18-9-2009 - Life changes . . . . . .

My mood while writing this blog: happy

It's been awhile ladies that I have not been in the loop.I am in the process of moving so I am limited to being on the internet. So much has been going on with me where do I start . . . . . .

On a personal note, I learned about who your friends really are. I had a friend that I have known for over 10 years and she straight carried our friendship. She was renting out my mom's house and trashed the place. Since she has moved into my mom's house they have only paid rent on time 2 times. As of right now, 4 months behind in rent, house might be going into foreclosure and it is trashed. Everything in there was new before I moved out. I can't believe she would do such a thing. I even gave her daughter's baby shower in that house. Been through alot of ish together and now we don't talk at all. It hurt me to my heart to see what my mom had to go thru. All the court dates, the police were having problems with my friends in the house as well as the neighboors, my mom had a mild stroke one day after court and to me that was when I had to get involved. I mean they left soiled dirty diapers in the yard, rotten oranges, smeared bbq sauce on the floor, permanent marker on the carpets and holes in the walls. We are grown women and she has 2 children, she needs to act like it. But I am not going to let me mom down. So me & my husband decided to move back into the house with my mom for at least a year to see how we can help her save her house. Hopefully we can get back on track and eventually buy my mom's house. The moving process just sucks though. Since having Sage we have accumulated much more stuff than when we moved in. But I think about the bigger picture on how we would have more space for Sage and room for her to grow. I don't wish anything bad upon my friend anymore. All I can do is pray for her that she will find her way. I totally believe in karma, so what goes around comes around and she'll get whats coming to her eventually.

On a good note Sage is doing great. Growing more and more everyday. She has said her first word, dada, of course but I won't disown her yet (lol, just kidding). She has finally discovered her feet and will not let them go. She has 2 teeth coming in on the bottom which keeps us up at night at times, but its getting better. Hopefully by the end of the month her teeth will be here. She is even attempting to crawl, she tries really hard. She'll get that soon too. i thought it was too early for her to be trying but oh well.

I hope everyone and their little ones are doing good. Everyone be blessed and have a great day !!!