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24-2-2009 - I sometimes hate doctors!

My mood while writing this blog: Pissy, Worried, Mad...

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Well, here it goes. I found out last week wednesday that I was pregnant, what a shock! Anyhow, my doctor's visit on thursday confirmed that I really was pregnant. On friday, my younger daughter had her birthday party at Chuck E Cheese's, she's now 4! I had been feeling crampy for most of the day and my brown spotting (which was barely there the day before) had increased quite a bit so I left a message for my doctor. The nurse called me back and told me I should go to the ER because my body might be trying to get rid of the baby. So, Friday evening my husband and I go to the ER. They do the usual, urine, blood test, asking a bunch of questions and then we wait in the room for over an hour! Finally, in pops dr Moustafa with ultrasound machine in tow. He starts asking me questions like when was my lmp, when did I take the pregnancy test, what were my symptoms, etc. He then proceeds to roll his eyes and chuckle at me when I tell him I took the test a day before I was supposed to get my period. He said that he didn't know why I did that and that most women don't take the test early (what a moron)! The entire time he's talking to me he's hinting at the fact that I have no reason to be in the ER because I'm so early and that I don't know anything about my body or being pregnant. So, he does his vaginal ultrasound without saying a single word to me or showing me anything. Then, when he's done he tells me that he may have seen something but it could just be nothing and that 50% of women pass their pregnancy with their menstrual cycle without knowing it. HELLO!!! I am not having a menstrual cycle, I know that I am pregnant, I've never experienced this before, I am NOT an idiot! So, my husband and I leave and I cry and am so upset because I got no answers and left with more concerns than I had arrived with. So, yesterday I called my doctor and explained what had happened and how upset I was. I now have an appointment scheduled with an ob/gyn on thursday at 3pm for a thourough exam and another ultrasound. Geez, sometimes doctors can be so rude and act like the world owes them something! As if being pregnant isn't filled with enough worries, they just wanna go and add right to them! So, I'm still having occasional cramping/pain down there and having brown spotting here and there. I'm just hoping and praying that everything is okay with the baby. But, like my husband keeps reminding me, whatever is supposed to happen, will happen. We both believe this, but it's nice because I can still tell that he's worried about it too. Well, ladies, keep me in your thoughts please and I'll let you all know what happens come thursday.

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1 Comments on I sometimes hate doctors!


aidens mommee - Tuesday, 24 Feb
Hey!! Congrats on the pregnancy!!! Sorry you had to go through all of this. Definitely let me know what happens on thursday!!! Anyway... LONG time no talk! Where have you been?? Dominic is getting so big.. and what a cutie!!! :) Nice to hear from you!! Hope you start to feel better soon... KIT!!!