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Age: 20 AS OF 02/21/2009
Country: U.S.A.
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05-10-2009 - She's never going to learn....and she is not going to keep f---ing up in my house pissedMy mood while writing this blog:
pissed



First I wanna start off by saying that I want her out. I know she just had the twins but she has to get out of my house. I come home a little while ago to my sister, I knew something was up when the first thing she asked me was how bad is it to have sex after you have a baby and the first thing I responded was why what did you do and she was like nothing. So I basically just knew she was lying and started to raise my voice and I asked her again, what the hell did she do and he eyes start watering and she tells me that her and Cedrique had sex today, so I got all angry and started to yell that I woke up her babies and scared mine. I mean why in the hell did she do this, It hasnt even been a month yet since she had the babies and she goes and pull a stunt like this. I asked her why the hell was he in my house and I didnt know he was here, I told yall how I dont trust him anymore, plus a few days ago I had $75 on my kitchen counter that morning and when I came home it was gone and only him, his friend, and Kenni was there. She claimed she didnt see it so it had to be of them if she wasnt lying. It didnt just walk out my house by itself. I told her he was not allowed over if I wasnt there. I asked her how many times did they have sex and she told me this was the 2nd time since she had the babies, SECOND, wtf?!?!? was she thinking. I swear if this child is pregnant again, IDK what I would do. I cant afford another mouth to feed she has got to get out of my house. I dont care where she goes, but its not going to be here. She continuously defies my rules and doesnt care, so I have to show her I am not playing with her. She is 14 but wants to be 41 and its not happening, not in my house


12 Comments on She's never going to learn....and she is not going to keep f---ing up in my house


reneeandbaby - Wednesday, 7 Oct
I want to add that your sister may have taken the money. She does not have any money except for what you give her. I would not put it past her to take the money. She does not listen she thinks that she is an adult and she has already been arrested for shoplifting. Just keep that in mind.

reneeandbaby - Wednesday, 7 Oct
I think that you should send her to a shelter. The only reason that she has a place for her and her kids is you. She wants to be an adult then send her to a shelter with her kids. You should also call the police. Are you forgeting that this girl is 14 and he is 20 years old. This is illegal in any state. He should not be having sex with her. Now if you want to be her parent what I think that you should do is call that boy and tell him that he is comes around again that you will call the police on him. You should do for her what your mother did not do for you. She only has you to look at for her best interest. Call the police!

dorolyn - Tuesday, 6 Oct
I dont even kno what to say... but dude needs to kick rocks! He dont work so what good is he? She may feel like she "has" to do what he asks.. or else he will leave her and the babies. So when he asked for sex she may have felt like she couldnt say no. I kno that isnt any excuse for her but maybe thats what it is. He is much older than her and maybe he knows that he can take advantage of her... which I think he is. And I def think he took the money... its not like he has a source of income...

firstNonlyBABYboy - Tuesday, 6 Oct
I honestly dont know how you handle all this stuff. im 20 w/ 1 baby and my brain is fried all the time. I think you are so strong . 1st thing KEEP HIS A** OUT OF YOUR HOUSE. this may seem strange but Im more upset at the MISSING MONEY more than the sex thing only because ppl cant afford to lose any money and you got kids to take care of , why would they do that? I honestly dont know what you can do about your sister - it seems like you are kind of stuck with her because she cant leave , where will she take the babies? but if she stays she will keep disrespecting your rules because i dont believe she looks at you as a "mother" . i think she will have to have something happen in her life that will affect her way of thinking- you would have thought the twins would have done it but..... GOOD LUCK FOR U AND THIS SITUATION

ADDISYNS~MUM - Tuesday, 6 Oct
i honestly would make her go get the iud! they last 5 years! the depo you have to get every 3 months! i agree you cant just kick her out... but at the same time she cant keep stomping all over you and everything that you have done for this girl!!! id say... dont help her with caring for these twins at all!!! make her do every thing by herself! waking up, feeding, changing, settling down the screaming and crying baby, getting up in the middle of the night! maybe this could be a birth control in itself... if you and your neighbors are good friends or something ask if they can keep an eye out for those boys coming over when your not home... so... just a few ideas... but i dont know what to do hun... your in a bind... good luck

laddgirl - Tuesday, 6 Oct
I'm with dinahmite425. Put her on the depo. She seems as if she's gonna have sex regardless if you say so or not. Atleast you'll be preventing another pregnancy. Make Cedric pay for it even. Explain it don't give an open door for them to have sex....but you'll know she won't come up pregnant if they do. On the thoughts of kicking her out...I probably would have to let her go. You've told her a number of times how your rules work and what her consequences are. Stick to them. I feel for her cause she's 14....but you've been her krutch long enough. Time to pull away and let her see life.

marcie521 - Tuesday, 6 Oct
girl, she is doing a bit much!!! Women are so fertile during the first 6 weeks after having a baby...which is part of the reason they tell you no sex during that time even if you feel healed. You have a lot to deal with. I just honestly don't know what will work for her. She needs to be more responsible.

kavanna - Tuesday, 6 Oct
omg i feel you anger but kicking her out wont do anything you need to talk to her and let her no how she is more then on thin ice show her that u are not playing tell her she needs to be more respectful to your rules and if she dont you would have to do something you really dnt want to. let her no that your doing this alone and she is to young to understand now why your being the more damanding one but tell her its for her own good let her no that she cant risk to have any more kids and if her dude is bring others inside your house and money is coming up missing that thats taking away from you and the kids.. from what ut sounds like your the only one working let her no that you need her to act well more then act be way older then what she is i no she is just 14teen but she is no longer alone she has kids that she needs to be there for and her acts are not just selfish but unfare to you and the kids you love her and that the only reasion why you put up with her fukk up's is because you believe that she could be better maybe she need some words to help her understand that bring more kids in this world and unable to help pull her weight is not a women its a child trying to be one... hopefully she open her eyes and pray that god help you be strong to handel all keep yo head up and please dnt kick her out only because were would she go and she just had her twines just talk and pray ill keep you n my prays all is love kavanna xoxo

mom of 14 - Monday, 5 Oct
WELL HONEY, IDK THE WHOLE STORY BEHIND IT, BUT I SEE THAT SHE IS ONLY 14, YOU CANT KICK HER OUT YET, SHE IS JUST A BABY BUT SHE DOESN'T WANT TO ACT HER AGE, MAKE HER ACT LIKE SHE IS GROWN, CLEAN THE HOUSE, IF YOU COOK, COOK ONLY FOR YOU AND YOUR KIDDOS, MAKE HER COOK HER OWN MEALS AND TAKE CARE OF HER OWN KIDS, MAKE HER DO THE LAUNDRY AND PAYBACK YOU FOR THE TIME AND LABOR, SUCH AS WHEN YOU GO OUT AND BUT GROCERIES, MAKE HER DO CHORES, TO EARN THE FOOD YOU BRING HOME, KIND OF LIKE A JOB NO WORK NO FOOD, TAKE THE KEY IF SHE HAS ONE AND LOCK BURGLAR BARS IF YOU HAVE ANY EXCEPT FOR ONE, PREFERABLY A WINDOW, SO SHE CANT GET OUT UNLESS THERE IS AN EMERGENCY ITS MANY OF WAYS TO MAKE HER PAY FOR HER ACTIONS, BUT DONT KICK HER OUT JUST YET SHE IS YOUNG AND IT JUST MIGHT MAKE HER BEHAVIOR WORSEN.

~*KamBreasMommie~* - Monday, 5 Oct
OMG wtf is she thinking. For starters she just had the babies. Do she know that she can get pregnant much quicker after just giving birth??? I mean I don't know you all personally, but I feel as if I do because we be on here all the time, lol, I mean but shit she gots to get better than this. I mean damn Cedrique need his ass kicked for this shit he really pushing it, and she is to but like you said she gotta go, cuz this shit is too much. Not only do you gotta new baby, but you got 3 other lil ones in the home with you as well,a nd you work and go to school, you don't have time to be looking after her. Like my mother told me a long time ago, when you young and wanna do grown people shit, you gone have to deal with grown people consequences. So if she gets her ass pregnant again, put her OUT and make her do it on her own thats the only way she will learn.-Kris

Madilyns♥Mommy - Monday, 5 Oct
No, don't have her get the depo shop, but have her montiored and make sure she don't do that, and say if you do it again you will have to leave.. JUST HAD TWINS? I mean lol wtf!??? I'd be scared to do it again

dinahmite425 - Monday, 5 Oct
have her get the depo shot
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