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07babe
	Age: Almost nineteen Country: US Province/region: ohio City: Dayton Partner: Brian [My husband] Children: Yes, 1 Pregnant: Trying to conceive Occupation: SAHM&W
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staceyp - Saturday, 13 Sep
Hay Jen all these symptoms are what i have been havin and i often wondered if it was depression but actually it isnt. Having a new baby takes a HUGE toll physically, emotionally and mentally! Im afraid to say its part of the whole likestyle changing. I struggled there for a wile and i realy just had to relax and stop stressing bout the smalest things. I was going crazy and was such an angry person and can still be but whenever u start gettin mad just walk away and take a breather put savannah in her cot or somewhere safe and vebt for a wile then come bak. U will feel alot better. So what im really trying to say is u need to relax . Its not easy but nothing much is in the world its taking one step at a time. Liusten to the people who love u and the advice they offer as much as u may not agree or want to hear what they hav to say. I think for u another baby will make things more stressful on u and brian. Just wait till u know u are really ready financially etc

choppork5426 - Monday, 28 Jul
i know what ur going thru.been there done that and i still have my episodes every now and then.go talk to ur doc to c what doc has to say.gl on the job!

littlemisspgt - Monday, 28 Jul
It doesnt sound like PPD but it sounds like stress, like StaceyP, you werent from being kid free to "tied down" with a kid and new responsibility. You are stressed and annoyed and thats 100% normal but if you think you need help seek some immediately. I also urge you to get back on your birth control, getting pregnant right now isnt what you need. Good luck and keep us updated and all of us are here if you need to talk.

mandyd829 - Monday, 28 Jul
Its okay if you need meds. I needed them after my son was born. I was a complete mess. I loved my baby and being his mom but i couldn't deal with anything else. It didn't help that his dad was an ass. But i got on them. I stopped taking them for a while but realized i probably never should have stopped so i am back on them. they really do level me out and i am a much more pleasant person to be around now that i am on them. its okay. it doesn't mean you are broken. They help they really do.

staceyp - Monday, 28 Jul
Hay hun! I understand 100% exactly how u r feeling! im acting the same way snaping at every1 and getting all moody! doesnt it just drive u mad! Its so good that u have an understanding fiance that knows where ur coming from and is by ur side even when u feel so crap. Im very lucky in that way too! i guess its just holding onto what is real and seeing he positives in things rather than the negatives which is VERY hard to do! Its not easy being a mum and having these feelings and people to deal with but if the family annd brians mum is driving u mad maybe just saying to them hay i actually need some time atm to sort my emotions out and relax as everything is getting ontop of me and im sure if they are nice enuf to understand they will leave u alone. If not then ur better off staying well away from them. I hope this is of good advice! i know its a bit of a long message lol but i sooooo know and understand hw u r feeling! take care hun and i wish u luck in getting the jpb! prayers with and ur lil gorgeous girl savannah!xxx

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