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AKA.mom
	Age: 25 Country: USA Province/region: Mid-West City: Indianapolis Partner: EX_Boyfriend Lamar Children: Yes, 1 Pregnant: Not anymore Occupation: Crew Scheduler
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10-4-2009 - drama...I need to say this

My mood while writing this blog:
pissed off to all pisstivity and sad

First let me say I apoligize to anyone if it offends you in any way......My baby's father and I are not getting along. Do you know that I am almost 21 weeks and this fool still hasn't told his mother that Im pregnant!?! I mean WTF!!! I feel like he is disowning my child or me. That shit hurts. I don't know what to do. I gotta a half a mind to call his mom and tell her myself yet the other half is telling me to just let it go. I don't know what to do. My feelings are sooo hurt. I feel like shit. I know I have the support of my family and all but that's not how my life is supposed to be. I don't wanna be treated like a statistic. I have a college degree and a great job where I can take care of my son on my own....It's just not the life I had planned for me. I don't want or need a part time dad in my childs life. Only if he knew the love of my life is back around ready to give my son his last name. But because I'm hurt I can't trust that either. I don't know what to do does anyone have any advice for me? I know I should leave it in God's hands but right now I can't. I'm really trying to get it together really I am. Hell I don't know if I'm more sad or upset. Well thanks for listening/reading my thoughts I just really needed to get that off my chest....I hope you all have a blessed day

2 Comments on drama...I need to say this

klo0426 - Saturday, 11 Apr
I believe no matter how much of an idiot these fathers can be and are....the grandparents have a right to know when a grandchild is coming into this world. So I would personally tell his mother. Who cares if he gets upset with you, he's had enough time to tell her himself. You wouldn't want it to come back on you later that you didn't tell her.
As far as the love of your life verses the father of your baby and the last name. Give YOUR baby your last name and if he (love of your life) wants to step up and be another mans childs father then that's fine. But if it comes down to the father wanting to be dad...you can't take that from him, unless you have it legalized by the court. Meaning you would have to pertition the court to have his parental rights taken from him....and the courts frown upon mothers being upset just because the dad wasn't around. You would have to prove that he is an unfit parent. Or if he really doesn't want his child he will just sign the papers anyways. I hope everything works out for you and your baby. No matter what happens you'll be ok. Alot of what your worried about and upset about is your hormones taking over every rational thought you have.

MOMATAVIA23 - Friday, 10 Apr
HEY SISTA I KNOW HOW U FEEL BUT U CANNOT LET THAT GET TO U BUT I FEEL U I DID NOT PLAN THIS 4 ME EIGHTHER BUT GOD HAS DIFFRENT PLANS 4 US ALL AND U ARE RITE LEAVE IT IN GODS HANDS AND HE WILL TAKE CARE OF IT AM PRAYING 4 U CAUSE I FEEL YO PAIN

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