15-6-2009 - An encouraging blog to all the mommies that went through that "fake situation" on last week (pass it on)

My mood while writing this blog: upset

I am writing in MY blog about this situation,because I recieved a message not to talk about it in the forums or put messages on anyone else's page about it, but I feel that I have to address this "Vikki" thing for closure for myself and if you dont want to read what I have to say please close this blog because I am going to be absolutely honest about how I feel ok here goes....

I started my page on the exact day that this "sister" supposedly put up an update about "vikki" and I was immediately concerned, because I have been blessed to be a mother and I cant imagine life without my daughter or vice versa. I too lost my brother in March he was 27 and he passed away from Sickle Cell disease. He left a 3 yr old daughter and a 8 yr old son who ask about him daily to this day. They still pray for him to come home from the hospital. After reading this I called hysterically to my husband and demanded his undivided attention and even though he was busy at work he gave it to me because of the concern in my voice. I said " Baby, we have to pray for this mother on this website I just joined, I dont know her but she just gave birth and she is dying and in need of kidney" his reaction was "OMG are u serious" I said "yes and started to cry even more" He said I will pray for her and I will also call on the "prayer warriors" of the church(my hubby is a pastor) and I said ok. I texted the number and told the person she seemed genuinely concerned and told me that if she needed to talk to someone at night if she could call me and we pray together and I told her sure...My hubby set up a 24 hr nonstop prayer for "vikki". I also called my mom and told her to pray for this young mother that she make it and dont have the "plug" pulled on her on Saturday. My mom was also heartbroken when I told her the whole story that I had gathered from "vikki" page and blogs. I was concerned when Friday I hadnt recieved any text from this "sister" and I said ok its 4pm maybe she updated her sis page or left a message on one of the other mommies page so I logged in and the first message I read was "VIKKI" WAS A SCAMMER THE STORY WAS A HOAX..... I started screaming and hollering and my hubby was like what the heck is wrong with you and I was like she was lying it was a lie OMG I cant believe that someone is so sick in the mind that they would do something so evil and take advantage of so many caring woman. My hubby said lets pray that this person "vikki" and her "sister" get the help that they need, because if someone can go that far for attention on the internet there is no telling what they will do in the real world. He was right...I prayed for those two ladies and while praying thought about how hurt a lot of other mommies were in the process and I prayed for them and myself too. I believe with everything that happens in life you should take something positive from it and build on it to make yourself stronger and what I took away from this situation is that everyone is not on the internet with good intentions and know the people you are talking to dont give up too much information too fast if they are gonna be your friends they will be around to get all your information in due time and when you are ready to share it with them. I also learned that there are some 'WONDERFUL,CARING, LOVING,PRAYING,CONCERNED, PATIENT, FORGIVING, and INTELLIGENT mommies on here and we shouldn't let one person stop us from being this way this is our genetic make up we mommies were made to be this way so let's just LIVE and LEARN from this and don't let it happen again, because I would still pray for everyone of you like I did for "Vikki" and would hope that you would do the same for me...

I love you all and hopefully you have been encouraged by this blog if so pass it on to other mommies,

2ndtimemom29