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| 03-8-2009 - I am now a single woman!!!!!!!!!!! |
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OMG, so I was on here last night after I got back from my now Ex mother-in-laws' house, but I wanted to keep quiet until it became official and do you know how hard that was. Well anyways I told yall that he txted me and told me to come over his ma's house so that he could sign them. Well I did just that and I guess he called himself making me jealous, because when I got there guess who was there, Brittney and the new baby. I walk through the front door and she is the first person I see there holding the baby, so I looked at her and I guess she thought she was doing damage to me because she rolled her eyes, but I looked at her and went on about my business. I ended up going in the kitchen and this fool gonna try and give me a hug (HA! some fucking nerve right? ) Well I was like here you go and made him get JhiaVahni instead of touching me (didnt think I was going to fall for that, now did we). Well we sat down and this fool was like you really wanna do this and I'm looking like are you serious. I told him to give me one reason I shouldnt sign them and he was like because I still love you and our family that we have together and I said sure thats why our family became yall family (talkin bout him and Brittney) and you and her family (talkin bout him and that Summer girl) and love might hurt at times, but it dont hurt shit like what you put me through with the cheating and having other kids and threatening to kill. I told him I would be a fool if I even thought about turning back to him. I have too much respect for myself and too much love for my kids to do that again and if he loves me that much why try hurtig me by bringing the other woman to the house where he knows Im coming he says it was only because his ma wanted to see him, Do I really believe him? Hell Nah. Then this fool asks me if I was f---ing Keiron and I cursed him out and apparently we were a little too loud, because his mama comes in there told us the whole house could hear our convo, not that I cared. I loved the fact that they knew just how dirty he really was to me and his kids. I hated that I ever married him, that I let him take me from California and that I ever met him, and I am so happy that I have finally divorced him, I honestly think part of me still loves him, but I would never ever be with him again.
I asked Jay if she knew about me and he told me yea, she knew he went to California to adopt my son, he told her before he did it. I stil cant believe that when I walked out the kitchen, that girl was holding my baby, like she didnt do me wrong either. I picked up my Jhia and was about to leave when his mother asked me to stay for awhile and as uncomfortable as it was for me, I did it because she didnt do me any wrong unless she really did tell him she wanted to see her baby, but then again its her right because it is her grandchild. Mrs Willis had got up for a second and the first thing Brittney said to me was that was wrong of you to make a scene in my room like that, What real woman does that? I told her it was very fucked up to sleep with my husband, like she did and and no real woman would do that either. I guess she thought she was in the right because she said that he wasnt my husband when she started sleeping with him. I told her either way she was still a hoe, because she knew he was with me and she said that she loved him the whole time she knew him and was happy she finally had him, so I said yea, you and every other bitch in Houston and I walked out of there to protect my cool. I couldnt stay any longer. I got what I need and I left. I was up 6:00 this morning, with papers in hand I left aroung 7:30ish aad marched right back to the court house to see what had to be done to get them babies done and I handed them to her and she told me it would be taken care of and I had a 60 day probation period, before I could wed anyone else and I kinda laughed and told her it just might be 60 years before then.
16 Comments on I am now a single woman!!!!!!!!!!!Danikas-mumma -
Friday, 7 Aug Can't believe that biatches nerve! but you was in the right the whole time hunni, congrats on becoming a free woman. beautyfulmommy -
Tuesday, 4 Aug CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR DIVORCE.smhh @ that girl.smhh @ her touching your baby after she got through rolling her eyes &shit.. I woulda grabbed her eyeballs out her damn head.but you did the right thing : yu said what yu had to say &aint no use in getting uptight & locked up for fighting a stupid girl like that!she is a lost cause. 4timesthelove -
Tuesday, 4 Aug JOB WELL DONE MISS KANDI SuperHeroMom -
Monday, 3 Aug i'M SORRY 2 SAY BUT THAT GIRL IS A DUMB B*TCH AND I WOULD'VE PROBABLY WHIPPED HER ASS RITE THEN BUT U DID GOOD THO. I'M GLAD IT'S FINALLY OVER FOR YOU! *Jessica* -
Monday, 3 Aug Congrats on the divorce! I dont know how you can be so strong!!! I wish it could be that easy here in Illinois to get a divorce, we have to be separated and living apart for 6 consecutive months before even starting the papaer work, but the only way I know to get a divorce is to get a lawyer, which I cant afford out of pocket, so I had to get on the waiting list for one, and its a 3 year waiting list for the divorce program. And I know that he wont do any of it, hes just waiting on me. Is there another easier way that you know of me being able to get a divorce?? can I do something myself?? I dont know anything about this, and thought I would never have to, but just like you, yeah, I still Love my husband, but enough is enough! I wanted to file for legal seperation before, and they told me at the courthouse I would have to get a lawyer for that, so im just so confused, but also dont want to wait a looooong 3 years!!! jazznshan -
Monday, 3 Aug you go girl Mrz.Spencer06 -
Monday, 3 Aug Yea you really let o girl have it. lol JuggaletteMommy2anAngel -
Monday, 3 Aug Congrats on ur divorce. I wish things were that easy around here. Shit here yu have to be seperated at least 6 months before u can even file then when u hand in the papers u have to wait for them to be filed and get a court date and go through all that crap and we both want our divorce and our marriage is ending in friendship as we were not happy as a couple so there is no kids involved and no fighting over anything. all the dividing shit has been done. He got what he owned before marriage and i got what i owned before marriage things we bought together whoever it was bought for got to keep it and things that was both of us we divided or gave to the other if we did not want it so yea congrats again on ur divorce i cna not wait until mine is done lol fourboystwogirls -
Monday, 3 Aug you go girl i am so happy for you AKA.mom -
Monday, 3 Aug First and foremost lemme say congrats on the divorce. Then lemme say congrats for holding ya cool the way you did. Also with ms brittney what goes around comes around. I woner why some women are so blind to that....What he did to you he will do to her. AKA.mom -
Monday, 3 Aug First and foremost lemme say congrats on the divorce. Then lemme say congrats for holding ya cool the way you did. Also with ms brittney what goes around comes around. I woner why some women are so blind to that....What he did to you he will do to her. normalee -
Monday, 3 Aug So glad too hear that you got the papers finally done and soon enough rid of him. good luck with everthing you do. just take one day at a time. msalecia20 -
Monday, 3 Aug Good for you! I bet you are so relieved! KARMA IS A B1tCH with a capital B and those girls he messed with while married to you he will do them the same way. I cant stand females like that and he should have known better indigocream -
Monday, 3 Aug Im glad for you I am married to my 4th husband... 1st to young, 2nd died and 3rd was a fool.. But God gave me a wonderful husband now... So dont give up!!! On Love... God has a husband for a wonderful wife and mother.. believe That. Jmajor-payne -
Monday, 3 Aug Girl I am so happy for u I am cheesing it up so big for u right now!!! Now im next in line!! Girl the chick had some nerve to even open her mouth to you...what she thought she was proving besides her stupidity!!! laddgirl -
Monday, 3 Aug I'm glad it's finally over. I'm also glad you kept your cool with ole girl talkin mess to you. That would have been a hard one for me, especially holdin Jhia. Well, no need to look back now. Go head with your new man.....YES GIRL, YO NEW MAN, and make the most the most of it. Allow God to lead you in your decisions with him. Who knows, you may get married before 60years. LOL! Drive safely back home.