TTC After Loss

When can we try to conceive after a loss?

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weber3 - 33 days ago.
@MrsMLCmom sorry about your loss. It's hard to focus on other things, we want so much to fill the emptiness with another precious little one. Our baby was so much a part of every part of our lives and future and the loss leaves such a big hole. I

weber3 - 33 days ago.
@fizzy I've been wondering the same things. I just got over a cold like a week ago then got another one. I also read that being sick can delay ovulation or give us an anovulatory cycle. My cycle was really wacky right before O so hoping I really did O this month!! Hope you feel better soon.

fizzy85 - 33 days ago.
how's everyone doing? as for me it's CD8.normal af. good sign eh! very excited to ttc again. but I am down with flu&cold since wed. never got such a bad flu like this. does m/c impair our immune system? think i read somewhere tht sickness could delay O. so i better adjust my expected O dates, might use OPK this time, just found few unused ones in my drawer, lol!

bjorgebaby - 33 days ago.
been a while since i have been on here congrats to the bfp, and sorry for the bfn and the af arrivals! i hope your time is near, hope all of you ladies in the 2ww window i hope you get that happy ending soon. well, its the start of ttc cycle #2. i am hoping that this is our month!!

MrsMLCMom - 33 days ago.
@krissieh I haven't had AF either, but that doesn't keep me from wanting to be pregnant already. The gym thing is a great idea. I was told to wait a month as well, but I quite frankly didn't want to. When I am obsessing I do 10 push ups....I just continue to obsess afterwards anyway, but hey at least I did push ups.

krissieh - 34 days ago.
well i've joined the gym and that seems to be doing the trick for me. I still haven't gotten my first af after D&C and i already want to be preg again. patience is a virtue! i know i will get preg again i just have to be patient :) i was told i only have to wait one cycle but i am telling myself to wait three and get really fit and healthy in the mean time but i dunno if i can hold out that long!!!

MrsMLCMom - 34 days ago.
I had a miscarriage at the end of december and ttc again. the beginning of my cycle was a mess but now all of my temps have elevated and stabilized. I know that there is no way I am pregnant this month, but I desperately want it to be true. How do you focus on other things? Anyone have great strategies to keep from imagining things?

kbfulloffaith - 34 days ago.
Well I am back to TTC. Had my first cycle after the D&C ...fingers crossed we get a BFP in the next few months!

amys89 - 34 days ago.
Caniacmum - this is my last month trying for a while too! My son is a December baby so really not wanting another winter baby! I say that now but I might have a change of heart next month!!!

krissieh - 34 days ago.
i done think it does. i'd say you'll be fine and so will the the little eggy if you caught it :) xx

weber3 - 35 days ago.
Wondering if being sick during the 2WW will decrease my chances of actually conceiving? My temps are thru the the roof right now so I can't rely on my charting to know what's going on.

krissieh - 35 days ago.
thanks girls!! thanks be to god i have here to come to cox if i didn't i'd be a mess :) Carmen it's weird though I don't even feel like i am suppressing any feeling, it''s as if there is none there regarding this latest loss. i know that sounds weird but i am finding myself upset again about losing Cathal last Oct so maybe it's coming out as that? Also the thought of falling preg again by the summer is keeping me going :) i joined the gym too so i have something to concentrate on while thinking bout concieving again!

Carmen27 - 35 days ago.
Omw KRISSI - I really am so sorry, I wAs really keeping u in my prayers for a h & h 9mo, I'm glad u feel okay, but please don't suppress any emotion....just saying coz that's xactley how I am. Big hug xxx ----QQ ladies:Okay - so yesterday ws my testing day - but then in the same breath it says 'just because it might come up negative doesnt mean you are not pg' wth lol - so do u ladies think its best to wait another week? i wasnt tracking to hectic. and we are not actively ttc but not preventing either. since surgery in oct due to ruptured ectopic i had 1 decent AF in november and 3days of light brown spotting in december. I did test on the 8th of Jan - stupid i know - obv bfn. i have no major symtoms - besides eating, moody, TMI - sort of constipated - BUT these could all b AF symptoms to hey. eeeeeeeeeek the waiting i tell u ! TIA FOR ANY OPINIONS ladies xxx sorry for any new losses :(

mishaan - 35 days ago.
Tx caniacmom thats all i want to hear tx for giving me hope, krissieh hi girl friend missed u, all the best en gr8 recovery to u en brandyleigh

brandyleigh - 35 days ago.
Krisseigh I was the same after my d&c I cried more before it than after I think in a way it's kinda easier with the d&c cause you know it's done and over with. I still get upset or teary eyed sometimes but I think better going with the d&c than having to go through the cramps and heavy bleeding and knowing what's going on atleast for me it was. Good luck to you!!

krissieh - 35 days ago.
hey everyone, well i am one week after my D&C and feeling ok. funny i am not as upset thisn time for some reason. maybe i am not dealing with it yet? i think i may not until i am preg again. just this eve received my fern tester so gonna start using that immediately. can't decide whether to try again straight away or hold off for a while. maybe if i dont worry about it and see what happens. maybe try not trying for a while and take a wait and see approach, hmmmmm i'm not the most patient person i know so we'll see. hope all is well with you girls :) p.s. can't believe i am back here again so soon :(

weber3 - 35 days ago.
@ccoogan Sorry about your loss!! I think that is normal for us who have a loss to get so totally obsessed with getting pregnant again. From what I've been reading on many, many sites on the internet, seems like everyone is different. Some people conceive a week or 2 after their m/c, some people wait for longer before they get their AF or have a fertile month. For me, I think I lost the baby at 5 weeks , but didn't miscarry until 10 weeks. I got AF after 5 weeks, but wasn't fertile, had a short luteal phase. Judging by my charting looks like this month may look better, time will tell.

mishaan - 36 days ago.
Someone pliz make me understand my predicament still bleeding but not as heavy as af, too small the cramps is no more have only mild headache and very tired what is this could this be Early af or its implantation bleeding

CaniacMom - 36 days ago.
MISHAAN, FX that it was implantation bleeding. You can probably start trying to test in about 4 or 5 days, but if you don't want to possibly be disappointed with a false BFN I'd wait a bit longer. WEBER, hope the 2ww goes by quickly! Looks like I'm out this month. CD1 and counting. My cycles seem to be down to about 26 days now, shorter than they used to be. Not sure what's up with that! This is going to be our last month trying for a while. I told DH I really don't want a November or December baby because I feel they would be at a disadvantage compared to the other kids at school and I wouldn't want them born on or around Christmas time. So hopefully we can get it done this cycle or I'll be on the sidelines for about 3 months, which would drive me NUTS.

littlemissme - 36 days ago.
Hey you guys. Her is an update I'm starting to feel like I may be prego again but then again I feel like it's too early after the miscarriage. Its been exactly 3 weeks as of today. I'm soo confused I don't know whether to be looking for my period or a BFP..

mishaan - 36 days ago.
Thank you monkeymama, the bleeding was just a spotting and it has stopped, i used pad last night and its as clean, Tmi hope we all have good news by the end of the month, how long can one do wait to do the test after implantation bleeding

weber3 - 36 days ago.
I think I am finally joining the 2ww now!! Yay!! The time goes so slowly but I can think of other places worse to be!!

CaniacMom - 36 days ago.
So frustrated, another BFN today and I have a feeling that AF is on the way. Another post on Facebook last night by a friend announcing her pregnancy. Seems like EVERYONE has been getting pregnant the last few months and we have been left in limbo. Then tonight I took a HPT. My 2 year old saw it and said 'that's for going pee pee.' If that's not a sign that this is taking too long, I don't know what is!

monkeymamma - 36 days ago.
mishaan...I really have no idea. I'm confused all the time! haha You have a stunning smile! (I look at profiles to see who I'm talking too)

mishaan - 36 days ago.
I had af on 26th dec and today am bleeding again its barely 13days am confused could this be implantation bleeding or af i have cramps and headache pliz advice me