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30-3-2009 - The first 4 weeks Amazed but shattered!My mood while writing this blog:
Amazed but shattered!



Wow! I cannot believe how quickly the last 4 weeks have flown by! So scary to think that in another 4 weeks, Ben will be 2 months old!!

A lot has happened over the past month. Ben surprised us by arriving a week early, we were readmitted on day 5 so that he could have phototherapy for 2 nights to treat his jaundice + then he developed thrush on his tongue which caused breastfeeding to become increasingly difficult! He must be getting the milk though - his weight gain has been brilliant!

Birth7lb 8oz
5 days7lb 6oz
1 week, 4 days7lb 12oz
2 weeks, 4 days8lb 9oz
3 weeks, 5 days9lb 8oz

The first few days of feeding were agony. I said to James that I would rather go through childbirth again than breastfeed! My nips were sore, blisters appeared + they would bleed during feeds. Things started to improve after a week then BAM..Thrush appears on Ben's tongue. Feeding is shit again. The problem is getting him to latch on properly. Once that happens, he sucks well + feeding is fairly comfortable. But he sucks sucks sucks before he's even latched, which means that his mouth is never wide enough. This makes me sore + Ben becomes frustrated because I keep taking him off + trying again. I asked the Health Visitor about expressing so that he can have his night feed from a bottle (this seems to be the time when I get the most upset, probably because we are both tired). She advised me to wait until the thrush has cleared up to see if he feeds well again. I've been using Daktarin oral gel on Ben's tongue for over a week + we're finally seeing some improvement. Hopefully this time next week the thrush would have gone + feeding will be easier. I really hope so. Does anyone else have problems getting their babies to latch on properly?

Other than the feeding issues, I'm really enjoying being Ben's Mummy. We've been on lots of trips out + about (which have kept me sane!). Ben passed his newborn hearing test last Tuesday + we finally registered his birth this morning. He exists!!

I'm starting to get back to normal (ish) now. I can't believe how much weight I gained during pregnancy. I went from 10st 3lb to 13st 4lb!!! I'm now down to 11st 5lb + can squeeze back into my jeans. I have finally managed to do the top button up! Woo!!! The stretchmarks are looking terrible. No worries though, I never was one for baring all on the beach!

Anyway, I feel like I've gone on quite enough.

Congratulations to all the new Mummies + Good luck to those about to pop!

Love from Becca and Benjamin x




4 Comments on The first 4 weeks


scottishkate - Wednesday, 1 Apr
Hey hon
i'm so glad i ready your post. I am having the same problems with Isabella. The first week was fine once my milk settled in but the last few days have been a nightmare. She just seems to have changed her mind about latching onto my boob! We had to express and use a bottle the last two nights. I don't understand why health nurses are so dead against it! Can't they understand that our babies getting frustrated and tired makes us so stressed and upset which then affects our milk supply? I'm so tempted now to start on the formula but risk the rath of every midwife and health care professional. To be honest, i'm going to give it another week but if i'm (and stu) still really stressed about it i'm giving it up. There is no evidence of any children coming to harm having formula (i was a formula fed baby)

Anyway best go for now. Talk to you soon.
Kxxx


gemzc - Monday, 30 Mar
During the 1st week i breastfed Nora i got terrible nipple sores too but i used lamsil and that helped with the healing and if i ever do feel a little sore I use it still. Mayb u hould give it a try or vasaline. xx

mysurprise - Monday, 30 Mar
It's so weird how your story and mine are very very similar. The only thing different is that my Michael never developemd thrush. He's had such problems latching on, made me bleed, cut me, got frustrated all the time...boy was I exhausted! And he went back into the hspital for the jaundice...he was 2 weeks early. I'm guessing he's around 7 and a half pounds now. He's a little peanut! But going out and seeing family, going for walks, has definitely kept my sanity in check. I can't believe our boys are already 1 month old. It's going by too quickly for my liking! lol Take care :o)

SAHM-with-children - Monday, 30 Mar
well congrats hun and yeah the grow fast don't they?.....I have my baby boy growing on the inside of me like wild fire....lol.....I am really starting to blow out now and omg the back pain from being so big now....yuk......but it's ok he will be out soon enough lol
Photos
13 weeks 2 days (2008, 09, 02) 13 weeks 2 days (2008, 09, 02) 20 weeks 1 day (2008, 10, 24) 39 weeks (2009, 03, 09)

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Benjamin-William (2009)

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