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5 miracles and an angel
Age: 20 AS OF 02/21/2009
Country: U.S.A.
Province/region: FL
City: Jacksonville
Partner: ITS JUS ME AND MY LORD & SAVIOR
Children: Yes, 6
Pregnant: Not anymore
Occupation: RECEPTIONIST
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03-8-2009 - I am now a single woman!!!!!!!!!!! free and blessed...My mood while writing this blog:
free and blessed...



OMG, so I was on here last night after I got back from my now Ex mother-in-laws' house, but I wanted to keep quiet until it became official and do you know how hard that was. Well anyways I told yall that he txted me and told me to come over his ma's house so that he could sign them. Well I did just that and I guess he called himself making me jealous, because when I got there guess who was there, Brittney and the new baby. I walk through the front door and she is the first person I see there holding the baby, so I looked at her and I guess she thought she was doing damage to me because she rolled her eyes, but I looked at her and went on about my business. I ended up going in the kitchen and this fool gonna try and give me a hug (HA! some fucking nerve right? ) Well I was like here you go and made him get JhiaVahni instead of touching me (didnt think I was going to fall for that, now did we). Well we sat down and this fool was like you really wanna do this and I'm looking like are you serious. I told him to give me one reason I shouldnt sign them and he was like because I still love you and our family that we have together and I said sure thats why our family became yall family (talkin bout him and Brittney) and you and her family (talkin bout him and that Summer girl) and love might hurt at times, but it dont hurt shit like what you put me through with the cheating and having other kids and threatening to kill. I told him I would be a fool if I even thought about turning back to him. I have too much respect for myself and too much love for my kids to do that again and if he loves me that much why try hurtig me by bringing the other woman to the house where he knows Im coming he says it was only because his ma wanted to see him, Do I really believe him? Hell Nah. Then this fool asks me if I was f---ing Keiron and I cursed him out and apparently we were a little too loud, because his mama comes in there told us the whole house could hear our convo, not that I cared. I loved the fact that they knew just how dirty he really was to me and his kids. I hated that I ever married him, that I let him take me from California and that I ever met him, and I am so happy that I have finally divorced him, I honestly think part of me still loves him, but I would never ever be with him again.


I asked Jay if she knew about me and he told me yea, she knew he went to California to adopt my son, he told her before he did it. I stil cant believe that when I walked out the kitchen, that girl was holding my baby, like she didnt do me wrong either. I picked up my Jhia and was about to leave when his mother asked me to stay for awhile and as uncomfortable as it was for me, I did it because she didnt do me any wrong unless she really did tell him she wanted to see her baby, but then again its her right because it is her grandchild. Mrs Willis had got up for a second and the first thing Brittney said to me was that was wrong of you to make a scene in my room like that, What real woman does that? I told her it was very fucked up to sleep with my husband, like she did and and no real woman would do that either. I guess she thought she was in the right because she said that he wasnt my husband when she started sleeping with him. I told her either way she was still a hoe, because she knew he was with me and she said that she loved him the whole time she knew him and was happy she finally had him, so I said yea, you and every other bitch in Houston and I walked out of there to protect my cool. I couldnt stay any longer. I got what I need and I left. I was up 6:00 this morning, with papers in hand I left aroung 7:30ish aad marched right back to the court house to see what had to be done to get them babies done and I handed them to her and she told me it would be taken care of and I had a 60 day probation period, before I could wed anyone else and I kinda laughed and told her it just might be 60 years before then.




16 Comments on I am now a single woman!!!!!!!!!!!


Danikas-mumma - Friday, 7 Aug
Can't believe that biatches nerve! but you was in the right the whole time hunni, congrats on becoming a free woman.

beautyfulmommy - Tuesday, 4 Aug
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR DIVORCE.smhh @ that girl.smhh @ her touching your baby after she got through rolling her eyes &shit.. I woulda grabbed her eyeballs out her damn head.but you did the right thing : yu said what yu had to say &aint no use in getting uptight & locked up for fighting a stupid girl like that!she is a lost cause.

4timesthelove - Tuesday, 4 Aug
JOB WELL DONE MISS KANDI

SuperHeroMom - Monday, 3 Aug
i'M SORRY 2 SAY BUT THAT GIRL IS A DUMB B*TCH AND I WOULD'VE PROBABLY WHIPPED HER ASS RITE THEN BUT U DID GOOD THO. I'M GLAD IT'S FINALLY OVER FOR YOU!

*Jessica* - Monday, 3 Aug
Congrats on the divorce! I dont know how you can be so strong!!! I wish it could be that easy here in Illinois to get a divorce, we have to be separated and living apart for 6 consecutive months before even starting the papaer work, but the only way I know to get a divorce is to get a lawyer, which I cant afford out of pocket, so I had to get on the waiting list for one, and its a 3 year waiting list for the divorce program. And I know that he wont do any of it, hes just waiting on me. Is there another easier way that you know of me being able to get a divorce?? can I do something myself?? I dont know anything about this, and thought I would never have to, but just like you, yeah, I still Love my husband, but enough is enough! I wanted to file for legal seperation before, and they told me at the courthouse I would have to get a lawyer for that, so im just so confused, but also dont want to wait a looooong 3 years!!!

jazznshan - Monday, 3 Aug
you go girl

Mrz.Spencer06 - Monday, 3 Aug
Yea you really let o girl have it. lol

JuggaletteMommy2anAngel - Monday, 3 Aug
Congrats on ur divorce. I wish things were that easy around here. Shit here yu have to be seperated at least 6 months before u can even file then when u hand in the papers u have to wait for them to be filed and get a court date and go through all that crap and we both want our divorce and our marriage is ending in friendship as we were not happy as a couple so there is no kids involved and no fighting over anything. all the dividing shit has been done. He got what he owned before marriage and i got what i owned before marriage things we bought together whoever it was bought for got to keep it and things that was both of us we divided or gave to the other if we did not want it so yea congrats again on ur divorce i cna not wait until mine is done lol

fourboystwogirls - Monday, 3 Aug
you go girl i am so happy for you

AKA.mom - Monday, 3 Aug
First and foremost lemme say congrats on the divorce. Then lemme say congrats for holding ya cool the way you did. Also with ms brittney what goes around comes around. I woner why some women are so blind to that....What he did to you he will do to her.

AKA.mom - Monday, 3 Aug
First and foremost lemme say congrats on the divorce. Then lemme say congrats for holding ya cool the way you did. Also with ms brittney what goes around comes around. I woner why some women are so blind to that....What he did to you he will do to her.

normalee - Monday, 3 Aug
So glad too hear that you got the papers finally done and soon enough rid of him. good luck with everthing you do. just take one day at a time.

msalecia20 - Monday, 3 Aug
Good for you! I bet you are so relieved! KARMA IS A B1tCH with a capital B and those girls he messed with while married to you he will do them the same way. I cant stand females like that and he should have known better

indigocream - Monday, 3 Aug
Im glad for you I am married to my 4th husband... 1st to young, 2nd died and 3rd was a fool.. But God gave me a wonderful husband now... So dont give up!!! On Love... God has a husband for a wonderful wife and mother.. believe That.

Jmajor-payne - Monday, 3 Aug
Girl I am so happy for u I am cheesing it up so big for u right now!!! Now im next in line!! Girl the chick had some nerve to even open her mouth to you...what she thought she was proving besides her stupidity!!!

laddgirl - Monday, 3 Aug
I'm glad it's finally over. I'm also glad you kept your cool with ole girl talkin mess to you. That would have been a hard one for me, especially holdin Jhia. Well, no need to look back now. Go head with your new man.....YES GIRL, YO NEW MAN, and make the most the most of it. Allow God to lead you in your decisions with him. Who knows, you may get married before 60years. LOL! Drive safely back home.
Photos
YOURS TRULY (2009, 05, 31) ONE OF MY FAVORITE PICTURES WHEN I WAS PREGNANT WITH CAM (2008, 11, 20) The Hubby (2009, 01, 05) MY BOY AT 9 MONTHS (2009, 06, 25) HIM LIKE TO EAT PAPER...LOL (2009, 06, 25) HIM LIKES TO THROW PAPER (2009, 06, 25) FULL AND SLEEPY (2009, 06, 25) BEIN NOSEY, KINDA LOOKS LIKE POP BROWN (2009, 06, 25) FAT DADDY ON MAMS FAT, PREGNANT BELLY (2009, 06, 25) MY BABY LOVES FEET (2009, 06, 25) AW HE WASNT READY (2009, 06, 25) HE ALWAYS HAVE THAT MOUTH OPEN (2009, 06, 25) MAMA GOT A HAPPY BABY (2009, 06, 25) I LOVE HIS SMILE (2009, 06, 25) TRYING TO EAT HIS FEET YET AGAIN.... (2009, 06, 25) ...AND THIS TIME HE SUCCEEDED (2009, 06, 25) STARTLED BY THE FLASH (2009, 06, 25) Click here to see all 5 miracles and an angel`s photos

Children
CORDARIAN-RASHARD-COLEMAN (2002) KENTRELL--JONATHAN-HILL-JR. (2004) JONET-LAVELLE-SMITHERS (2005) MONET-RAYCHELL-SMITHERS (2005) CAMERON-DONTE-DOBSON-JR (2008) JhiaVahni-Yvette-Willis (2009)

Latest blogs
03-11-2009 - THANKS LADIES
30-10-2009 - Cant be serious???
28-10-2009 - had a little talk with him
27-10-2009 - Being pushed away????
25-10-2009 - Updates!!!!!
14-10-2009 - Good news
12-10-2009 - just a small update & expression of gratitude towards you ladies :D
10-10-2009 - finally got in touch with my aunt
10-10-2009 - LOOKING FOR INFO ON SHELTERS THAT CATER TO TEEN MOTHERS
09-10-2009 - TICKED OFF
05-10-2009 - She's never going to learn....and she is not going to keep f---ing up in my house
30-9-2009 - Fresh updates...Day one of no kids
29-9-2009 - question for those on fcbk....what does this mean?
28-9-2009 - just what I needed...
28-9-2009 - Just for one night
28-9-2009 - Time for potty training for Cam...any advice?? And something else I totally wasnt expecting
26-9-2009 - FINALLY A QUIET HOUSE...
23-9-2009 - I'm such a horrible girlfriend
15-9-2009 - Updates
14-9-2009 - Should I let him stay~~Help me Ladies!!!!!
11-9-2009 - update on Kenni and the twins
11-9-2009 - Take a peek at Khamayah and Khamaree, only a couple of hours old
09-9-2009 - Kenni's last ob visit
05-9-2009 - a hopefully better view of the convo between my ex husband and i
05-9-2009 - msg between the ex and I got real emotional / Is there a way I can become Kenni's legal guardian w/o my mom's consent / more with WIC / cam's zoo party
02-9-2009 - a msg from the ex husband
31-8-2009 - just a reflection
24-8-2009 - Thank you so much for the encouraging words, also plenty of UPDATES!!!
24-8-2009 - I got my babies back
15-8-2009 - Going to get my girls
15-8-2009 - She thinks she is keeping my babies
14-8-2009 - He wants to make "US OFFICIAL"
11-8-2009 - THE EX HUBBY MSGED ME ON MYSPACE AND THE BABIES WILL BE HERE THEN ANTICIPATED
03-8-2009 - I am now a single woman!!!!!!!!!!!
02-8-2009 - New pictures of the babes and concerns about my son Cameron
30-7-2009 - no show...(super short blog)
30-7-2009 - JUST WHAT I NEEDED (FOR THE SINGLE LADIES, STILL SEARCHING FOR THAT GOOD MAN)
29-7-2009 - I FREAKING LOVE THIS MAN (KEIRON, DEF NOT JAY)
29-7-2009 - He's Gonna Sign
28-7-2009 - HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED...I CANT BELIEVE I ACTED LIKE A FOOL
28-7-2009 - HOW DARE HE?!?!?!?
27-7-2009 - MADE IT TO HOUSTON SAFELY, BUT NOW THE NEVERENDING DRAMA WITH MY EX
26-7-2009 - plans for houston delayed for the night
23-7-2009 - A CLEAN SLATE?!?!
21-7-2009 - WELL....
17-7-2009 - SHE'S BACK AND UNFORTUNATELY SHE IS WITH ME (AGAIN)
16-7-2009 - Lord I dont need this right now
14-7-2009 - Going to Houston for the Divorce.
13-7-2009 - Its just me and the babies
10-7-2009 - SMALL TALK W/ THE HUSBAND
10-7-2009 - COLLEGE-BOUND????
10-7-2009 - JUST TO CATCH Y'ALL UP ON EVERYTHING (MY DAUGHTERS AND CALI, MY SISTER AND HER ISSUES, AND CAMERON'S 1ST BIRTHDAY)
09-7-2009 - HA..SHE CAME HOME...(WELL TRIED TO ANYWAY)
09-7-2009 - I WOKE THIS MORNIG TO MY SISTER GONE
07-7-2009 - MY TWINS MAY BE LEAVING ME : [ HELP: I NEED SOME ADVICE
04-7-2009 - FIRST 24 HRS AT HOME WITH PRINCESS JHIAVAHNI
03-7-2009 - BIRTH STORY AND PICTURES
29-6-2009 - ABOUT 90% SURE I AM IN LABOR
29-6-2009 - 5 KIDS LATER AND I AM UNSURE IF I AM IN LABOR
29-6-2009 - BRAXTON HICKS!!!
26-6-2009 - COUNTDOWN TIL MY PRINCESS ARRIVES
25-6-2009 - FUN BABY BIRTHDAY FACTS(MY KIDS)WEBSITE INCLUDED
24-6-2009 - FOR THE FIRST TIME I FELT COMFORTABLE
23-6-2009 - IS IT LOVE???
22-6-2009 - WELL MY MOTHER LEFT LIKE A COWARD AND NOW I AM HAVING MIXED FEELINGS ABOUT MY 'RELATIONSHIP' WITH KEIRON. PLZ READ I NEED HELP ASAP!!!
20-6-2009 - BABYSITTING MY MOTHER
18-6-2009 - SHE LOST THE BABY
14-6-2009 - THIS IS ALWAYS A HARD TIME OF THE YEAR FOR ME.
12-6-2009 - SO I TALKED TO THE 'EX' HUSBAND
11-6-2009 - MY 33 WEEK APPT (ALONG WITH MY MOTHERS)
10-6-2009 - SHE IS AT IT AGAIN, STILL MSG'N ME ON MYSPACE,
09-6-2009 - I CANT BELIEVE SHE MSG'D ME
09-6-2009 - I CANT BELIEVE SHE MSG'D ME
08-6-2009 - UPDATE FROM MY LAST BLOG
08-6-2009 - MY MOTHER..PREGNANT AGAIN???
06-6-2009 - UPDATE FROM LAST BLOG EARLIER TODAY
06-6-2009 - QUICK QUESTION...WOULD IT BE WEIRD IF.....
06-6-2009 - another wonderful update (pls read)
04-6-2009 - I REALLY LOVE YOU LADIES
01-6-2009 - BABY COST CALCULATOR
01-6-2009 - GOOD NEWS!!!
31-5-2009 - I HAD TO LET GO AND LET GOD
29-5-2009 - I CANT KEEP DEALING WITH THIS STRESS
29-5-2009 - TODAY WAS A GOOD DAY UNTIL.... 3 HOURS AGO
27-5-2009 - our dr visit/my glucose test today
27-5-2009 - an early morning update....on how i feel about the drama from yersterday
26-5-2009 - IT MAY SOUND SO WRONG, BUT I REALLY HATE MY MAMA. I HATE HER WITH A PASSION
25-5-2009 - I'm really trying to support her.....
25-5-2009 - A CRY FOR HELP.... MAYBE?
23-5-2009 - LOOKING FOR A JOB
22-5-2009 - MY KIDS ARE SAFE NOW
21-5-2009 - I FINALLY GOT MY FAMILY A CAR!!!!
20-5-2009 - DONT BE MAD AT ME LADIES BUT.....
18-5-2009 - I GET TO SEE MY BIG MAN
16-5-2009 - UPDATE
12-5-2009 - trip to the e.r. a second time around
11-5-2009 - my trip to the stupid ass dr
11-5-2009 - SICK AS A DOG
05-5-2009 - UPDATE ON MY SIS & PREGNANCY--BITTERSWEET NEWS
05-5-2009 - GETTING REALLY IMPATIENT
02-5-2009 - the first born survey (got the idea from mrs. terry)
28-4-2009 - OUR DRS APPOINTMENTS
27-4-2009 - I AM GOING TO KILL HER
26-4-2009 - WHAT A DAY!!!!
25-4-2009 - HELP WITH MY LITTLE SISTER....
19-4-2009 - A PIC OF MY SOON-TO-BE-HOME
15-4-2009 - God is too too too good to me!!!!
12-4-2009 - HE GOT SOME M~FING NERVE
08-4-2009 - SO THE DRAMA CONTINUES....
02-4-2009 - A HAPPY UPDATE FOR A CHANGE
01-4-2009 - OMG...HE IS REALLY TRIPPIN YALL...NOW HE' HARRASSING ME OVER MYSPACE NOW
29-3-2009 - A CHANGE FOR THE BETTER
28-3-2009 - finally got the courage
26-3-2009 - WHATS REALLY GOING ON?!?!?
16-3-2009 - SPRING BREAK FOR 2 DAYS AND I AM ALREADY GETTIN INTO TROUBLE
07-3-2009 - HE IS REALLY BLOWIN UP MY PHONE YALL
05-3-2009 - UPDATE!!! UPDATE!!! UPDATE!!! ITS ANOTHER.......
02-3-2009 - I HAVE FINALLY COME TO A DECISION....
25-2-2009 - Yet another update...
22-2-2009 - THIS PAST B-DAY WAS THE WORST EVER
19-2-2009 - MY WORLD HAS COME CRASHING DOWN IN A MATTER OF 4 DAYS
01-2-2009 - UPDATE
31-12-2008 - Nothing to do with my pregnancy..but I still had to tell somebody
28-12-2008 - Just an update...
22-12-2008 - WE DID IT!!!
05-12-2008 - December 20th!!!!!
02-12-2008 - Just an update...
29-11-2008 - I DECIDED TO TELL HIM
28-11-2008 - Well Ladies...3 Letters BF...P!!!!
27-11-2008 - D-DAY HAS ARRIVED YET ONCE AGAIN
19-11-2008 - OK SO I THINK I AM ABOUT TO HAVE A MAJOR PANIC ATTACK

Polls
  1. Should I attempt to have a V-BAC? My last 3 deliveries have been by Cesarean Sec...
    Date: 8-6-2009 Votes: 32 Comments: 7

  2. IS GIOVANNI A MALE ONLY NAMED EVEN IF SPELLED LIKE JHIAVAHNI...
    Date: 15-4-2009 Votes: 42 Comments: 6

  3. OK LADIES, ASIDE FROM ALL THE DRAMA, I GOT A LITTLE TIRED OF PACKING TODAY AND D...
    Date: 30-3-2009 Votes: 65 Comments: 8

  4. OK SO I KNOW ITS A GIRL AND EVEN THOUGH ME AND MY HUSBAND ARE NOT ON GOOD TERMS ...
    Date: 16-3-2009 Votes: 83 Comments: 7

  5. DO YOU FEEL THAT IT IS WRONG FOR ME TO GET MY TUBES TIED? I AM 19 AND PREGNANT W...
    Date: 8-12-2008 Votes: 140 Comments: 9


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