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17-9-2009 - a little confused

My mood while writing this blog: confused/irritated

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well i went onto my babys daddy page on myspace and i busted up laughing...he was writtin on their that he is depressed cause he feels left out with everyone getting married n havin babies all around him. i mean serious!!! he can pay attention to other people but when it comes to his own kid he cant pay attention at all. i dont know what to do about the whole situation. i mean after he told me to basically fuck off after i told him i was preggers i havent really thought about whether i wanted to tell his parents or even him that its a boy n even keep pushing it on his plate. im so confused right know. i already feel like shit for my baby not having a dad in his life, yeah he's not born yet but still i got to watch what i buy because like everything says daddys little football player or just daddy something. i dont know what to do. i need help. i wish he would just recognize and take resposibilit.

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3 Comments on a little confused


ari08(ariana) - Friday, 18 Sep
Thats a confusing situation. Do his parents know your preg? Were they supportive? My fiance has a daughter from a different girl they had a very abusive relationship verbally( going both ways, she would throw glasses at his head) So he decided that it would be better for the child that he was not there, but he still sees her and pays child support and loves her. She is remarried now and her husband is basically the father. So evenif the actual baby daddy is not the " dad" i'm sure you'll find someone amazing who will love you and your son and never wanna let you go. I dunno if this story helps but if its the right guy they'll do anything to be with you and to stay with you. But I do think you should keep his parents involved at least if theyve been supportive.

claire louise - Friday, 18 Sep
You did the right thing by telling him it's now up to him to grow up a bit! I know many children who don't have father in there lives and the still have all the love they need from the one parent.x

brendalee - Thursday, 17 Sep
So wait...when you told him you we're pregnant he was like "whatever fuck you" and on his myspace he said he was jealous of his friends getting married and having kids? What a d-bag. So you guys are no longer together I'm assuming? I've never met my biological dad, in my case it probably wouldn't have been worth it because he never would have acted like a real dad. It might be the same in this case...I mean, I don't know him, but it seems like he isn't mature or ready yet to handle the situation.