TTC After Loss

When can we try to conceive after a loss?

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monkeymamma - 37 days ago.
That was how it was for us getting pregnant again. I kept track of things and timing, but nothing happened. So I stopped, and next thing I know..pregnant. I'm telling myself to do that now as well. I'm at the point where I can talk about it but there's a few random moments that sneak in. I am keeping track of when we have sex but not going to figure out best times to do so. Hopefully it will be less stressful.

weber3 - 37 days ago.
@monkeymamma I know, and when we want it so bad it takes FOREVER to come. When I was finally able to let go inside and let it be then AF came very quickly and I thought in the end it really wasn't so long afterall LOL.

monkeymamma - 37 days ago.
Thanks Weber. I had a horrible headache on Fri and another one last night. And I had some back pressure on and off Saturday. These are usually signs of AF but I keep telling myself it's too soon.......so hard to not get my hopes up!

weber3 - 37 days ago.
@sara & monkeymomma Sorry to hear of your losses.

weber3 - 37 days ago.
@monkey my cycle returned after 5 weeks, the first cycle I was infertile with a short luteal phase, this second one, I'm not sure what's going on, looked good and normal till now. I'm CD 15 and wondering if I'm going to get my AF already of am having an anovulatory cycle.

weber3 - 37 days ago.
Does anyone have any ideas....on CD10 my temp went down just like whe I ovulate then on CD day 11 went up just like when I ovulate, stayed up for 2 days, now today went down again, same temp as right before I ovulate. What is going on??? Anovulatory cycye? Hormonal mess? I am so discouraged I feel like giving up ttc. My charts never look like this.

WhatCouldBe2 - 39 days ago.
usually I only bleed 7 days, but once 3 months..(mostly because doctors didn't know what the heck was going on) This time- 11 days and counting. Blah. I am impatient to get on with it...

browniebite - 39 days ago.
I bleed after my m/c for five days two months ago and had bleed one day november and one day december. Havent had a real af yet.. I just wish I was normal again my doctor says it could take 6 monrhs to.start having normal af. And eveyone keeps tellinf me to wait another year to try. I dont really want to. But I know its best because Ill have to have a another cerclage and I just dont want to think about another surgery right now. I want a baby so bad. But I guess patience will have to work. I am.taking this time to.get in good shape and enjoy our first year in our new house. :/

CaniacMom - 39 days ago.
I hate playing the waiting game. I really have a feeling this is our month - I've had a huge appetite and little bouts of queasiness. Took a HPT this morning, but of course it was a BFN because I'm only about 7 dpo. I'm normally such a patient person, but this TTC experience is a whole different ball game. Going to test again tomorrow, but I seriously doubt anything will show up yet, if it ever does. Keep you all posted....

monkeymamma - 39 days ago.
Thanks jjrhodes. I had bleeding for 5 days, which was the m/c. So I'm assuming this month and maybe even next month will be nothing to go by.

littlemissme - 40 days ago.
Hey yall just checkin in. So after my loss last month my doctor told me that one of my ovaries are swollen this scares the crap out of me. Would that affect me getting prego again?

jjrhodes - 40 days ago.
monkeymamma - I have had 2 miscarriages and 2 ectopic pregnancies and it always took my body about a month to get back in the swing again. However I did have some bleeding from the M/C (after D&C was done)

monkeymamma - 40 days ago.
I know everyone is different, but can ya'll tell me how long after a m/c did your cycles start again?

candila - 40 days ago.
sorry for your loses!!! congrats on the bfp! as for me, still tring, onto cycle 5. gonna wait these next 2 cycles to see what happens then call my doc (my annual would be due anyway). I know everyone says to give it a year, I just have a feeling due to the pain that I get since my last d&c that something is wrong. I need it to be checked out so i can have peace of mind. gonna try opks this month.... let you know how it goes.

browniebite - 40 days ago.
sarah & monkey sorry for your recent losses! we are all here for you. neyermommy- congrats on your bfp! best of luck!

redheadmama - 40 days ago.
SARAHBETH- sooooo sad to see you posting in ttcal. :( My heart feels broken for you this evening. (((HUGS)))

neyermommy - 40 days ago.
Yay! After miscarrying 6+ weeks ago, we got a positive test result today! YAY! Im hoping that this pregnancy is a healthy one and continues for a long long time! Congrats to all u other mamas that got your wish too!

fizzy85 - 40 days ago.
i feel so sorry for the losses. pls take good care of yourselves. i've got my af this morning, i.e. about 5 weeks after my m/c, got bfN yesterday n i knew that my af shall appear very soon. well, i'm not really ready to get pg so soon.

bjorgebaby - 40 days ago.
sorry for all the recent losses and welcome i hope your journeys here are really short!! sorry for all the bfn, i am right along with you and it incredibly disappointing. congrats to all the bfp i cant wait to join all of you and i hope you all have a happy healthy 9 months.

mamma11 - 40 days ago.
Hi ladies, wanted to update, i just got home from doctors office for bloodwork, i got stuck four times the first time no blood, then sent me to eat a meal drink 50 onces of water and then take four flights of steps to get blood pressure up after round two on stick number 5 finally got blood. results tomorrow then i will be on progestrone and lovenox shots. Then follow up on monday for more bloodwork! I am praying this is not the begining of a long journey. I would like it to be easier then my last two pregnancies! Lots of Baby vibes to all!

babydusted - 40 days ago.
Congrats mama!! I was thankfully NOT pregnant in December (see my blog for details) but with our marriage on New Year's Eve and the dust settling...we are ready to start getting back into 'try' mode. I have a shorter cycle (25 days) so this month I technically have two 'try' deadlines. We skipped the first one (see blog FMI) but I think I will be hot to trot at the end of this month!! :) Here's to hoping we have a successful new year with lots of BFPs.

monkeymamma - 40 days ago.
Hi ladies. We got a BFP on Dec 18 but lost the baby last week. They said I was around 8wks. Thankfully it my body took care of it naturally so I didn't have to go through a d&c. We were told it was just one of those things but still hard to take. We have a 3 1/2 son so obviously I can carry. I was charting, testing, etc and nothing happened so I stopped the end of Nov/ begining of Dec and got pregnant. So ,for awhile at least, we're going to just see what happens again and try not to stress over it all. Sorry for rambling...just giving some background.

sarahbeth13 - 41 days ago.
Congrats Mama11! So excited for you!!

sarahbeth13 - 41 days ago.
Hello ladies! I was on here quite a bit after my first miscarriage in 2009. I had a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks. It then took over 9 months for me to get another BFP and I was blessed with my amazing daughter Maggie. I started TTC as soon as my cycles came back pp about 7-8 months ago. I finally got my BFP on November 30, my angel baby's due date. Unfortunately we had an ultrasound yesterday and found out the baby had passed away. I am scheduled for a D&E tomorrow. I am so very sad and disappointed. But I hope to be joining you and TTC very very soon. I am sorry we are all here. I know how hard this journey can be but I am hopeful we will all have good news very soon!

browniebite - 41 days ago.
Sorry I am just catching up ...Well I hope everyone had a happy holiday week. Happy NEW YEAR to all. My birthday was 2 days after christmas and well, it pretty much sucked... my family treated me like I was nobody, my dh didn't really do much for me, our friends joined us at a bar, and I started to try and ejoy myself with my bestfriend, and thanked everyone for coming along... and to which some responded, 'well we kinda felt obligated to come'... like really, thanks pal... I didn't recieve not one birthday call, just a few family text and fb messages. I just felt so let down.. like really this is how I am celebrating the fact that I survived another year.. after almost dying to months ago.. realllllyyy???!! I know it's just another day and it becomes less of a bother as we grow, but for so many people to put me down and make me feel so worthless when I almost didn't make it to see this birthday... just breaks my heart. Noone really rememberd . ahwell I guess. I have 6 coworkers now that are preggers and everyday I get the 'pleasure' of hearing their stories and feelings... I am so happy for them but I feel so jealous. I want to feel needed and important. me and dh have started our workout routine again.. I gained more weight after the baby?! and just feel so ugly. So I just feell depressed, because of myself imagine too. And now my brother in law is planning on renting a room from us, for a while...I like him he is a nice kid we went to school together.. but It's our first year in out new house, and we haven't even enjoyed it alone, because of the difficult pregnancy always having company over to help/.. I just hate that he is putting this on us too. I am feeling better about most things and the anger has let up.. I just feel alone and unworthy and pityful right now.. I can't sleep everynight I fall asleep around 7 am then wake for work at 11 am... I just feel so lost and well unapprecaieted :(