Whats Safe and Unsafe:Sex

Is it safe to continue having sex during pregnancy?

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domevapurple - 958 days ago.
moms i wanna help my friend but i dont know what to say thats why i just think that i post in here.. its surprise me coz one day my friend stop by in the house and shes crying and she tell me why she cry and i cant understand too..she saw his husband masterbating by him self..well i told her that maybee her husband is not satiesfied for her in bed.. and shes very jelous coz her husband is to sweet and care for others that she want it on her only.. i hope you guys tell me what is the nice word to tell to my friend.. thanks

cheyne - 1011 days ago.
My pregnancy book has a section on ways of stimulating labour when you are overdue - it says that stimulating the nipples is a highly dangerous method of encouraging labour - it warns against this method because it can cause strong and lengthy contractions which can cut off blood supply to the baby - does this mean that stimulation of the nipples during sex is also highly dangerous during pregnancy?

domevapurple - 1019 days ago.
kebler98 thankyou for the info....well yeah i think i need to wait more till inside of my cut is heal im only 3 weeks thats why makes me afraid.thats why i aks anybody here who have c section too and .. yeah i think your rigth that its tight coz when im 5 months pregnant we try but its hurt then when my dr cleck my cervix its hurt to...

kebler98 - 1021 days ago.
I was not tense... I was actually bugging him for it as I am not used to going for that long. I was not saying the section caused the tightness. I said that I didn't think I would have any tightness becuase I had the section and didn't have stiches in the vaganial area. It is sad that some people can get so nasty when someone ask a question and someone replies with their expirence. I even put (Just my expirence) in the comment as I am only one person and have only one child. This place is for women to discuss feeling and expirences and women will be turned off to answering/posting comments if there is such negative comments like yours.

boady - 1021 days ago.
what do you mean if he went to far in.. are you serious?? sorry never heard it that way.. I'm 41 and I have never heard that one before. And this being tight umm what the heck are you talking about??? that again has nothing to do with a c-section. I have a feeling the tightness you were feeling probably was because you were tense.

kebler98 - 1022 days ago.
domevapurple- I also had a section (8 1/2 months ago) I was ready to have see at 3 weeks pp, I talked to the nurse at the OB office and she told me to still wait as your insides still need to heal and that if he went to far in he could cause me to bleed. We only waited 4 weeks and let me tell you he had to go SLOW I was so tight it hurt. You would think I was a virgin. I don't know how other women are but I was shocked at how tight/how much it hurt. I figured with a section I would be the same as before birth. (Just my expirence)

jamie - 1023 days ago.
I just wish my husband was more tender...He is like an animal. I dont want to have sex with him at all right now but I do want sex...I just want it to be intimate, not like two teenagers who just saw eachother naked for the first time. All he does is stare at my ass...its so humiliating!

falltimefairy - 1023 days ago.
My problem is I want sex all the time, through this whole pregnancy. My boyfriend is always too tired. But it is not fair . i am just frustrated all the time and now it is getting uncomfortable for me to even have sex, but I still want it.

domevapurple - 1025 days ago.
got c section last 2 weeks ago...my husband always saying that he miss me to much coz start when i got pregnant he is patient ...everything in my c section is all fine,my question is this when i can have sex again :-(?????????????????????????????? any body here have c section and can tell how long you whait??????

DueSept272009 - 1025 days ago.
I'm almost 18 weeks pregnant...I could go for sex, and dr said its ok, but my partner isn't interested, kind of bothers me, but I'm finding thats normal with some men, since they're scared of harming the baby!?

domevapurple - 1060 days ago.
well mine ....i think im in the 2nd trimester when i have sex start when i got pregnant but after where done gosh i fell the hurt in my lower abdomen so start from that my husband understand and still in patient even sometimes he want it really bad :-)

air*force*mommy - 1064 days ago.
So yesterday I went to the OB clinic due to cramping in my lower abdomen/back, turns out everything is ok, except a minor contraction. SOOO...doc said nomore sex or working out for the time being. Im dying here. :(

divine - 1073 days ago.
I must say,during the first trimester I went off sex completely,for a number of reasons.1# because the first time I gave in to huzzy I bled afterwards,ever since then was to scared to risk having sex again,especially after I had suffered 2 miscarriages b4.2# just didn't fancy it (hormone change!!) now being in my 6th month all Is well,and I'm happy to say me & huzzy r back on track,and I just can't get enough of him!!!! 4got what I was missing out on.

jenakatessa - 1078 days ago.
ok so i gave in to my annoying boyfriend for sex again, this time i actually allowed my self to enjoy it...but since i have found out i was pregnant, I have had 'intercourse' with him 3 times and each time i bleed after!!!! its not red, its pink, i talked to my doctor about it and he siad its ok??? but how am i suppose to enjoy sex if i know im going to bleed after. Iv read up on it, and apparently its because when your pregnant .. your cervix is more sensitive.....plus about 4 years ago i had abnormal cells (pre cervical cancer), and had to have a cone biopsy of the cervix.....i wonder if that has anything to do with it??

jenakatessa - 1081 days ago.
I have no desire for sex and my partner is always wanting it. I dont really know what to do. HE bugs and bugs and I just dont feel like it. He sometimes gets mad at me for it, i guess its a normal guy thing. I dont know how to explain to him that I just dont feel in the mood?

Amhopw5522 - 1157 days ago.
We can not have sex anymore. It hurts, and the baby is so low he can feel him. That sucks, well not right now, I am so mad at him I could kick himout of the house. He makes me hate all men at the moment.

babytauri - 1166 days ago.
Can you still have sex after you lose your mucous plug?

Tejay2 - 1192 days ago.
Thanks for all your comments, im pleased to say we had some lovin again an it was fine no discomfort afterward...all tho i did notice was during the um peak of it i had shooting zingy pains in my boobs lol pleasure an pain haha

gladek - 1198 days ago.
I am 38 weeks and still having sex, although it takes more and more creativity, especially since my husband had shoulder surgery last week :-) Its a definate stress relief...and sometimes a comic relief lately! But it really helps both me and my husband relax a bit and enjoy our last few days as just the two of us. And of course, there is always the added benefit that it may help things along!

lizzie287 - 1199 days ago.
tejay - I had sex until the day before I had my daughter. We had to get creative with positions mind you, but it was still pleasurable forboth of us. Unless there's a medical problem, like placenta previa or something, it is absolutely safe to continue having sex up to the end. My doctor actually ordered it to try to 'help me along' lol.

lovebelly - 1199 days ago.
Here is what happened to me in my first pregnancy 9 years ago. No sex, but I had an orgasm 3 weeks before my due date (get the idea?). It was pretty much a daily thing so not a first or anything. Anyhow, this particular morning, I instantly had a large gush of blood come out. I went to the hospital, and I was having contractions every 90 seconds and was dilated to a 5. I still don't know what happened, but it was the most wonderful labor and delivery experience possible. Finally got my epidural at 8cm, never feeling a single contraction, but it was my last opportunity before pushing. Then 2 good pushes and baby was out. Entire process from bleeding to birth lasted 7 hours. Not sure if it is advised, but I am planning the same thing this birth! I did not have placenta previa or any problems in pregnancy.

HappyForest - 1199 days ago.
tejay- you should be fine. i had sex around that time and i had some bleeding, i called the doctor and they said your body is changing a lot down there around this time, so it is more sensitive. hurts easier and bleeds easier. so unless you get bleeding that doesnt stop, everything is ok. i am 39 weeks pregnant and still have sex if i want to, which isnt a lot of course lol but its absolutely fine unless you have a special condition or something, then the doctor would tell you not to. have fun and dont worry...enjoy it while you still can!

Tejay2 - 1199 days ago.
Ok so i need some advice..altho i have had a baby before i was single so i never had experience wit sex during pregnancy...what im curious to know is are there any dos an donts...i mean i know you cant do any harm to baby an usually you can have sex right up to ya have it but can you harm anything down there like do you have to stop going all the way in...i guess when your full term you couldnt fit or wouldnt want a jolly great penis up there but when do you stop..is it just fine if everything feels ok at the time or what..haha im glad i dnt know anyone on here...i had sex with dh the other night an altho at the time everything felt great i could feel that there was a uteris in the way but it didnt hurt...until the next day i was sore all day around my uteris an if i pushed like trying to poo it was real bad!!! its less tender today but still a bit sore...could i have done damage?even tho it didnt hurt at the time? im 15 weeks..