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AllyCat62683
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31-8-2010 - Big changes.... so soMy mood while writing this blog:
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So some things have been going on at home for the last few months and they haven't been very positive. Jason and I have not been getting along for quite some time now and it has really been miserable living together. He was not being the man I needed him to be and stepping up around the house like I repeatedly asked him to. Jason was drinking almost every night and became a very angry person. I kept telling him he needed to shape up or ship out because I was tired of it. I had a feeling this was going to happen and you can see from all my blogs things haven't gone very smoothly the last couple years for us so its like this was the inevitable. He is already in the process of moving his stuff out which is great because I cannot stand to be around him but he just suddenly did it when I wasn't expecting it. I was under the impression he was not going to be moving out for a couple of months so I could at least get my finances taken care of. But now he has informed me he's only giving me a couple hundred and I am on my own. So now I have the entire rent bill to bit and all the bills. And Jason thinks $300/mo is going to be enough for me to help out. That is way less than he was paying when he was sharing the bills with me and I was struggling! To top it all off he is trying to say that this is some how my doing becaues I wanted him out. Yes I wanted him out but to say December he would be out and now he is going to be gone like this week? Oh and he wants to leave some stuff at the house cause he won't have a place to store it?!?!? Ummmm ok. I did not want this to turn ugly and from the beginning I was trying to be mature about it. Then I get called all kinds of names like whore and slut and bitch because I left for a night to be away from him. Then we fought and the next weekend I went to a friends house cause I couldn't stand to be around him and I get an accidental text from him that he meant to send to his friends calling me a whore! So fine I want him out but to just bounce out and say he is a couple hundred good luck hardly seems fair. I am very upset and angry and am now sick and feeling like crap. I am feeling totally overwhelmed with stress and I just want him out. I am not sure if I can go for child support through the courts because I already make close to too much to get assistance so I feel like I am just stuck.


6 Comments on Big changes....


~Blessed By GOD~ - Wednesday, 1 Sep
well if your not happy then you shouldnt be with him....dont ever think that because you have kids you should stay sometimes people grow apart its gonna be rough at first you will have to learn to adapt and ask family for help and soon enough you will be happy again and have your finicail stuff in order pray and seek the guidance of god he will never lead you wrong!!

stacky - Wednesday, 1 Sep
Best of luck hunni, once you get through the inital struggles you will be SO much happier without all of the drama and so will the kids. Get all the assistance you can for now until you can manage on your own and do go after child support, if you are struggling now...they will see that after analyzing your finances vs. income, ect! good luck and I am always here if you need to chat..sadly I can kind of relate. My mariage is on the rocks too but we just keep being miserable:(

damariskynbaby3 mama - Tuesday, 31 Aug
Sorry u are going thru tough times but u never know thingd happen for reason and u will get thru this def take him to child support no matter how much u make everything matters u know.. he's a jerk and u don't need him.. and ur kids don't need that drama either best of luck mama

baby-beiler - Tuesday, 31 Aug
it doesnt matter about how much you make you could get child support i know that even if you get 50 bucks to help take care of your little girl it is better than nothing. But i hope you get more! anyways i didn't know it was going so bad. I was hoping that it was new job on facebook as you seemed to be fed up with them as well. Wow I am really sorry and I hope that he can grow up and step up to the plate. Keep us updated or just vent when you need too okay? I prayed for your family.

indy5225 - Tuesday, 31 Aug
so sorry ! god will guide best ! stay strong !

ladykilla421 - Tuesday, 31 Aug
Oh hun. All of this must be so hard on you. But at least you are getting yourself and your kids out of a relationship where you are unhappy. You deserve nothing less than a man who treats you like a queen. As for child support I dont think it matters how much income you have, if they are his kids, he HAS to pay support for them, even if you were a millionnaire, he would still be obliged to pay.
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