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03-6-2009 - Dissapearing Friends

My mood while writing this blog: Bitchy

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I just had a visit from one of my old guy friends. We used to be best friends in highschool but gradually grew apart. He hasn't really been around much during my pregnancy. And it made me realise that none of my friends really have this whole time. Sure, they've made guest appearances, but nothing special. And they never can stay long. Even if I go to visit them, it's like:

"oh you must be tired, don't feel bad if you want to leave early." *Sigh*

People treat me like I'm sick, not pregnant. I guess to them it's the same. You have to eat differently, you can't have bad habits anymore, you have regular dr.'s visits, etc.

It just sucks. I'm not depressed about it, just shocked. I was pretty much a complete social butterfly, and now, all those friends faded into the background like I don't exist anymore. I guess it's more likely to happen because I'm 23. If I were in my 30's, I can't see this happening as bad. By then my friends will proabably all have kids and not realise how they treated me, until it happens to them.

Oh well, the baby will be born soon enough, and I know they'll all come around to see her. Then when I can party and I don't have a big round belly with a person inside it, they'll feel comfortable around me again. I guess I can't be too mad at them, they don't have kids of their own, so they don't know what it's like or what they're doing.

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