and support - I truly appreciate it. I am very sad, but so grateful for my 3 children and trying to stay hopeful that one of these days there may be a 4th. Thanks again!

sarahbeth13 - 76 days ago.
Beautiful Red! So happy to hear about your healthy handsome boy!! I wish I could have shared some time here with you but I am just so thrilled you and your family are well! Huge hugs to you! Okynot - I can't imagine how scary it must be! I hope very much this holiday will be filled with great new memories of a jolly belly full of movement and health! Twins!! How wonderful. I will be sending lots of happy healthy thoughts your way! I feel so blessed to be back here and am really hopeful I will be able to stay for another 9 months or so. I already find myself questioning every cramp and twinge. It only takes one POAS to find myself right back to the fears and nerves and not letting myself get too attached. Especially when I am so very sad to hear of the pain and loss of others. My heart hurts for Roosa and my fingers hurt from crossing them for Butter. Sending prayers and good thoughts out to you both! Best wishes to everyone! Thanks for being here! Don't know what i would do without you all! Xxxxx

redheadmama - 76 days ago.
BUTTER- how is your heart, lovely?? ((((HUGS))))

redheadmama - 76 days ago.
ROOSA- I am so desperately sorry, my friend... you will continue to be in my prayers. I'm so thankful the Lord is your strength & song, even in the darkest of hours. (((HUGS)))

krissieh - 76 days ago.
okynot was just stalking your page... omg you have been through so much! thank god your twins are doing well! please god they continue to do the same <3 sorry only saw your post now asking me what was going on well.... i lost my son at 17 weeks there 7 weeks ago. still dont know why but have a follow up appt on the 14th with results eek!! :( but i started tracking o after my 1st post m/c period or so i thought it was. well i got my + opk and assumed that i o'd that day but continued with the opk's. 7 days later they were at their darkest. i knew something was up. so i just took a preg test knowing it couldn't show up yet since i was only after o'ing about 6 or so days before. well to my shock i didn't even have to wait, it was a very strong positive. so i got my doc to do a blood test and it came back yesterday at above 70,000 so it looks like i am 5-7 weeks pregnant. needless to say i am astounded at the results. that means we literally got pregnant straight after. that or it is very early days for a multiple pregnancy!! i am still so sad for losing Cathal but so hopeful for this preg. but i dont want to get my hopes up too soon. i have a scan coming up as a follow up appt for the m/c but theywill be checking the due date and how many babies are in there! cannot wait :)

okynot - 76 days ago.
Thanks jamie. I *might* have felt movement about an hour ago. I trying to pay attention to both sides where baby a and b are located. It was just two years ago that I delivered my little boy Axel. Since the babies now have nearly the same due date as he had, all the same milestones are bombarding me especially with the season. It makes it a bit more difficult to get through. I just need to get these babies here safe this spring. Time just isn't moving fast enough! And the grief from losing Trinity in October was still in full force this same time last year. I need new memories for the holidays. Good ones!

jamie86 - 76 days ago.
Oky- yes until you get past 20 some weeks it's normal not to feel movement everyday. Not sure about twins though but I would say the same for them.

okynot - 76 days ago.
vinessalynn- cross posted, Thanks, I hope so too! I am kinda freaking out because I haven't felt movement since the night before last. I have felt it pretty consistent for about a week and a half. I know this is the time where you can go a couple of days without feeling it right? ...RIGHT??

okynot - 76 days ago.
roosa- That is not the news I was hoping for, I am soo sorry! BIG ((HUGS)) I expect to see you back here soon with good news for a long time. I will pray for you. babyb- yes, I think knowledge is power when you can ask the doctor for what you want and need. isis- good luck on thursday, I hope it gives you peace of mind and does the trick! aflorida- I am not sure what is going on, I am sorry I can't help you but hang in there, it is still early. It could be twins. They didn't see baby b on u/s till 8 weeks.

vinessalynn - 76 days ago.
BUTTER and ROOSA- so very sorry for your losses. I pray that God comforts both of you and surrounds you with love. OKY- I'm glad the Dr.s are keeping a close eye on your boys, and I hope things continue to look better. SARAHBETH- congrats and long time no see!! I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy! KRIS- congratulations! I hope everything continues to go well for you and your little one/ones. :)

krissieh - 76 days ago.
isisgirl i have absolutely everything crossed for you! the very best of luck xxxxxxxxx

krissieh - 76 days ago.
roosa i am so sorry :( that absolutely sucks. i hope you will be recieving some very good news very soon as you so deserve it. why do horrible things happen to nice people? its not fair :'(

isisgrl13 - 76 days ago.
roosa isend you big hugs. you are right though next time will be better:) i too need to get a stitch on thursday actully. eeek but i hope all will be ok. hugs sweetheart and this window is being a brat sorry for the frig ups.

baby-beiler - 76 days ago.
ROOSA- o sorry for your loss! i hated those 'confirmation' u/s... the last one we had nothing really to go on to say if it was a m/c or not and i had only had 20 week u/s before where the baby is quite big and i mistakingly thought my inflated bladder was the baby's head... after that she turned the screen away from me... make sure you insist on good care... my ob was awesome after my losses but left this baby go til ten weeks then called and said by the way im out of the delivery buisness... my new doctor wasnt so sure this baby would make it either but now i am recieving the best care because i learned to stand up for myself...

roosa - 77 days ago.
well.. nothing there.. zero.. no sac, no placenta.. it is all gone. hard to believe it all bled out because I was only spotting, but maybe it absorbed.. I am very sad and disappointed, but will be okay.. on a happy note I got to have the post-pregnancy talk with the OB I had hoped for, and if we were ever to get pregnant again I feel very reassured I will be well taken care off (incl a cerclage). thanks everyone so much for your prayers and support.

afloridagyrl - 77 days ago.
Hello Ladies, I am dropping in from week 6 with a few questions. This is my 3rd pregnancy, and I will be 35 in Feb. I went to the ER earlier this week for problems I was having with a hernia that I have and after an ultrasound was told that all they saw was a sack with some fluid. My HCG was at 8000 but I was told that at 8000 they should see more than just a sack and that they suspect the pregnancy has been lost. I was 6.3 weeks by LMP. No cramping or Bleeding. Can anyone here give me a shred of hope? Do my numbers really sound bad? I was still having symptoms (stronger than with my other two) and still haven't had a single issue with this pregnancy so far. ( Although lately I've been questioning whether or not my symptoms are diminishing...still not sure of that is really happening or if it's in my head but the nausea hasn't gone anywhere.) I'm so regretting having that ultrasound. I don't return to the Dr. Until Monday when they will recheck my HCG. Any info or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

okynot - 77 days ago.
Butter- I am still grieving with you. : ( I pray God will give you the peace that surpasses all understanding.

okynot - 77 days ago.
checkin in on ya roosa, prayers going your way. ((HUGS))

krissieh - 77 days ago.
best of luck roosa :) fx

roosa - 77 days ago.
40 min till I leave - yikes :)