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| 01-5-2009 - May is finally here! |
My mood while writing this blog: Ok |
Wow finally May.. I can say " i'm due next month" now.. Hehe.. no need to add the end of next month part..
I'm feeling pretty good.. I'm slow and sluggish but motivated to get some things done everyday.. Didn't get much sleep last night.. I tend to nap 3 -4 small naps a day as apposed to a large one.. Is this a body prep thing or a matter of outta routine?
Belly is measuring at 34 at 33 weeks.. I'm due back at the Midwife May 11th.
I've also planned a small trip with a friend ( who was going to see a concert in montreal and wanted to find someone to tag along to save gas and hotel costs) .. So at week 34/35 i'll be going to MONTREAL with daughter! 4.5 hour drive from here.. I can't wait.. I live with my parents.. I'm totally looking forward to not waking up with someone shouting at no one in particular.. My mom has always been like this.. I mean i love her.. but she's a little YOOHOO. and menopausal now.. so it's 10x worst. For example. I get up every morning to get my daughter ready for school, make her lunch ect.. My Dad is nice enough to take her to the bus for me so i don't need to get dressed.He usually take off for morning coffee after that anyways.. Anyways last night at about 12(midnight) my mom gets up has oatmeal.. She left the oatmeal box out and keetle. So when my daughter got up this morning.. She say "oatmeal!" and decided to eat that.. She left the wrappers on the counter . My mom gets up and immediately jumps on her about the wrappers and puts them in the garbage.. I told her she could have simply reminded my daughter to put them in the garbage before she heads up stairs ( to finish getting ready) Apparently this type of comment is going against my mom.. I pointed out that it's a little confusing for kids when they see that you left stuff out and your always on them about things not 2 mins after you leave it there.. That it's not very productive to shout and clean up after them.. Rather.. kindly ask them to pick it up.. failing to pick it up after being reminded then mayeb shouting is more warented.. My point is.. It's always like this.. My daughter and i have these bad habits that make my mom crzy but we do them by her example.. and cannot understand why it's ok for her and not us ( yes its her house i know).. Laundry is another big one.. in order for me to do mine i have to finish hers.. She doesn't like my folding though so once i've dried her stuff i have 2 options.. 1 attempt to fold it even if it's not to her standard it's atleast not wrinkled and she no worst for wear having to refold. or 2. leave it all unfolded in a basket for her to iron ( this is what she does to me when i forget!).. Normally i fold it cause, I mean i'm trying to be thoughtful here and sometimes she leaves things for 5-6 days straight..but no matter what i do.. I wake up once a week to her shouting and waking the whole house cause i folded her laundry substandard.
Needless to say.. MONTREAL For 5 days.. Is going to be soooooooooooo welcome..NOthing to do but relax and shop a bit...afterall it's Montreal!.. I'm greatful i can live here rent free and they don't ask much of me.. but i'm 27 and sometimes this can feel like hell..and it's stressful.. it's like walking on broken glass.. although the glasss is full of love still stings..
Then when i get back from Montreal.. My hubby will be here 2 days later.. then the birthing pool 1 week later.. then baby.. See it's all going soo fast! May brings the begin of alot of endings to things that all started in September/ October.. Finally an end! Finally ..
May 1st is exciting although nothing is going on today
1 Comments on May is finally here!greenmommy -
Friday, 1 May Wow! I'm glad you are getting a break from your mom! I can't live with another woman! Period! Not my mom, sister-in-law, Not even a roomate. I can't share ahouse with anymore progesterone. My daughter gets on my nerves with all her little messes. But I love her so much I just put up with it. Last night we scrapped booked a binder for her to put all her art work in . My dtr is 6. Well, I wish I were going on vacation I sooo need a vacation. If only I knew Donald Trump and he would lend me a little money for maternity leave then I wouldn't have to work until the end. B/c this pregnancy is just as painful as the last one. Well you are g oing to have a blast in Montreal!!