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5 miracles and an angel
Age: 20 AS OF 02/21/2009
Country: U.S.A.
Province/region: FL
City: Jacksonville
Partner: ITS JUS ME AND MY LORD & SAVIOR
Children: Yes, 6
Pregnant: Not anymore
Occupation: RECEPTIONIST
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Last updated: 837 days ago.
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27-7-2009 - MADE IT TO HOUSTON SAFELY, BUT NOW THE NEVERENDING DRAMA WITH MY EX ACCOMPLISHEDMy mood while writing this blog:
ACCOMPLISHED



FIRST I WANNA SAY THANKS TO ALL OF THE LADIES WHO WISHED US WELL ON OUR JOURNEY. WE GOT HERE SAFELY AND RATHER QUICKLY WE LEFT JACKSONVILLE AT ABOUT A QUARTER TO 1AM AND MANAGED TO GET HERE AT ABOUT 2:30 THIS AFTERNOON AFTER WE STOPPED 3 TIMES. IT DIDNT GET BAD UNTIL WE GOT INTO THE TX BORDER. IT WAS A RATHER EASY TRIP. KENNI WAS IN THE BACK WITH THE BABIES. SO I WOULDNT HAVE TO STOP SO MUCH. I STOPPED AND GOT A LITTLE FRIDGE THAT FITS IN BETWEEN THE DRIVER AND PASSENGER SEAT. ALL I HAVE TO DO IS PLUG IT UP IN THE CIGARETTE LIGHTER THINGY AND GO AND IT EVEN WORKS FOR A HOUR AFTER UNPLUGING IT. ANYWHO I KEPT SOME WATER IN THERE FOR THE BABIES. IT WAS ACTUALLY ONE OF THE BEST ROAD TRIPS I HAD. ME AND KENNI HAD SOME CONVERSATION AND I THINK SHE IS COMING AROUND AND UNDERSTANDING HER NEW ROLE AS A MOTHER. JHIA IS AT HER GRANNY'S HOUSE FOR THE NIGHT SHE INSISTED THAT SHE KEEP HER. SO ITS JUST ME, CAM AND KENNI AT MY AUNT'S HOUSTON HOME. THE HOUSE I USED TO LIVE IN FOR A YEAR BEFORE I MOVED BACK TO CALI.

WELL NOW ABOUT THE DRAMA WITH THIS HUSBAND. HE KNOWS I AM DOWN HERE AND IS PRETTY PISSED AND I GOT TO TALKING TO HIS MOTHER AND APPARENTLY HE LIED ABOUT BEING IN SAN ANTONIO. WE WERE TALKING AND I TOLD HER HOW HE IS MAD THAT I LET HER MEET THEM AND HE WASNT AROUND. SHE WAS LIKE WELL IF HE WANTED TO BE HERE HE WOULD BE ON HIS WAY NOW WOULDNT HE. I MEAN THE HOSPITAL IS LESS THAN A HALF HOUR AWAY. SO I WAS LIKE HOSPITAL AND SHE WAS LIKE YEAH ISNT THAT WHERE HE IS? I WAS LIKE NO HE TOLD ME HE WAS IN SAN ANTONIO SINCE FRIDAY AND WASNT COMING BACK BEFORE WEDNESDAY AND SHE WAS LIKE NO I COULD HAVE SWORN I SEEN ON HIM ON SATURDAY AND HE TOLD ME HE WAS ON HIS WAY TO THE HOSPITAL AGAIN, BUT MAYBE THAT WAS FRIDAY BEFORE HE LEFT. SHE LOOKED SO CONFUSED SO I KNEW SHE WAS TELLING THE TRUTH. SO I CALL HIM TO SEE IF I CAN CATCH HIM IN THE LIE AND I AM LIKE I THOUGHT YOU LEFT ON FRIDAY AND HE WAS LIKE I DID SO I WAS LIKE YOUR MAMA SAID SHE SEEN YOU ON SATURDAY. THIS FOOL TELLS ME HE LEFT AT LIKE MIDNIGHT SO ITS KIND OF FRIDAY AND SATURDAY. (BULL SHIT) HE TOLD ME HE WAS IN SAN ANTONIO ON FRIDAY. ITS JUST LIES. IDK WHAT HE GOT GOING ON BUT HE BETTER HOPE HE CAN SEE HIS DAUGHTER.

ON A BRIGHT SIDE TOMORROW I AM GETTING UP EARLY IN THE MORNING TO GO TO THE COURTHOUSE SO I CAN SEE WHAT I HAVE TO DO TO GET PAPERS FOR HIM TO SIGN AND I WILL LOOK INTO HIM RELINQUISHING HIS RIGHTS FOR CAMERON AND JHIA.



8 Comments on MADE IT TO HOUSTON SAFELY, BUT NOW THE NEVERENDING DRAMA WITH MY EX


mizzkeisha - Wednesday, 29 Jul
Girl, I'm glad you made it safely and that husband is a hot mess. Is the girl that is due next month having her baby early or something?? Why does he feel like he have to keep telling you lies and you two aren't even together anymore?? I hope you get everything accomplished that you need to in Houston while you're there!! Oh, and by the way, I know divorce is hard, but on this one.... Just Count Your Blessings!!! You're better off without him!!

beautyfulmommy - Tuesday, 28 Jul
smhh @ him being at the hospitall.

larryslady - Tuesday, 28 Jul
Glad to see that you made it safely.. Don't let that man think that he can run all over you, as he can see he HAD a women that was about her business! Make him sweat girl!

Jmajor-payne - Tuesday, 28 Jul
Girl what the hell is he doing at the hospital is my first question? He work there? Well glad u made it safe and I kno u were missing lil mama while she was gone! Im so proud of u Kandi u are handling yo business like u should 4get Jay and good luck with everything and keep us posted ttys!!
~Jada


jazzie09 - Monday, 27 Jul
hospital??? what is he doin at the hospital?

Danikas-mumma - Monday, 27 Jul
My prayers are with you darlss, I hope you get his rights relinquished cause he ain't no daddy, he just thinks he is!

laddgirl - Monday, 27 Jul
Glad you made it safely. Take it easy, don't let....try not to let the drama get to you. HANDLE YO BUSINESS!

BlackRussian - Monday, 27 Jul
He should know by now he's not gettin over on you, you are WAY smarter then he apparently takes you for and I admire you for handling your business and not letting his bullshit get in your way. Keep us posted mami, and enjoy your time out there :)
Photos
YOURS TRULY (2009, 05, 31) ONE OF MY FAVORITE PICTURES WHEN I WAS PREGNANT WITH CAM (2008, 11, 20) The Hubby (2009, 01, 05) MY BOY AT 9 MONTHS (2009, 06, 25) HIM LIKE TO EAT PAPER...LOL (2009, 06, 25) HIM LIKES TO THROW PAPER (2009, 06, 25) FULL AND SLEEPY (2009, 06, 25) BEIN NOSEY, KINDA LOOKS LIKE POP BROWN (2009, 06, 25) FAT DADDY ON MAMS FAT, PREGNANT BELLY (2009, 06, 25) MY BABY LOVES FEET (2009, 06, 25) AW HE WASNT READY (2009, 06, 25) HE ALWAYS HAVE THAT MOUTH OPEN (2009, 06, 25) MAMA GOT A HAPPY BABY (2009, 06, 25) I LOVE HIS SMILE (2009, 06, 25) TRYING TO EAT HIS FEET YET AGAIN.... (2009, 06, 25) ...AND THIS TIME HE SUCCEEDED (2009, 06, 25) STARTLED BY THE FLASH (2009, 06, 25) Click here to see all 5 miracles and an angel`s photos

Children
CORDARIAN-RASHARD-COLEMAN (2002) KENTRELL--JONATHAN-HILL-JR. (2004) JONET-LAVELLE-SMITHERS (2005) MONET-RAYCHELL-SMITHERS (2005) CAMERON-DONTE-DOBSON-JR (2008) JhiaVahni-Yvette-Willis (2009)

Latest blogs
03-11-2009 - THANKS LADIES
30-10-2009 - Cant be serious???
28-10-2009 - had a little talk with him
27-10-2009 - Being pushed away????
25-10-2009 - Updates!!!!!
14-10-2009 - Good news
12-10-2009 - just a small update & expression of gratitude towards you ladies :D
10-10-2009 - finally got in touch with my aunt
10-10-2009 - LOOKING FOR INFO ON SHELTERS THAT CATER TO TEEN MOTHERS
09-10-2009 - TICKED OFF
05-10-2009 - She's never going to learn....and she is not going to keep f---ing up in my house
30-9-2009 - Fresh updates...Day one of no kids
29-9-2009 - question for those on fcbk....what does this mean?
28-9-2009 - just what I needed...
28-9-2009 - Just for one night
28-9-2009 - Time for potty training for Cam...any advice?? And something else I totally wasnt expecting
26-9-2009 - FINALLY A QUIET HOUSE...
23-9-2009 - I'm such a horrible girlfriend
15-9-2009 - Updates
14-9-2009 - Should I let him stay~~Help me Ladies!!!!!
11-9-2009 - update on Kenni and the twins
11-9-2009 - Take a peek at Khamayah and Khamaree, only a couple of hours old
09-9-2009 - Kenni's last ob visit
05-9-2009 - a hopefully better view of the convo between my ex husband and i
05-9-2009 - msg between the ex and I got real emotional / Is there a way I can become Kenni's legal guardian w/o my mom's consent / more with WIC / cam's zoo party
02-9-2009 - a msg from the ex husband
31-8-2009 - just a reflection
24-8-2009 - Thank you so much for the encouraging words, also plenty of UPDATES!!!
24-8-2009 - I got my babies back
15-8-2009 - Going to get my girls
15-8-2009 - She thinks she is keeping my babies
14-8-2009 - He wants to make "US OFFICIAL"
11-8-2009 - THE EX HUBBY MSGED ME ON MYSPACE AND THE BABIES WILL BE HERE THEN ANTICIPATED
03-8-2009 - I am now a single woman!!!!!!!!!!!
02-8-2009 - New pictures of the babes and concerns about my son Cameron
30-7-2009 - no show...(super short blog)
30-7-2009 - JUST WHAT I NEEDED (FOR THE SINGLE LADIES, STILL SEARCHING FOR THAT GOOD MAN)
29-7-2009 - I FREAKING LOVE THIS MAN (KEIRON, DEF NOT JAY)
29-7-2009 - He's Gonna Sign
28-7-2009 - HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED...I CANT BELIEVE I ACTED LIKE A FOOL
28-7-2009 - HOW DARE HE?!?!?!?
27-7-2009 - MADE IT TO HOUSTON SAFELY, BUT NOW THE NEVERENDING DRAMA WITH MY EX
26-7-2009 - plans for houston delayed for the night
23-7-2009 - A CLEAN SLATE?!?!
21-7-2009 - WELL....
17-7-2009 - SHE'S BACK AND UNFORTUNATELY SHE IS WITH ME (AGAIN)
16-7-2009 - Lord I dont need this right now
14-7-2009 - Going to Houston for the Divorce.
13-7-2009 - Its just me and the babies
10-7-2009 - SMALL TALK W/ THE HUSBAND
10-7-2009 - COLLEGE-BOUND????
10-7-2009 - JUST TO CATCH Y'ALL UP ON EVERYTHING (MY DAUGHTERS AND CALI, MY SISTER AND HER ISSUES, AND CAMERON'S 1ST BIRTHDAY)
09-7-2009 - HA..SHE CAME HOME...(WELL TRIED TO ANYWAY)
09-7-2009 - I WOKE THIS MORNIG TO MY SISTER GONE
07-7-2009 - MY TWINS MAY BE LEAVING ME : [ HELP: I NEED SOME ADVICE
04-7-2009 - FIRST 24 HRS AT HOME WITH PRINCESS JHIAVAHNI
03-7-2009 - BIRTH STORY AND PICTURES
29-6-2009 - ABOUT 90% SURE I AM IN LABOR
29-6-2009 - 5 KIDS LATER AND I AM UNSURE IF I AM IN LABOR
29-6-2009 - BRAXTON HICKS!!!
26-6-2009 - COUNTDOWN TIL MY PRINCESS ARRIVES
25-6-2009 - FUN BABY BIRTHDAY FACTS(MY KIDS)WEBSITE INCLUDED
24-6-2009 - FOR THE FIRST TIME I FELT COMFORTABLE
23-6-2009 - IS IT LOVE???
22-6-2009 - WELL MY MOTHER LEFT LIKE A COWARD AND NOW I AM HAVING MIXED FEELINGS ABOUT MY 'RELATIONSHIP' WITH KEIRON. PLZ READ I NEED HELP ASAP!!!
20-6-2009 - BABYSITTING MY MOTHER
18-6-2009 - SHE LOST THE BABY
14-6-2009 - THIS IS ALWAYS A HARD TIME OF THE YEAR FOR ME.
12-6-2009 - SO I TALKED TO THE 'EX' HUSBAND
11-6-2009 - MY 33 WEEK APPT (ALONG WITH MY MOTHERS)
10-6-2009 - SHE IS AT IT AGAIN, STILL MSG'N ME ON MYSPACE,
09-6-2009 - I CANT BELIEVE SHE MSG'D ME
09-6-2009 - I CANT BELIEVE SHE MSG'D ME
08-6-2009 - UPDATE FROM MY LAST BLOG
08-6-2009 - MY MOTHER..PREGNANT AGAIN???
06-6-2009 - UPDATE FROM LAST BLOG EARLIER TODAY
06-6-2009 - QUICK QUESTION...WOULD IT BE WEIRD IF.....
06-6-2009 - another wonderful update (pls read)
04-6-2009 - I REALLY LOVE YOU LADIES
01-6-2009 - BABY COST CALCULATOR
01-6-2009 - GOOD NEWS!!!
31-5-2009 - I HAD TO LET GO AND LET GOD
29-5-2009 - I CANT KEEP DEALING WITH THIS STRESS
29-5-2009 - TODAY WAS A GOOD DAY UNTIL.... 3 HOURS AGO
27-5-2009 - our dr visit/my glucose test today
27-5-2009 - an early morning update....on how i feel about the drama from yersterday
26-5-2009 - IT MAY SOUND SO WRONG, BUT I REALLY HATE MY MAMA. I HATE HER WITH A PASSION
25-5-2009 - I'm really trying to support her.....
25-5-2009 - A CRY FOR HELP.... MAYBE?
23-5-2009 - LOOKING FOR A JOB
22-5-2009 - MY KIDS ARE SAFE NOW
21-5-2009 - I FINALLY GOT MY FAMILY A CAR!!!!
20-5-2009 - DONT BE MAD AT ME LADIES BUT.....
18-5-2009 - I GET TO SEE MY BIG MAN
16-5-2009 - UPDATE
12-5-2009 - trip to the e.r. a second time around
11-5-2009 - my trip to the stupid ass dr
11-5-2009 - SICK AS A DOG
05-5-2009 - UPDATE ON MY SIS & PREGNANCY--BITTERSWEET NEWS
05-5-2009 - GETTING REALLY IMPATIENT
02-5-2009 - the first born survey (got the idea from mrs. terry)
28-4-2009 - OUR DRS APPOINTMENTS
27-4-2009 - I AM GOING TO KILL HER
26-4-2009 - WHAT A DAY!!!!
25-4-2009 - HELP WITH MY LITTLE SISTER....
19-4-2009 - A PIC OF MY SOON-TO-BE-HOME
15-4-2009 - God is too too too good to me!!!!
12-4-2009 - HE GOT SOME M~FING NERVE
08-4-2009 - SO THE DRAMA CONTINUES....
02-4-2009 - A HAPPY UPDATE FOR A CHANGE
01-4-2009 - OMG...HE IS REALLY TRIPPIN YALL...NOW HE' HARRASSING ME OVER MYSPACE NOW
29-3-2009 - A CHANGE FOR THE BETTER
28-3-2009 - finally got the courage
26-3-2009 - WHATS REALLY GOING ON?!?!?
16-3-2009 - SPRING BREAK FOR 2 DAYS AND I AM ALREADY GETTIN INTO TROUBLE
07-3-2009 - HE IS REALLY BLOWIN UP MY PHONE YALL
05-3-2009 - UPDATE!!! UPDATE!!! UPDATE!!! ITS ANOTHER.......
02-3-2009 - I HAVE FINALLY COME TO A DECISION....
25-2-2009 - Yet another update...
22-2-2009 - THIS PAST B-DAY WAS THE WORST EVER
19-2-2009 - MY WORLD HAS COME CRASHING DOWN IN A MATTER OF 4 DAYS
01-2-2009 - UPDATE
31-12-2008 - Nothing to do with my pregnancy..but I still had to tell somebody
28-12-2008 - Just an update...
22-12-2008 - WE DID IT!!!
05-12-2008 - December 20th!!!!!
02-12-2008 - Just an update...
29-11-2008 - I DECIDED TO TELL HIM
28-11-2008 - Well Ladies...3 Letters BF...P!!!!
27-11-2008 - D-DAY HAS ARRIVED YET ONCE AGAIN
19-11-2008 - OK SO I THINK I AM ABOUT TO HAVE A MAJOR PANIC ATTACK

Polls
  1. Should I attempt to have a V-BAC? My last 3 deliveries have been by Cesarean Sec...
    Date: 8-6-2009 Votes: 32 Comments: 7

  2. IS GIOVANNI A MALE ONLY NAMED EVEN IF SPELLED LIKE JHIAVAHNI...
    Date: 15-4-2009 Votes: 42 Comments: 6

  3. OK LADIES, ASIDE FROM ALL THE DRAMA, I GOT A LITTLE TIRED OF PACKING TODAY AND D...
    Date: 30-3-2009 Votes: 65 Comments: 8

  4. OK SO I KNOW ITS A GIRL AND EVEN THOUGH ME AND MY HUSBAND ARE NOT ON GOOD TERMS ...
    Date: 16-3-2009 Votes: 83 Comments: 7

  5. DO YOU FEEL THAT IT IS WRONG FOR ME TO GET MY TUBES TIED? I AM 19 AND PREGNANT W...
    Date: 8-12-2008 Votes: 140 Comments: 9


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