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	Age: 22 Country: USA Province/region: City: Tomah WI Partner: Keith my hubby Children: Yes, 2 Pregnant: Yes Due date: 15 Oct ,2009 Occupation: mommy/wife
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07-7-2009 - i need someone to talk too!!!

My mood while writing this blog:
angry

Ok so my mom is living in our house and not making any money and she has 2 kids to support. Well she has not paid rent or any of the bills. She is basicly living here for free and using the phone all the time and the internet to talk to guys. She has not paid one bill sence living here we have and all she does is sit on her ass and does nothing to help. She may clean once in a while but, she doesnt do a very good job. I had found out a while back ago that she used my sister who is now only 14 she used her name to get electric at a place they were living at because she couldnt get it in her name becuase she owed them money. I told my sister to beware of bills she gets when she turns 18 because they may want her to pay the bills. I have had this problem with her putting bills in my name when i was under the age of 18 and i got bills and i had to do a police report so i wouldnt be held reliable. So today they got in a huge fight nothing that doesnt happen here as it happens all the time. But, my sister had mentioned the elcetric and my mom asked me about it. Well to come to find out she has been going in my room when i am not home and going thru my stuff and talking behind my back. I have heard some of the things she has said about us and it pisses me off and i cant take it anymore. We have been buying what they need everyweek and that is including paying for the dog food as they have 2 little dogs that they think they need to feed all the time. My hubby works his ass off for what we have and with the ecomnomy the way it is it has been very hard on us. She was bitching about how our yard needed to be mowed. I didnt see her paying for the gas that it takes. We live out in the counrty and have about 2 acer yard so it takes a good 10 gallons of gas to mow the whole thing. And then she bitches about my folded laundry that sits on the table for maybe a half hr as i hang our clothes outside in the summer time. She acts like she owns this place and i am fucking done. I cant take the stress anymore and we cant afford our electric bill. We cant pay the full amount this month. We are used to paying like $50 a month and with them here it is over $200 a month!!!!!!! That is more then double what we usally pay. I want to kick her out but, sence keith is gone all week i have no one els to help me with everything. I have done it in the past alone but, not with another baby on the way. I figure she is not helping us she is only bring us down. I am sick of paying for and her kids when my hubby works his ass off. I have been thinking about kicking them out for sometime but, dont want the kids in a homeless shelter or on the streets. So i have not fully made up my mind. I know we could prolly find someone to take the boys while we have Ivy but, noone to help after the c-section so i donno. Well thanks for reading my sort of vent. If you have any ideas on what i can do to help better everyones sake i would be greatfull. Talk to everyone later.

3 Comments on i need someone to talk too!!!

ModelMommy1 - Tuesday, 7 Jul
I agree with Allynne. Be straight with her and tell her she needs to find a job because you are unable to take care of her plus kids and dogs along with yourself to live comfortably. Tell her that if she doesn't start helping with bills then you will be forced to ask her to leave. Point. Blank. Period. If she wants to bitch & moan about tell her that she will be forced to leave.

egansmom - Tuesday, 7 Jul
You do not need that stress. You and Keith should talk to your Mom and let her know what your expectations are of her in your home. I understand the economy is bad but there are still jobs out there. She could work at bookstore or grocery store part-time until she finds a position in her field of work. Give her a deadline so she will be proactive about finding a job. If in a month she does not find work and continues to be lazy around the house than you need to tell her to leave. I wouldn't suggest the children leave though. I will pray for you and your situation.

allynne7 - Tuesday, 7 Jul
I'd lay down the law with her. Tell her this is what you have to do if you want to continue to live here and tell her that she is responsible for however much of the bills and groceries. Kick her butt to the curb if she doesn't like it.
If she goes to a homeless shelter then let her but allow the kids to stay. Not to mention when you do your taxes again you can claim them b/c they are not your responsibility but you are taking care of them. Just save your receipts.
Good luck and I wish you the best!

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Hubby and youngest taking a nap (2009, 04, 04)

Both Boys after thier bath!!! so cute (2009, 05, 07)

Duane when he was 2 1/2 weeks old (2009, 05, 07)

Duane trying not to pick his nose lol (2009, 05, 07)

JJ fell asleep after having to much fun (2009, 05, 07)

Duane loves getting his pic takin (2009, 05, 07)

JJ when he was under one yr (2009, 05, 09)

duane playing at the park this spring (2009, 05, 09)

JJ plaing at the park this spring (2009, 05, 09)

jj tring to look cute when he was mad lol (2009, 05, 09)

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