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17-4-2009 - Had an Emergency visit to L&D Much BetterMy mood while writing this blog:
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Well Ladies Wednesday was one them Hot shit on a Sunny Day type of day....I ended up in the L&D!

It was Wednesday, my sister and I were in CVS picking up my prescription...and I started feeling a sharp pain...so I sat down for a few...and about time I made it to the car...I could not move...I had the worst pain ever and it wasn't letting up...I never had contractions before (my first kid) so I'm thinking something else is horribly wrong....It was to the point where I couldn't even move and didn't want to be touched...so my sister called my mom to my rescue and she drove me down to hospital...I think I cried for 3 hours straight...they put me on monitors and said it wasn't contractions...well what is it...I still didn't get a good explanation...but umm yeah sooo I'm in excruciating pain...my eyes stayed full of tears...then finally they gave me pain releif....that mess took soooooo long to kick in,...and after 3 long hours of hurting....it just went away...i just felt real sore afterwards like i did 100 situps....they still did U/S, scans and put me on antibiotics and kept me over night...(those beds are so not comfy)...Everything they examined came back good...only thing they could say was bad contractions or bowel spasms...no real definite diagnosis...I'm thinkin it had to be something that ripped or ruptured...cause the pain was off the charts...but I'm feeling waaaay better now...

My mom, sister, and two of my good friends came to spend time with me at the hospital...my mom tried telling my BD what was going on...and he made it about him...i'm too emotional and hormonal he says...suprisingly she didn't go all the way off....she was just like well if you care about someone other than yourself Shala and your baby are in the damn ER...he is such an ASS...Well he didn't even come to hospital...he called one time acting concern...phone convo laste 1 min...and he was like well let me finish cleaning up...I had to hang up and pray...I don't understand how I ended up pregnant by someone who i thought was great and is extremely a selfish ass beyotch...

but I'm just happy me and baby are doing great...he's a big boy measuring at 33 weeks and 3 days...he's looking so cute...

TTYL ladies and thanks for listening...



12 Comments on Had an Emergency visit to L&D


AllyCat62683 - Tuesday, 21 Apr
Glad to hear that you are ok now and that the baby is doing well. It is awful being pregnant and having weird pains that you cannot figure out the whys and the wheres they are coming from. Men are insensitive pigs and women are by far the superior species to go through what we go through while dealing with their crap.

mizzkeisha - Friday, 17 Apr
I'm so glad everything turned out to be ok with you and the baby and try not to let BD stress you out too much. They can be some reall ASSHOLES!!! I have been asking myself almost everyday how did I end up pregnant by my BD.

firsttimemom8122 - Friday, 17 Apr
OMG!!! I'm so happy everything turned out OK,,, Girl I am a witness to pain,,, REMEMBER I had a baby in my tubes.. OMG you haven't felt pain until you have tubal pregnancy.. BUt I understand your frustration with your BD (or should I say sperm donor) He is SUCH AN ASS!!! I'm glad your mother didn't get out of character because I sure as hell would have.

kelly5150rn - Friday, 17 Apr
I ended up in L&D today too. couldnt feel Max move & bad back pain. They hooked me up & heart rate was fine. What a scare!

indigocream - Friday, 17 Apr
Im glad you and baby are fine.... dont worry about the BD he will be someone elses problem... trust me I have some baby daddies and I look at them now and just laugh... because I must have been tripping to believed they ever deserved me or my children.... Stephen my oldest son tried for years to hook up with his dad.... then one day he said damn mom dads a loser.... they have to get it themselves... You just be the mom that when your son looks into the camera he will say hello mom you are the greatest.

dinahmite425 - Friday, 17 Apr
waht happen to the date you had with your ex

silentchic - Friday, 17 Apr
awww mama glad that everything is good

hbankich - Friday, 17 Apr
Well I am glad that you are okay and dont worry about your BD that is why you should name the baby what you want to name him because he he does not seem that concerned about him.

missyv28 (pink) - Friday, 17 Apr
glad you and baby are ok and take it easy! Don't worry about the big loser BD, he's not even worth the stress!

Anesha - Friday, 17 Apr
Glad you are feeling better! If I were you I would not even call that sorry a$$ again. I would live like he didnt even exist since he thinks he is doing you a favor by being your BD or something. I bet you if he got ignored he'd come around. JERK! I am sorry but that is how you have to treat people that treat you and your child like that. You 2 are not an inconvenience or an interruption in his life. You both should be viewed as a blessing and a gift. This is his loss. You are beautiful. TTYL

Southernbell3 - Friday, 17 Apr
im glad your feeling btter!

gwendalyne - Friday, 17 Apr
Hey girl...I'm glad that everything was ok w/you and the baby...please don't let that jerk stress you out...he's missing out...
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