• sruth22 replied to the topic and c in the forum Group logo of PregnantPregnancy Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    We lost our little peanut Tues Oct 19 2010. We had to terminate due to medical reasons, our little one had a 10.6mm cystic hygroma, diphramatic hernia, fetal hydrops and likley Trisominy 13 or 18. There was no chance of survival.

    We are trying to move on, but I am having a difficult time trusting in my decision. God gave us the gift of one…[Read more]

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of Trying To ConceiveTrying to Conceive Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    KIMKAYB & SINNAMONGIRL- I know its taking forver for results. Im getting frustrated. I understand that it takes time, but I would like some answers and some closure. The Ob’s office said to call back in April (6mths after loss) I told them polietly that under no circumstances will I wait to call back un til April, that this is my baby, my body and…[Read more]

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of Trying To ConceiveTrying to Conceive Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    finlaysmum & plantlvr07- It is hard to move on, and Im a little mad that ive been kept waiting for so long. I understand that im not the only women out there to have this happen but I would like to feel like it matters to someone besides me. My SIL lost her baby four weeks after we did (she was 18wks) and she had the results back over a month ago.…[Read more]

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of Trying To ConceiveTrying to Conceive Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    RES- That is amazing!! I always think of all the children that need wonderful mom and dads. I think that that is a selfless and and wonderful thing to do!!! Good luck.
    KELLYG- Im sorry to hear of your losses. The ladies here are an amazing support system. Its a great thing to be able to share your story with other women who have been there.

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of PregnantPregnancy Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    Hi ladies,
    We just recently lost our little peanut at 13wks. We had to terminate due to a 10mm cystic hygroma on the neck, trisoimy 13 or 18, fetal hydrops and a huge diaphramatic hernia. Our baby wouldnt have made it to 20wks.
    I am stuggling with the loss of not just our pregnancy but our child. To many ppl it is just a fetus but to me it was…[Read more]

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Babies Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    Just thought id share this with you ladies. I found this poem and although it brings me to tears everytime, its gives me stregnth at the same time.

    Daddy Please don’t look so sad, Momma please don’t cry
    Cause I am in the arms of Jesus and He sings me lullabies
    Please, try not to question God, don’t think he is unkind.
    Don’t think He sent…[Read more]

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Babies Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    So after 4months of waiting, we finally heard from the doctor. I have some very mixed emotions of what we found out.

    First of all, all the genetic and chromisonal testing came back normal. According to the docs its a really good thing, it means that what happend with our pregnancy was fluke and the odds of it happening in another pregancy are…[Read more]

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of Trying To ConceiveTrying to Conceive Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    refinnejlee- Wow small world hey?? So your getting all the junk weather too then hey?? Its so cold!!!
    mccormacknatalie- Congratas!! Stick baby stick!! Thats exciting it happened so fast!
    Good luck to all you ladies in the area with scary weird weather happening. Doesnt make for much fun.

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of Trying To ConceiveTrying to Conceive Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    Allison Marie- I agree, for some reason for me it feels like I might have some closure if we find out the sex. I know all you ladies understand the feeling of not having anything to bring home, and its hard. Sorry for all the sapiness Ive just been on a low front over here. Im calling the office again tomorrow, ill let you ladies know. Thanks…[Read more]

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of PregnantPregnancy Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    finlaysmum & plantlvr07- It is hard to move on, and Im a little mad that ive been kept waiting for so long. I understand that im not the only women out there to have this happen but I would like to feel like it matters to someone besides me. My SIL lost her baby four weeks after we did (she was 18wks) and she had the results back over a month ago.…[Read more]

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of PregnantPregnancy Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    Just thought id share this with you ladies. I found this poem and although it brings me to tears everytime, its gives me stregnth at the same time.

    Daddy Please don’t look so sad, Momma please don’t cry
    Cause I am in the arms of Jesus and He sings me lullabies
    Please, try not to question God, don’t think he is unkind.
    Don’t think He sent…[Read more]

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Babies Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    RES- That is amazing!! I always think of all the children that need wonderful mom and dads. I think that that is a selfless and and wonderful thing to do!!! Good luck.
    KELLYG- Im sorry to hear of your losses. The ladies here are an amazing support system. Its a great thing to be able to share your story with other women who have been there.

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of Trying To ConceiveTrying to Conceive Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    kimkayb- Grrrr still no results! So frustrating. I’ll just keep bugging the office. In fact I might start looking into calling aorund the hospital where we had the D&C. Do you think if I piss (excuse the language) enough people off they might spped it up lol. How is everyone holding up with the crappy weather??

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of PregnantPregnancy Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    finlaysmum & plantlvr07- It is hard to move on, and Im a little mad that ive been kept waiting for so long. I understand that im not the only women out there to have this happen but I would like to feel like it matters to someone besides me. My SIL lost her baby four weeks after we did (she was 18wks) and she had the results back over a month ago.…[Read more]

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of PregnantPregnancy Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    refinnejlee- Wow small world hey?? So your getting all the junk weather too then hey?? Its so cold!!!
    mccormacknatalie- Congratas!! Stick baby stick!! Thats exciting it happened so fast!
    Good luck to all you ladies in the area with scary weird weather happening. Doesnt make for much fun.

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Group logo of PregnantPregnancy Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    refinnejlee- Wow small world hey?? So your getting all the junk weather too then hey?? Its so cold!!!
    mccormacknatalie- Congratas!! Stick baby stick!! Thats exciting it happened so fast!
    Good luck to all you ladies in the area with scary weird weather happening. Doesnt make for much fun.

  • sruth22 replied to the topic in the forum Babies Forum 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    plantlvr07- Its horrible isnt it? My daughter, who is 2, said to me the other day, ‘mommy is our baby in heaven?’ I told her yes sweetheart, the baby is in heaven, and she says, ‘oh ok, our baby is with God on a star.’ Absolutly heart breaking, but its amazing how a little girl can pick up on all of it. Actually I shouldnt say heartbreaking, she…[Read more]