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26-8-2009 - Mother Nature Sucks!

My mood while writing this blog: sad

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Went for a repeat us today and was told there is indeed nothing there! My precious bean is gone and in heaven and mother nature sucks! I know- everything happens for a reason and the baby probably wasnt healthy to start with and bah blah blah- but it doesnt make me feel better! My d&c is in the morning. THe worst part of this whole ordeal- I didnt get to play a part in any of the decisions mother nature made on her own- the only decision I get to make is how to get rid of something I want to keep forever! Blessings to everyone that supported my rantings for the last couple of weeks! It was great fun with people like you all atmy proverbial side! Thanks

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8 Comments on Mother Nature Sucks!


katmoma - Sunday, 11 Oct
hey darl just read your coment on ttc i think it might be an old one dont know been a wile since been on um i had a miscaraigs just over 6weeks ago and well try and bear the gory datails but everyone told me it was gona be like a heaby period and bit of cramping and well for me it was far from it, we waited for my body to do the work and well i went into full on labour at 10 weeks pregnat and well i had really bad cramps all nite and halk the day then i passed a chunk i mean no smal peice of tissus and to wat looked like the placenta and then well all of a sudden the pain settled right down prob for about 4hours then it started all over again and the next morning i was soooo over the pain but i had this ure to push i wen sat on the toilet and held a bit of tissue there and out came pretty much wat you have explained, the docter sent it of for test and it was the sac and the baby. it was the size of an egg and firm but squishy and i could see where the placenta cord broke of to wat caused the babie to die, then well the pain stoped down to the odd couple of cramps i did bleed for a long time though prob like just over 2weeks. i between it waas like i was gushing blood like ive never seen anything like it so any how dono if any of that helped but if your anything like me any little bit of info helps or other peoples situations soo anyway goodluck hope your ok

aussiegirl80 - Sunday, 20 Sep
I am so so sorry for your loss. I just wanted to let you know that I have also been through a blighted ovum and the devistation that comes from seeing the empty sac on the screen. I found out about mine at my 12 week scan ( I was nearly 13 weeks) had all of the symptoms of pregnancy and not a clue that something was wrong. My uterus still grew to the correct dates and the sac was as big as a 10 week pregnancy. I just thought that I would share my story with you as I found it hard to find anybody who understood what I was going through. ((hugs))

pugdunn - Thursday, 27 Aug
I'm so sorry for you loss

momof2hopfully3 - Thursday, 27 Aug
I am so sorry about this i know that wont help the hurt but i truly am. I know what u have been threw these past two month all the hoping and wondering and praying i am just so so sorry!!!

momof2hopfully3 - Thursday, 27 Aug
I am so sorry about this i know that wont help the hurt but i truly am. I know what u have been threw these past two month all the hoping and wondering and praying i am just so so sorry!!!

amanda4964 - Wednesday, 26 Aug
Wow. I just read your blogs and I cannot believe what you have been through. All of that waiting and uncertainty is more than anyone should have to go through. My heart is hurting for you and I hope you are ok. I just can't believe how long it took for you to get the diagnosis. You are one strong woman, just remember that and you will make it through this and hopefully time will help you to heal.

Twomarchbebes - Wednesday, 26 Aug
Oh hun that sucks. You unfortunately got that news no mother wants to hear and people might say not to try for a couple of months but blow that! I say try again and you'll be pregnant in no time especially after a d&c. I hope you're ok *hugs*.

Dara - Wednesday, 26 Aug
I'm so sorry to hear that hun. Keep on trying, I'm sure you'll get pregnant!! :) We look forward to hearing more news from you, and good luck tomorrow. Let us know how it goes when you can talk about it...we will be worrying about you! *hugs*