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14-7-2009 - SOOOO FRUSTRATEDD!

My mood while writing this blog: ANGRY...

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Gosh i need to vent...At this point being 15 and pregnant is really frustrating...I'm very young and my boyfriend is just turning 18, so he's not quite ready for this either...he currently is looking into adult schools so that he can get his diploma and we are working on getting him a good job. We are trying as hard as we can to get things done, but my family and people are always sitting here like oh, he has no job, he's not this, he's that, he's no good for you, blah blah blah...it frustrates me soooo bad because the people who says these things have no right to! I don't ask for money or for them to take care of our son or anything! They have no right to talk about me and him...we are trying so hard! The best that we possibly can. Applying for all kinds of things to help us out, looking into schools for both of us, saving to buy all that we need to, going to millions of classes to make sure we know how to take care of him the best we can and going to nutritionists and educators and things to make sure i'm taking the best care of myself while I am pregnant...And all people can do is sit there and bitch about what isn't their business...I'm really not even wanting to live at home at the moment...everything is falling into place, slowly but surely, and I think we are doing good. I'm so tired of it! What can I do??!!?

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3 Comments on SOOOO FRUSTRATEDD!


normalee - Tuesday, 14 Jul
just stay positive and everything will workout slowly. just dont give up.also try and relax and not to stress out about what everyone else says cause someone always has something to say no matter. take care and keep us posted.

bluejeans - Tuesday, 14 Jul
Just keep doing what your doing, it will take time but prove them all wrong. Congratulations on your pregnancy.

shesAWKWARD - Tuesday, 14 Jul
People will ALWAYS talk cause of the age you guys are at.. which is hardly fair cause you are doing MORE then a LOT of girls even my age are doing for their babys. i havent done a single class yet [i do have that in my plans tho lol] but a lot of women just dont go. and you guys want to still have an education which is really important and will help to get a better job!
The only thing you really can do is ignore it and let it roll off your sholders cause no matter what your going to prove them wrong and make them look like the ass not you. so soon they will shut up and feel foolish for opening up their mouth. but handleing this maturely by ignoring them is the first step for making them shut up! lol
Tell them you appreciate the comments you will think about it but this is YOUR life and your TIME to figure out whats best for your new family, not theirs..