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Ashes~is~Blessed
Age: 27
Country: -US
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City: St. George
Partner: My Love ~ Shawn
Children: Yes, 4
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18-9-2009 - The worst thing that could happen....Just so sad heartbrokenMy mood while writing this blog:
heartbroken



Saturday morning my ex-husband (who is still one of my best friends) called me to tell me that his former step daughter and his son's older sister had died. She was only 16 years old. Her and three of her friends were in a jeep climbing up the steep letter B on our mountain side. It represents Bountiful. The jeep flipped and she was thrown from the jeep. She hit the ground and the vehicle landed on top of her. The other three were just fine. I just cried as that is my worst fear. I could never imagine getting that call.

Dustin (my ex) just came to get Keiley for the night after and had just come from Porscha's veiwing. DJ (my stepson...well used to be but I still consider him my son) came running out and just cried in my arms. He is only 10 years old. Dustin was crying saying that was the hardest thing he has ever had to do. I kissed DJ and Keiley and told them I loved them so much. I told Keiley to take care of her daddy and big brother tonight cuz they are going to need some extra love. As they pulled away I just started to cry. It makes me sick to my stomach to think of what Wendy is going through. I just ache. Just keep them in your thoughts and prayers tomorrow as they say their final goodbyes to their little girl at her funeral.

Love on your children extra tonight.....God bless ladies!




19 Comments on The worst thing that could happen....Just so sad


jammingirl - Monday, 21 Sep
aww im so sorry! thats soo sad :(

amy011 - Monday, 21 Sep
Oh that is really really sad. What a waste of a life, thoughts are with you x

MamaLuvnJah - Sunday, 20 Sep
I'm so sorry for your loss. May God Yahweh be w/ you and your family. Amen

STCT - Sunday, 20 Sep
I'm so sorry to hear that. I thoughts are with you all.

hippiemommy09 - Saturday, 19 Sep
oh my goodness that is sooo sad!!!! you will all be in my thoughts!

Cherryb0m - Saturday, 19 Sep
i am soo sorry! i hug and kiss elizabeth every single day and tell her much mommy and daddy love her and how very special she is. i cant even imagine getting that call.

SarahLJ - Saturday, 19 Sep
Aww thats so sad :-( I'm so sorry hun.

ammunitionbutterfly - Saturday, 19 Sep
omg I'm crying now!!!

R-N-E-Bump - Saturday, 19 Sep
Oh how devistating. Please let them know they are in my prayers.

biziemom - Saturday, 19 Sep
That is so sad, my thoughts and heart goes out to them, i hope that everything gets better soon. best wishes and thoughts to them.

kaysfamily - Saturday, 19 Sep
ohhh thats soo sad, i am soo sorry =( it's soo hard to lose someone so close and they are sooo young too! i'm very sorry for ur family, *hugs* just wondering if u are close to DJ like talking to him everyday kinda thing. i think he's gonna need a lot of love and someone to talk too. ur family is in our prayers *hugs*

ttcbby1 - Saturday, 19 Sep
OMG Sweetie I am SO sorry for your loss! My thoughts & prayers are with all of you! xx

claire louise - Saturday, 19 Sep
Oh no so sorry to hear the bad news. Sending u some hugs.xxx

DiandClover - Saturday, 19 Sep
Woah, I am so sorry that this shocking news has rocked your family. You are such a strong, supportive woman, and seem to know what needs to be done to help things 'feel right; in any situation. Good for you for being so amazing in this terrible situation. Take care, and yes, I always hug my loved ones extra hard 'just in case' the worst happens, though (knock wood) hope that never happens.

JuggaletteMommy2anAngel - Saturday, 19 Sep
awww hun i am soooo sorry to hear. you have me in tears just thinking about that poor little boy who lost his sister cryin in your arms and you telling your daughter to keep an eye on them cause they need it. My thoughts and prayers are both all of you.

mrs lady - Friday, 18 Sep
Omg that is horrible, I am so sorry.

KylaRaquel - Friday, 18 Sep
Aw, that's so sad! I had to get "the call" about my dad when he was killed in a car accident, but to get the call for your son or daughter would just be so devastating! I could hardly even immagine!

TanMansMomma32 - Friday, 18 Sep
aww I am sorry hun!!! =(

tasha3withwingsbailey - Friday, 18 Sep
They will be in my prayers.. So sorry for the loss of a precious child. May she rest in peace.
Photos
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Angel (2002) Keiley (2003) Tiernan-Philip-Campbell (2008) Charlie-J-Campbell (2010)

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