TTC After Loss

When can we try to conceive after a loss?

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weber3 - 75 days ago.
I guess I must be so stressed out about having another baby after m/c as I am on day 13 after m/c and last night was up almost all night feelling the need to bd and not able to because I am still spotting. Doesn't look like I am o yet because of my BBT is all over the place but my body or my mind is thinking it is o so frustrating. And when is my spotting going to stop?

weber3 - 75 days ago.
@Brownie, So sorry for all the pain you had to go through losing another little angel. People have NO idea what we go through until they have walked in our shoes,.

weber3 - 75 days ago.
@fizzy it takes a long time for our bodies to get used to being empty again. Hoping we are not empty for too long!

bjorgebaby - 75 days ago.
Brownie I am so sorry you had to go through that. The constant reminders are the worst and no one understands until they go through it themselves. I hope your weekend makes up for the the horrible few days you have been having :-)

browniebite - 76 days ago.
okay so I thought af came but dissapperaed after a day ... I bleed one day dry blood with lots of pain.. then another day with red blood... I feel pains.. just hurry the heck up and start alreadyyyyy! I have a doc apt. thursday for blood work. see how I'm doing.. oh and get this one of the nurses (who is a freidn... kind og ) nurse at my a$$hole obgyn who f'ed me over wrote me on fb .. saying ' we have been tring to contact you for a follow up' did you change your number?' I was sooo angry... nooooo np== none of you ever called , wrote, sent condolence because you played part of neglecence... I told her nolt to bother to tell the doctor to shove my regret up his... lol... well today just a while ago i left work crying ... 2 woman were in the restroom changing their newborns trading stories.. and it went on and on.. I ran out crying .. on top od that they were 'demo-ing' baby diapers and kept seeing babies and kids everywhere.. I held it in all day.. but I broke.. one of the girls asked the other woman 'do you get any sleep'... in my head I responded.. nooooo,... she laughed and said no.. I wish that the reason I was up every night because of a precious child needed me .. instead I'm up every night with nightmares.. with pain I am so fricking sick of holding back all my anger.. my cowokers have been very nice and comforting.. my managers act like nothing happend.. they all treat me different.. they have no clue all the sh#t I went through.. they just think I misscarried!.. I am sooooo angry and hold my tongue and can't bother to look some of them in the face.. it's a long story but.. somedays it's easier.. but I am in such a roller coaster

CaniacMom - 76 days ago.
Weber3, I think you're best to wait until the spotting stops. I think I read that when you are spotting your cervix is still open leaving you prone to infection. Fizzy85, sorry for your loss. CD14 here, had my LH surge yesterday, but DH was working afternoons and I worked nights, so we weren't able to BD until this morning. Ugh, shift work. FX that we weren't too late to catch the egg. More BD'ing tonight and tomorrow and then we'll be in the 2ww. This whole process is always just waiting and more waiting!

fizzy85 - 76 days ago.
vy glad to join this group. think i'm ok. just felt a bit sad for my body as it still thinks i'm pregnant :). tq Krissieh, Diane n Weber. u r rite Weber, we're in the same week gp b4. told my hb to keep me company 24hr to avoid stepping into sad mode@crying :)

krissieh - 76 days ago.
will do aerial :) xxx

brandyleigh - 76 days ago.
We weren't allowed for two weeks after my mc but I had a d&c I think I spotted a little after the first TimE we did it. I know they saw to wait because of the risk of infection

weber3 - 76 days ago.
does anyone know if it's safe to bd when you are still spotting from m/c?

weber3 - 76 days ago.
@fizzy yes, you are definitely among friends here. Sorry for your loss. I had my m/c nearly 2 weeks ago at week 10. We must have been in the same week here before. I still cry every day, but I feel 'ok' inside again, and my empty womb is starting to feel 'normal' again. They say that time heals and hoping you will soon have a bfp again to help heal!

krissieh - 77 days ago.
aw diana thats a beautiful idea. it's so hard isn't it. wishing you strength when you need it most xxx

~DiAnA~ - 77 days ago.
Fizzy ~ sry for your loss. You'll have lost of support from us. This Sunday will be 3 weeks for me. And I lost my baby at 15 weeks. Going to the funeral home tonight to pick up remains. :'( they got me her foot prints. I'm going to get them tattooed on me.

krissieh - 77 days ago.
mamma11 the upside is that you get to try sooner than you thought with this cycle! baby dust to you :)

krissieh - 77 days ago.
fizz def normal. i had a m/c at 17 weeks 7 weeks ago and my symptoms took a while to leave. i am so sorry for your loss, know that you are among friends here :) xxx

mamma11 - 77 days ago.
We AF showed up early this morning, I am very devastated, I really hate that AF is here since she should be here on the 10 or 11th! I guess we will keep trying. so ready to just give up! good luck to all!

krissieh - 77 days ago.
aw delighted for you bjorge! hopefully this cycle is yours xxxxx i just got a call from my doc. my results came back at hcg=70,000 i dont remember the exact number but it puts me at 5-7 weeks. so literally just after m/c i got preg!!! still dunno specifics but i am to wait for a letter from hosp for a scan appt now :)) baby dust to everyone xxxx

bjorgebaby - 77 days ago.
2 days shy of 7 weeks and af finally showed! Never been so excited I even started crying just knowing we will get to start trying again

krissieh - 77 days ago.
thanks bjorge! any sign of af? xx

bjorgebaby - 77 days ago.
Krissieh, that is so exciting either way. Being farther along is a bonus and twins a double bonus. Can't wait to hear and the best of luck :-)

krissieh - 77 days ago.
ok so just came in form the doc and it is one of two things 1) i am further along than i thought and the bleed that i thought was my period was in fact a threatened m/c or 2) it's twins! my doc agreed that the urine test was a very strong + for where i am in my cycle relative to that 'period' and the m/c. she thinks i might just be the 5-6 weeks???? the m/c was 7 weeks ago!

mamma11 - 78 days ago.
I am so glad I am not alone with this feelings! fingers are crossed for us all! Candila please do let me know if it is your BFP!

SIDbaby - 78 days ago.
mama11 I had some cramping and it is 5 days past ovulation for me... I hope it is implantation too!

SIDbaby - 78 days ago.
Hi everyone! I am trying for #4 after a loss back in July. Hope I get a surprise this xmas!

candila - 78 days ago.
hi mamma, this is the first cycle that i have actually written anything down and that is one of the things i noticed. Its been on and off since about cd16 or so. BUT I think i had it last cycle too, i just dont remember 100%. Ill let you know tomorrow though if iget my bfp or not. fx for us both