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Chrissy-511
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17-6-2009 - Just venting... depressedMy mood while writing this blog:
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Ok. I posted the Dear Non-Pregnant people thing on my myspace blog. Someone told my MIL to read it bc i guess they thought it was directed to her just bc it says grandparents & MIL in it. She read it & responded by saying she thought it was directed to her & it was the rudest letter she's ever read. I did not direct it to her. In fact, i didn't even think she would ever read it bc she barely even knows how to use myspace & she gets on there like once every 3 months anyways. I didn't direct it to anyone at all. I'm pretty lucky with how understanding & supportive she is compared to some stories i have heard from women on here. So i tried calling her & she didn't answer so i wrote her a message back on myspace telling her what it was about & that it wasn't directed to her. She doesn't answer the phone when she is mad at the person calling so i got her SIL who lives next door to her to tell her that i sent her a message. I hope she reads it understands that it wasn't to her. Blah...My big bro is in prison...again...he has twin 8yr old boys. Hubby & I are COMPLETELY seriously broke right now & my bro wants me & sis to send him some money & come see him this Saturday. It's like 2 hours away. We're supposed to go with the twins mom & pitch in gas money & give him money & one of my nephews has a ball game Friday that charges $5 to get in! I don't have any money to give at ALL!!! I feel so bad that i can't help out, but i just don't have the money. My nephew also made all-stars & that's the game i want to go to that charges. He is tryingto come up with money so he can play bc they make you come up with so much money & i already said i might could give them $10 or a little more & if i do that then i definately can't afford anything else. Like we are BARELY going to be scrapping by this month. It's all bc hubby got a no insurance ticket for the car that we don't even use really. We're trying to sell it so that's why we don't have insurance on it & the tag is expired also. So now we have to buy a tag for it, pay late fees, & get a month of insurance on it to take to court on the 2nd! That's going to be at least $200 unexpected money spent! Plus it's fathers day & we have to get gifts & stuff. If only i was rich...people stress me out about these things bc i can't stand not being able to help people out. I feel so bad when people i love need things & i can't do anything. It makes me feel like complete shit. I have always tried to help everyone out as much as i possibly can. Hubby & i got into a fight last night bc for some reason he wanted to talk about what would happen if we got a divorce & he flat out told me that our son would live with him! I was like YOU ARE CRAZY! He can't take my son away from me. He said when he's 12 he could decide who he wanted to live with & i know that. He said he would make my son hate me & he would get custody of him when he was 12 & never let me see him. I know he was just upset when he said that bc he thinks i will be an evil bitch if we got divorced & would try to take his son away from him,b ut i would never do that. I don't believe in it unless the father would cause harm to the child or something like that. Anyways..that's just a whole other situation that i don't want to think about...sorry i know this is kind of long but it does help just me stop stressing as much just to get it out...


4 Comments on Just venting...


mumette - Thursday, 18 Jun
Wow...that sounds like some psycho nonsense coming from your hubby, no offense..... thats quite the convo starter.....as for money...I feel you on that one....I have no idea what teh hell Im gonna do when the babies' born. As for the MIL..she'll get over it...your pregnant and if she cant take it as a joke like everybody else did then she can be mad.....dont fret about it and if you dont have any money to donate then say so...or cut out those fathers day presents...if anybody says anything then you can mention that you are in dire straights and nobodys picking up after you.

brendaboo13 - Wednesday, 17 Jun
why does your hubby want to fight over a divorce that isn't even happening? I thought u guys were working things out? seems silly to get heated over what if's about the future. You guys should be happy you're having a child. I'd just try to compromise on the differences you have but stressing about something that's not happening now is just nuts. You are prego and don't need the stress.

Mommy4The1st - Wednesday, 17 Jun
Don't stress anymore over you MIL. I'm in your same boat on MIL's and money, but difference is, you're way more caring than me. Because if MIL got upset, I'd proly just tell her to blow me and not think twice about it. But everyone is different and I hope you let everyone and everything else just roll off and not get you down! It could always be worse. At least you aren't gonna be like your MIL when your son is grown with babies!

PhatNSassy - Wednesday, 17 Jun
I hope things go well with your MIL. I understand the money woes! You might just have to sit this one out! You can only do so much. It's not going to help anyone ifyou spend what you need and then you are asking those same people if you can have some mondey to pay for your obligations! I would try to not have conversations about divorce. That's just asking for a fight. I don't like the way that he thinks at all. To me it's a big warning sign. With an attitude like things things rarely go smoothly. But honestly you guys shouldn't be conversing about that any way! It will just get you both all worked up and defensive. I know with the hormones I have flowing I would probably smack the shit out of my husband if we got into that conversation right now. You have enough stress! Avoid pointless fights and stressers!
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