General::Trying to conceive

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Planning a family can be an enjoyable, exciting and often frustrating occasion. For some couples, conception occurs quickly and effortlessly. For many others, it takes longer to become pregnant. No matter what your situation is, there are many other couples that are experiencing the same thing. In this section, you are encourage to talk about anything related to becoming pregnant. Share your stories, your successes, your hopes and dreams with other women who are trying to coenceive as well.

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justine - 1 days ago.
ok so im probably reading too far into this, but you know how i said a prayer for a sign....well..this lady on the phone i was talking to here at work just said 'god bless you' now i know its nothing big, but people only say these when i sneeze! sooooo maybe its my sign from the big man above!!! oh i hope :) ha ha

[мσтнεя σƒ тωσ] - 1 days ago.
LOL.Yea,hubby always wears protection so with him not i knew he was wanting to.I dont think guys like to talk about it as much as we do.

MichaelaG - 1 days ago.
I know what you mean. If AF is going to come then just come. Stop playing with my mind and getting my hopes up!

justine - 1 days ago.
AMEN SISTA!!!!

justine - 1 days ago.
seriously! and i know he wants one too. because when he lost his job he always said when he got another one we could try for another baby. well he got a job, and it was the first thing i asked for! we didnt start trying til this month. so if he didnt want it as bad as i do, he wouldve pulled out! ha ha haha.

[мσтнεя σƒ тωσ] - 1 days ago.
I guess we r playing the waiting game then..I hate waiting i just want to know if i am or not.& if im not i want AF to be here so we can get to trying again

MichaelaG - 1 days ago.
a few nights ago I had a little bit of blood and now there is none. I was supposed to be visited by AF like only 2 days ago but still!!! This has never happened.

[мσтнεя σƒ тωσ] - 1 days ago.
LOL,I feel ya.I hate when my hubby does that and i want to be so ad and i want to rub it in his face!lol..Its not like he doesnt want another baby anyways so i dont see why he would be saying what he does when it comes to me thinking i am or not.

justine - 1 days ago.
shay, i believe thats normal? im not an expert. i would definitely ask your doctor though. they usually say as long as its not like, chunks of blood and its bright red, you are ok.

justine - 1 days ago.
i tried to take a pic with my phone and digital camera but they suck! they were both so blurry, couldnt even read that part that says the words pregnant and not pregnant with the lines. its so blurry! so of course you all would have said nope dont see it! and i took the test on my lunch, hubby doesnt even know i bought them! ha ha! i will tell him when i get off though. i bet $100 he will say 'uh huh and, what do you want me to do?' ha ha. soo yeah. i tried talking to him last night about everything im feeling and i really do think im pregnant, and he totally blew me off like im making it all up. whatever. im bound to prove him wrong!

shay29 - 1 days ago.
ladies i am getting kinda nervous, i am having a light brown spotting when i wipe and a little in my panties( sorry tmi)

[мσтнεя σƒ тωσ] - 1 days ago.
Yea.U going to post pics of to faint to see?Did u show hubby the test?What did he say?If it was mine i dont see anything..LOL

justine - 1 days ago.
yeah i guess monday if no af, i will get a dollar test. after i got the faints a little bit ago, i prayed(im not even CLOSE to religious btw) and just asked god that if i am or not, to PLEASE give me some sign! it's all in his hands now and i'm just hoping something will happen to me so i know i am or not. i don't know what other physical signs he can give me, just a positive test! but im hoping he hears me, and something is coming my way.

[мσтнεя σƒ тωσ] - 1 days ago.
Lol true.U just want to know for sure!I am the same way.When i got the 3 test today he said i was wasting money.We shall see

justine - 1 days ago.
yeah i doubt i will actually go anywhere to get checked for at least a week. because i just want to avoid that whole argument with my husband. he just says quit wasting your money and WAIT! if you're pregnant you're pregnant, and going to the er right now wont change that. true. so ill hold out for the weekend. i will tell him to hold my debit card so i dont buy more tests! then we will see if monday brings a strong positive or AF! thank you everyone for being so kind :)

[мσтнεя σƒ тωσ] - 1 days ago.
LOL yea that is so true.If your trying u cant just not think about it!Its totally up to u if u can wait a week then go in or go monday and show them the test u took and tell them u want the blood work done to see ur hcg levels

Diane-taketwo - 1 days ago.
I'm off again for a little bit gals - time to eat!!

Diane-taketwo - 1 days ago.
wow Justine - that sure sounds pregnant to me! I would wait though hun. An ultrasound with the hCG below 1000 will show very little. Before 5 weeks, all you may see is a thickening of the uterine lining. The cramping is normal - implantation related. Wait a couple more days and a dollar test will for sure give you an accurate result. Sticky baby dust heading your way!

[мσтнεя σƒ тωσ] - 1 days ago.
LOL yea that is so true.If your trying u cant just not think about it!

wannabamommy8487 - 1 days ago.
Well if you got positives then you are pregnant!!!

justine - 1 days ago.
good idea. i just have to decide if its worth $100...i still owe them from my last false alarm in august ha ha ha.

[мσтнεя σƒ тωσ] - 1 days ago.
YAY Justine..It is up to u maybe go in the ER and say ur having some sharp pain and just found out ur pregnant and want to check ur hcg levels..

Diane-taketwo - 1 days ago.
You know how everyone says 'relax, don't think about it and don't stress about TTC and it will happen'? That makes me a bit irritated, because when you want a baby, you really can't not think about it, and it is stressful. It's true though that stress is one of the biggest factors (besides physical fertility problems) that can stop us from getting pregnant... so it's a catch 22. The key if the 'planning' is stressing you out is to just BD as often as you can and reduce the 'tracking' of stuff... especially if you have tracked a few months and know you ovulate. Knowing that means the next month you don't track - you'll still ovulate, so just BD :) The other important thing - we know e can't put it out of our mind - it's there like a big elephant in the room... well, maybe even like a baby elephant in the room - still pretty big!! LAUGH!! We need laughter therapy to counteract the stress. Make a point of making yourself laugh LOTS, especially as you ovulate and during the 2WW. My cousin's husband is a comedian, and she has 5 kids ;)

[мσтнεя σƒ тωσ] - 1 days ago.
Thats alot of crying Diane!LOLI can get emotional with things to!

justine - 1 days ago.
well. i had to take a lunch today(which i never do!) because people at work were making me feel like crap, i was in tears. so i went home, friend text me some really sweet things and i started crying! well, i took the test from earlier that was invalid, out of my purse. it was an obvious complete positive. two pink lines and all. well i know, way past time limit! so i gave in and took the last two(im not buying any more, thats IT!) and both faint positive. i dunno what to do. my dr wont do an ultrasound(not that it would show much anyway, think its too early?) and they wont do the blood test to measure the hcg unless im pregnant. i know if i go to the ER they will. if i tell them im pregnant and bleeding or something i dunno. but thats $100. so im stuck. just sit and let nature take its course? my head is throbbing. and my abdomen has like sharp sharp pains and cramps. ugh!