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| 08-6-2009 - Scared and nervous |
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Hello ladies,
Lately i have been feeling very very scared and nervous about having 2 children. I obviously knew that it was going to be hard but i think realisation is kicking in lately because i am getting closer to my due date. Dont get me wrong, this is nothing to do with regreting falling pregnant, let me just make that clear! I wanted it more than anything, but just like a first time mum, im feeling those nerves and mixed emotions because its not just one child i am having to look after its two.
I have the support of my friends and family, and of course my darling partner Andrew , but i cant help but to cry all the time! Im hoping its these hormones!!
Im sure i will be fine, its the unknown that i am scared of.
Am i being silly?
Love me xxx
4 Comments on Scared and nervousRainbowRach -
Tuesday, 9 Jun Awww chick, I am sure its the nerves that we all feel. First time mums are nervous about getting things wrong, second time mums are nervous about coping.....I am sure it happens each time you bring a new life into your family.
Dont worry, I am sure your hormones will stop being horrid to you in a few days x x
((hugs)) Rach x allsmiles86 -
Monday, 8 Jun I know how you feel. Its very very scary. Bob has a 2 year old, that we get to have over. But this is my first baby, so I have 2 kids really. I will go from taking care of my newborn, to taking care of a newborn and a 2 year old, then back to taking care of my son again. AGHH!!! What in the world am I gonna do porscheg -
Monday, 8 Jun No you are not being silly! It's perfectly normal to feel scared of what type of parent you will be, but just like with your first, everything will come to you in the end. You will be a great mommy the second time around. neicie04 -
Monday, 8 Jun You're not being silly. I'm terrified myself! This will be my first. I'm sure we have different fears. I fear losing my freedom lol. I can't just get up and go. I won't be having lunch with my best friend or my dad like I used to. No more karaoke at the bar. But it made me feel better when everyone around me is like "I want to baby sit... I'll take the baby for the weekend." Probably not your same fears since you already have 1 child. But I'm sure that if you look back on your life, you'll see that everything has always had a way of working itself out :) Everything always works out :)