TTC After Loss

When can we try to conceive after a loss?

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Beee - 5 days ago.
BFP!!! this morning. First month of trying after my loss in April and ist cycle of clomid.Am nervous and belive God this pregnancy will be fruitful. Wishing all TTC BFB soon.

livanddomsmom - 7 days ago.
Hi I know it maybe a bit soon as i Just had a miscarriage monday I'm just trying to work out what we do for here feeling a little lost in terms of are you meant to wait after having a miscarriage before ttc, I know I am meant wait for a natural cycle after the bleeding stops.

terriann20 - 11 days ago.
Im a healthcare assistant and i worked through mine, it felt like a heavy period with horrible cramps on and off xx

seeg - 11 days ago.
@terrian20, do u think i will be able tow ork when it happens? I am a registered nurse on a medsurg floor.... will i bleed through everything?

terriann20 - 11 days ago.
Oh no seeg :( when i miscarried i was 7 wks bleeding picked up after 2-3 days into a heavy flow n mine lasted about week xx

seeg - 11 days ago.
@terriann20 , my hcg never doubled... my progesterone has been low (im on progesterone) i went for 4 u/s and they still cant find the baby and my sac is still only meassuring 5 weeks. dr says I only have a 5% chance of this baby working out. besides my cervix is open its the first time I have felt what an open cervix feels like I can prob fit a finger in.

terriann20 - 11 days ago.
Seeg my friend had extreme cramps with light bleeding/medium she told everyone she lost it then went to a scan to discover bby wriggling around dr put her on rest-shes still preg xx

seeg - 11 days ago.
So I have started light bleeding with intense cramping, how long does it take to pass the pregnancy and bleed heavy? I don't want it to happen at work

CaniacMom - 13 days ago.
2plus1more, I am so sorry for your loss. Good luck in your journey for another baby. I hope your stay here is short. I know the ladies in this forum have always been a big support for me (although this forum is awfully quiet lately, which I guess is a good thing.)

2plus1more - 13 days ago.
I didnt even know this group was here. I delivered my baby girl on January 29th and she had passed away in the womb a few days prior. After her funeral and grieving we decided not to try for another baby. We have a 5year old and an almost 2year old. I blamed myself and still cry and think about her. We recently decided to try to concieve another baby. So lets hope for the best. Look forward to talking to you ladies. Xoxo

CaniacMom - 15 days ago.
Seeg, sorry that you are going through this. When I had my m/c, the waiting game was the hardest part. I hope you get an answer one way or another soon. If you start having sharp pains in your abdomen, get into the emergency department ASAP. If it is ectopic, your tube could rupture if it isn't dealt with quickly. Belebr, hope everything goes well with your pregnancy. I have been TTC for two years since my loss, so I know I will be a bundle of nerves too if I ever get pregnant again.

alohamom3 - 15 days ago.
Seeg I'm so sorry and I hope things change and you can stay in the weeks.

seeg - 16 days ago.
Looks like I will probably be joining u guys again soon. I am supposed to be seven weeks on friday. I went for an u/s last week friday at six weeks and all they saw was that I have a bicornicate uterus and an empty sac no jolk sac. They sent me for blood work and repeat blood work on monday. From friday to monday my levels went from 1100 to 1610. and my progesterone had dropped to 8. I was put on progesterone. I went in again today for an U/S and they still where unable to find anything. DR is sending me for repeat blood draws thursday and repeat U/S friday morning. She said if they cant find a Jolk Sac by friday then It must be ectopic (if my levels keep increasing slowly). If my levels stop increasing and start decreasing I can expect to miscarry. I have not yet started bleeding Thank Gd. I am just really worried. Has anyone gone through something similar? Did the pregnancy end positively?

belebr - 20 days ago.
Hi Ladies, I dont think there is anyone here from my last visit a few years ago. my name used to be MommyBeckie but I changed it after my second. I experienced a devastating loss between my 2 boys. Here I am pg again and I am a bundle of nerves, afraid I am going to go through it again. I am sorry for each of your losses, I know how much it takes out of you. may you all get your BFP when you are ready for it xoxo B

abbyh - 24 days ago.
Wow! I step away for a month and look what happens. Congrats tencowmommy and Misaan!!! So happy for both of you! I'm not TTC yet. My daughter will be three and a half the middle of next month. I'm thinking closer to her fourth birthday (December) I might convince my husband to try again. Assuming I don't miscarry (quite a large assumption, considering my past...), that would make the two kids just about five years apart. That's a pretty far cry from the 2-3 years I had initially planned on, but hey, nobody said life would be predictable, right? Sarahbeth13, wishing you nothing but luck with your next pregnancy (which I know will be coming soon). :) I'm sure once I jump back into all this, I will be on here again. So glad ot see some good news in here.

mishaan - 28 days ago.
Thank you Sarabe its true time passes fast, my daughter is 10days old today, i pray and hope all who are Ttc will get the desires of the hearts real soon and have a joy of being a mother. My prayers and best wishes to All ladies here and out there.

alohamom3 - 29 days ago.
matsor I'm so truly sorry you are here with all of us who have loss our rainbows. Caniac is right, so I hope your stay is short. Hugs

alohamom3 - 29 days ago.
TaraR I'm so truly sorry for your loss and I hope you heal fast and that your stay here with us is short too. I send you Hugs.

TaraR - 29 days ago.
My husband and I had our dicussion about trying again or not after our loss on May 13th. We decided to wait a couple months and then start trying. I want to have a couple cycles before we try again. Hopefully I won't be here too long. :) Hope everyone is doing well!

CaniacMom - 31 days ago.
Matsor, you are usually in the clear to start TTC right away after a chemical. In fact, they say you are often extra fertile in the month after a loss. Hope you get your rainbow baby soon.

matsor - 31 days ago.
Hello all I am new to this group. I had what I think was a chemical pregnancy 3.5 weeks ago when I was about 5 weeks along. We are ttc again right away this month but I am nervous about it not knowing if it is safe to try again right away. Anyone have any insight or sucess stories? We have twins all over both sides of our family so wondering if we are more fertal now and our chances of twins goes up?

CaniacMom - 35 days ago.
Bee, sorry for your loss. I am currently on my second round of clomid. I am taking it CD 5-9, but some doctors will prescribe it from CD 3-7. Tara, sorry for your loss as well. If you had a D&C you might want to wait a cycle or two for your lining to build back up again. Otherwise your doctor may give you the green light to start trying right away. A lot of doctors will say to wait one cycle so they can date the pregnancy but they can always send you for a dating ultrasound if it does happen right away. I've seen a few women come and go from this forum with a BFP who never saw AF in between. Feel free to lean on us for support. It is a tough time but you will heal.

Sarahbeth13 - 36 days ago.
Bee and Tara - I am so sorry. Welcome to the forum but I wish you did not have a reason to be here! I hope you are both feeling better soon. I don't know about taking Clomid, but I sure hope it helps and you see that BFP very soon. With both of my losses I had to have a D&C and I waited one full cycle before trying again. Mainly wanted to give my body some time to rebuild and heal. With my first it was a long road to that BFP but last year after my second loss, I was blessed the cycle after the waiting cycle. GOOD LUCK and HUGE HUGS!!

TaraR - 36 days ago.
Hello everyone! I'm new here. My pregnancy ended early Monday morning. I was 11 weeks 4 days. I'm having a really hard time. This is my first time experiencing this. Just needed people to talk to. I'm definitely wanting to try again....not sure what my husband thinks. We haven't discussed that yet. What is the recommended time to wait before we start trying again? Thanks for listening.

alohamom3 - 36 days ago.
@beee sorry for you loss and I do hope you stay is short too. I had a miscarry when I was 10w4d and I have had 3cycles. I'm not sure on the meds since I'm not or have taken that but I'm sure one of these ladies here will know or ask in general-try-to-conceive some of them are taking that. Baby dust to you