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27-7-2009 - Not Stressing.....

My mood while writing this blog:
Okay

Okay...if u read my blog b4 this one u know the situation that went on. (if not read that 1 first) Well since that evening mom hasnt called at all. She normally calls me while she is at work if not everyday then its every other day. She barely said hi when i called the house to talk to my daughter. I know she is mad because im not doing what she wants me to do...but i dont care anymore. I will be 26 in less than 2 wks....she need to realize that im grown an can make my own decisions. I've let them run my life long enough, and my boyfriend had to make me realize that. Me and him are doing so much better now. After I told him the whole story (the part my mom left out) and he realized that she lied on him also, then I think he finally realized that I didnt lie to him. I never had and never will have a reason to lie to him. He doesnt want to have anything to do with my parents anymore and I cant blame him. I refuse to lose a relationship with someone that I truly love and be unhappy just to please them. Im not calling my mom...if she really wants 2 talk to me she will call. She is trying to take over this baby just like she did with my 1st one. They didnt even want me to have my daughter (told me i should get abortion) but as soon as i did my mom tried to take her from me (she called social services on me). I dont think my fiance realizes this but I feel like he is all I really have now. My moms side of the fam is mostly in NY and my grandma is going to side with my mom 90% of the time and I am really not that close with my dads side of tha fam. And now my parents are not talking to me....But im not going to let them stress me out anymore. As long as I get to talk to my daughter on a almost daily basis and see her when I can, and feel my Angel moving inside me everyday, and have my fiance by my side...then I feel like I have everything I need to make it.

2 Comments on Not Stressing.....

Mack and Pats Second baby! - Monday, 27 Jul
I am glad that you two were able to talk things through. That is a good value to have in a marriage (you did say you where getting married didn't you lol)
Just give your mom time to cool down, don't not call her or ignore her though. Let her know that you still welcome her input on things, but in the end it up to you and him to decide what is best for this baby.
I hope you have a better road a head of you, keep faith.
God Bless,
Mac, *hugs*

mamalvs4 - Monday, 27 Jul
Will you be getting your daughter back soon? sounds like she needs to be with her mommy, you seem like you have everything together

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