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20-11-2009 - B*TCH!

My mood while writing this blog: FURIOUS!

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My Life...

Has been rudely interrupted by a horrible B*TCH that is trying to take the most important things in my life.

It all started two days ago. I work as a sub at a daycare, First Gear Academy. I get paid decent and I love what I do. I am around children that inspire me everyday. Well, I was in a classroom with this teacher and we were talking about biters. Because the classroom we are in are kids that are one year olds, they bite because they can't express their anger so they bite. Well I was letting this teacher know that when I was at my other center there was this little boy that bit regularly and that one time he went to bite a child and I put my hand on his head to redirect him. Well another teacher in the classroom thought I did what I was supposed to do in the case of some child biting. So I felt good about this so I was letting her know I had experience with biters. I was also a biter myself. I was also letting her know that when I was younger that my old babysitter used to bite me back when I bit other kids to show that it hurts. She would never leave a mark but still she did it to make it shock me into not biting again. Well it worked. So I told her that my daughter is now starting to bite, she is 1 now. So I was letting her know that I didn't believe in the whole biting the child. So I told her I made gestures to the whole biting scenero to my daughter. I would hold her arm, open my mouth and show her my teeth. Then I would lightly pat my mouth like a kiss to her arm to show her that this is biting and it hurts. I usually say oooOwwwweee. So it's at a better understanding to her about biting. She doesn't know what biting means you know and I was telling this teacher what helped my daughter not bite.

So this teacher said she felt really uncomfortable with the conversation, yeah right. She ended up telling management that I hit that child at the other daycare, and she is concerned that my daughter and these kids are in danger. So I was let go on a temporary leave of absences. After talking to management my self they told me that this teacher called child protective services(cps) on me, and they should be contacting me shortly. It's bull shit, because management told me that she said that I bite my child (leaving mark), and hit that child and I didnt report it. WOW! So she really fucked me.

It's her word against mine, and I feel that management is believing her. It's not fair that I am in this boat. I am one of the best mothers around, and my daughter means more to me then anything else in the world. My life revolves around my daughter. That is why I was working to make her future better. My future looks like it is coming to an end now. I am going to school for children, and trying to become a second grade teacher, and if they believe her lies. My future with kids ENDS NOW. CPS is going to interview me and see if I am a threat to my daughter and when they see my house that is all baby proofed, and toys everywhere and she has no marks on her body at all she is the happiest baby ever. Then because I know that she did this intentional and I know that she doesnt like me. I am going to sue her for deformation of character, slander, intentionally interefering with my job, and pain and suffering. I have a feeling that I am going to lose my job, because she is lying. Now. I don't know what to do. Has anyone ever dealt with this kind of thing and if so can you give me some advice to how I should go about this?

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1 Comments on B*TCH!


bluejeans - Sunday, 22 Nov
What a bitch!! Try not to stress the truth will come out in the end. Once they see what is realy going on you wont be in any trouble at all. Why did she do this to you?? I haven t been in this situation so I dont really know what to say but keep your head up everything will work out you didnt do anything wrong,