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27-4-2009 - 8 weeks left to go and im lost

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so now that i thought everything was actually going to work out everything went down the drain..my fiance doesnt want to move out of his home town but i hate this town..there are no job aportunities and no where to live its a small town full of bad people..he wants to stay together but if we are appart i dont want to stay together//its not the first time he has done this he is soooo wishy washy..i dont kno what to do..i want him there to help me and have a strong bond w/ his baby but i have t get away from this town..his no good friends are to blame i think b/c they are always talking him into things....i had everything planned out thoughout this entire pregnancy and at the last minute he desides this..i really need some advise please help..

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4 Comments on 8 weeks left to go and im lost


tanya23 - Wednesday, 29 Apr
its easy to stay in the same rutine. change is a human fear. give it time. see how it works out. you can always try to convince him to try it out living somewhere else and if it does not work out then that is when he can decide otherwise. change can be good.

ChinaPeach - Monday, 27 Apr
he backed out last min cause he is insecure and scared.. He's afraid.. He is cozy where he is and feels this is where he can provide ( be it well or not).. I know because i go through the same thing.. but i'm your husband.. I want to stay in my home town cause i can work here i know people.. and i feel safe.. but my husband makes me move to CHina.. I hate it there.. and everytime i agree last min or whatever i freak out and don't want to go.. Cause i'm scared.and i make up a million and one excuses... You'll have to find a way to make him feel safe and be patient with him if you want to win.. it's not an easy battle especially if he is from a small town

ad - Monday, 27 Apr
Everyone has there moments in a relationship, just give it time. I'm sure he will follow you and the baby anywhere=)

glowingmommy2be - Monday, 27 Apr
maybe explaining that giving your child a better way of life is what the real focus should be and by staying in the same town it would be harmful/limit the opportunities for the baby. Maybe looking into moving somewhere close, but yet not in that town? If he loves you and the baby, he will be willing to do what is best for you both.