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13-1-2009 - I am keeping the baby!

My mood while writing this blog: Happy!

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Ok well heres the update! The babys dad has contacted me and has decided to help as much as he can he comes here after work and cleans and cooks and helps with my other two. He has been giving money to help with the bills! I have recently discovered his mother is dying of cancer and she as well as her son have asked me to keep the baby and I as well was having my doubts with adoption as you all know. She will be throwing me a baby shower! And handed me a pink bow and said if it is not to much to ask I just laughed and said I will try. But they ultimataliy did not make me chose to keep the baby. I prayed many hours and decided that this is gods will and he has given me yet another gift to love. And if he thinks that I can hanndle it then I know I can. It will be hard yes but it is all well worth it and my heart and energy will just get bigger. I am now thanking the lord for his genours gift as I have talked with many TTC mommy hopefulls on this wonderfull site and I am so blessed. I do not have to walk in there shoes they have endured more heartache trying to get there gift and mine was handed to me I am so selfish for not being greatful. God bless You TTC mommys out there I hope you get the gift of your dreams you so desrive it. Thanks for all your support.

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6 Comments on I am keeping the baby!


MichelleMc(pink!) - Wednesday, 14 Jan
That is amazing! How wonderful that your baby's dad and his mother are being so helpful and supportive! What an amazing blessing from the Lord! Praise to Him, and congratulations on your upcoming addition to your family! :)

mindyisliamsmama! - Wednesday, 14 Jan
I'm glad that you were able to come to the right decision for you!! This baby will have a great mom who cares about him/her so much! :-) Good luck sweetie! Keep me updated! :-)

sandy_p - Wednesday, 14 Jan
i think any choice you made would be amazing you will be a great mommy to 3 if u ever need to talk or vent im here i know we dont know eachother but im an internet button away god bless you and your family

Aliwitbaby - Wednesday, 14 Jan
Yay! Congrats!!

metsmom - Wednesday, 14 Jan
Im glad that you have came to a decision that is right for you. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy and new little blessing to love.

Mrs.Bolden - Wednesday, 14 Jan
i think that you have made a great decision... if you feel that god has put this baby into your life for you to keep then that is what you should do...